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Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by TiffanyJ(f): 1:22pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Sorry to say this but you are the genesis of your problem. Why are you crying foul? You were sleeping with a man for money, moved in with hiall these while without meeting any of his friends and family? He gave you money and you returned the favour with your body. You needed money why not go get a job? You have two hands, legs, and eyes, yet you chose to give up your dignity to a man you know nothing about. My advice to you is to get a job, so as to pay your bills and move on. Its your choice to decide if you want to give up the baby for adoption or not. 1 Like |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by Jetjacky(m): 1:27pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
agarawu23 , freemanan , Spaxon , krystalzkris , anitafancis first off I should tell you... you have many forts... an expectant mother wanting to take away her baby... you stayed for money... which makes me reminisce back to the post yesterday... “Ladies why do we have boyfriend” you took him for money and lavished carelessly... you should have saved those money and aide yourself.... and him on his rainy days lalasticlacla |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by sisisioge: 1:27pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Your relationship was founded on the wrong premises. When those unsustainable fire burn out, there will be nothing left. No love, no particular intangible resource to tap from ... Just pull yourself together and open your eyes to your reality-Single motherhood .May God grant you the grace to pull through and the will to survive. In another one year, you will feel a lot differently because you will by then know how important love is. Good luck. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by edwife(f): 2:53pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
ifyalways: Even you ify? There is really no hiding for me hun? |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by coldFLARES1(m): 4:02pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Story for the gods! thieves that see men as meal tickets 3 Likes |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by Nobody: 4:19pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
anitafancis:MY ADVICE is for you to look for another lady as docile as you and GET HER PREGNANT. By doing this, you will FREE YOURSELF. |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by Nobody: 4:19pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
anitafancis:MY ADVICE is for you to look for another lady as docile as you are and GET HER PREGNANT. By doing this, you will FREE YOURSELF. |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by free2ryhme: 4:23pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Some girls get fish brain. What advise do you want us to give when as a matured adult with your condition of suffer you compounded it with a pregnancy? Is it difficult to understand / insist no sex before marriage? Don't give that peer pressure or he sweet talk you. And to compound your suffer to raise to power 3 na man wey don marry u go get belle for with 3 kids? What were you thinking he shld leave his wife and children for you? You don't need advise becos you refused to advise yourself |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by free2ryhme: 4:23pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
You were enjoying the sêx e dey sweet, abi? You don see money your leg no gree close? Condom you no gree use. You now disturb us for advise Here is the advise, Born the child, get ready to get a job to support that child and look for an agency ro support you 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by itsIYKE(m): 4:23pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Pray for a change of heart...sorry |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by Dexema(m): 4:23pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Story oo,the dude has paid for all he's doing to you in cash. Prepare for the not so easy journey of motherhood especially as a single parent. Just pray the child would bring you joy and happiness later on in life. Good luck. |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by amalektch: 4:26pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Too bad... should have gotten a job when you had the chance... rather than looking for a meal ticket in the shape of a man. |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by Jamb2016Expo: 4:27pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
I tell you DAT time sey make you date me and you no greed 2 Likes |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by TheMadame(f): 4:28pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
@Anitafrancis, Darling, This is a mess,but when you play with fire,you are bound to get burnt. You are pregnant,and your cash cow has abandoned you. What to do now? I suggest you take some of the money he gave/was giving you and start a small business in front of your house,for example selling small denomination recharge cards/phone call business. I am gonna be brutally frank with you,bringing up a child is not easy. You are gonna need money for antenatal fees and post natal after the baby is delivered. Baby clothes,nappies and other sundry expenses are no joke. Find something doing that will bring in petty cash because I am totally worried about the future of that baby in your womb. Try your best for now and when you put to bed,come back here with your story. I am sure people will help you out. Be strong dear. 4 Likes |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by mastermind1759(m): 4:29pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Money!money!!money!!! U dnt love a guy bcus of moni 1st wrong move u gonna pay 4 heavily..pick urslf.go meet ur family and move on ..Life goes lady .wrng guy at d right tym.... |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by folabayo1(f): 4:29pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
In iyanya s voice... Shawty say she no come for d body o she come for the money ooooo |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by Awanja(m): 4:30pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Bullshit girls can't learn at all depending on a man who is not ur hubby ,maybe u gave him bad luck . |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by kristisking(m): 4:30pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
You young ladies always refuse to learn from other women's predicament.Im sure some ladies will read this but still go ahead and fall victim of the same circumstance.Sometimes I do think maybe some of you are under a spell.Should your situation even push you into the hands of a waiting man in the first instance? Why can't you just get yourself a small business to do instead of depending on a man for assistance Now he has got what he wanted but you will be the one to carry the burden.I wish you people could learn from the mistakes of others. 3 Likes |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by Itzneowizy(m): 4:30pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Juxtified:lol easy na 1 Like |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by Nobody: 4:30pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
anitafancis: How old are you? What do you do for a living? |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by Calebosko(m): 4:31pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Lwkm Shared!!!!!!
I was watching one American movie
yesterday evening with
my
daddy and mummy,as we were watching
the movie,a young
boy
of my age started romancing his
Girlfriend,they kiss each
other
and when the guy's hand crossed the girl's
private part, ( i
looked straight to my daddy and notice that
his eyes had
changed, then all my eyes went straight to
the video) Even
tho I
know my dad wanted me 2 leave d palour at
once..I didn't
care
they were still kissing. then when they both
fell on the bed
near
them (i knew something is going to
happen) and the guy
was
about to open the girl's bra... (dis tym my
dad couldn't
tolerate
my continuous presence anymore) MY
DADDY looked at me
with his eyes red and shouted with a loud
voice "Jessica"!!!!''
have you ironed the car" ? Happy Sunday
guys 9 Likes |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by M4gunners: 4:31pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Hw is this possible to read through this thread, make a comment without bashing? Op said no insult that is not possible. You are a gold digger.Go and get advice from mature Ladies who is currently occupying second wife position in their respective homes that is my advice for you. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by tonychristopher: 4:31pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
anitafancis: All I can say is your stupid and desperate just like many Nigerian women Your side chick, single mother above all after one Live with your mistake If you try to abort that child u will die 1 Like |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by Nobody: 4:32pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
@anitafancis You have to find that guy and ask him to assist you with the baby, it is also his child and you two must share the responsibility. Do you know where he lives or works? |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by fairygeh(f): 4:32pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Hmmm,i was going to type that it serves you right But I remember I am a woman myself,you would be passing through hell I guess. my dear,thats the result of looking for any man to.take care of you,i know things might be difficult for you and the fact that there are really.no jobs out there but then,yiu gave the guy the impression that you ate after his money and he used you, got you pregnant and dumped you. You just have to give birth to that baby, dont even think of doing something nasty to that innocent baby. I pray God sees you through this 2 Likes |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by ViktorMartins(m): 4:32pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
anitafancis: Got no advice to give, just a suggestion! Are you learned? Or you got a vocational skill you can use to add value to humans lives? If none, be careful who you open your legs for next time and don't trust anybody again, your friend knew that dude was married! |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by lilmax(m): 4:33pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
FISH BRAIN |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by tonychristopher: 4:34pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
efreaky: Why adk her what she does She is a shitty slut |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by BTT(m): 4:35pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Money. What money will make people do! |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by helphelp: 4:35pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
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Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by jauntty: 4:36pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
anitafancis:Get a Job...OR go to your parents or relatives...Your baby deserve better. Btw...u screwed up, accept ur mistake and move on. Don't bother running after him, he will not take responsibility For ur baby...if u can't keep n cater for him/her pls do. If not, go to some NGO n lil baby homes for that. 1 Like |
Re: He Got Me Pregnant And Left Me To Suffer by bennyrazz: 4:36pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
@anitafrancis, the deed has been done already, so there is no need crying over spilt milk cuz you just jumped from fry-pan to fire courtesy of your friend. She must be making jest or even mocking you now. I think people out there can learn from your story and come to realise that some friends are just your enemy in disguise. Come to think of it, if you know his house, contact FIDA or other related NGO's. They take care of cases like yours by offering pro-bono services and they might make the man pay through his noses. |
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