BrownCookie:




Fire you too.

benjaminiyke:
Some ladies never find husband b4....when you don clock 35 still waiting for a well made man,your eye go clear.

pinkiberry:
I tell them to get a job then come back.

benjaminiyke:
Some ladies never find husband b4....when you don clock 35 still waiting for a well made man,your eye go clear.

Joy1706:
Gold digger

Largas:


Gold diggers everywhere. When he is made, he won't come after you again for rejecting him when he was nobody.

Tiffarah:
I once read an article here in which a guy expressly stated that jobless guys need not chase women and majority of the guys omline agreed with him on "money first, before women"..... Personally I think a guy who has potentials and jobless at thesame time wouldn't concern himself with issues of the heart or "skirts". I think such will only be bothered about making money and having a steady income instead of spending the lil they have on a lady.... Dnt get me wrong same thing applies to a lady... I believe you have to make a name for yourself before going after a girl or whatever... Atleast you'll be content with your achievment. Same applies to the ladies.

PunkyVeer:


Huh? Please make some sense.

StephanieEzeh:
What's your take? Some jobless guys can be so annoying! Instead of concerning themselves with their life and financial condition, they end up chasing women anyhow as if it's a paid job! . Sending rubbish romantic texts and initiating boring conversations on phone. Go get a job first and come for the girl later. She would appreciate you better.

wissy47:
hmmmm

StephanieEzeh:
Some that come to toast u can't even afford a boxers for themselves

HaneefahRN:
I can date a guy if he is jobless for the time being, what I look out for is the positive potentials in him. Of course he has to be intelligent, ambitious, knows what he wants and work towards it. I'll support him and I'm an optimist, I know things wld work out well with God and hardwork.
But if he is the type that laze around, proudly dependant and expects a job to fall from heaven without working for it, and a dumbo, I can't even spare a 2nd glance at his side.
Personally I'm not the type of lady that expects or depends on a guy financially or materially, I pride myself on that. Why wld I av to make it a burden on a guy tht isn't my husband my financial needs, but the guy must'nt be stingy too though. Even if the girl doesn't ask he cld set up a treat for her when he can afford to.
The but is I can't marry a jobless guy, cos I can't imagine how he wants to cope with the responsibilities marriage brings without a source of income

Eaa247:
My take is dat ds op is a big time gold digger and an runs girl. Decent nd well brought-up chicks prefer to contribute in making dia home.

StephanieEzeh:
What's your take? Some jobless guys can be so annoying! Instead of concerning themselves with their life and financial condition, they end up chasing women anyhow as if it's a paid job! . Sending rubbish romantic texts and initiating boring conversations on phone. Go get a job first and come for the girl later. She would appreciate you better.

Nov15:
Guys with Jobs are good but a guy who is smart and has potentials is better. Some girls may date a guy without job but with brains because they know that joblessness is temporary. Do you know someone can have a job now and loose it after a while. With what is happening in our country now, no job is really guaranteed. I have friends who were working in Banking, Telecoms and Oil sectors who are jobless now due to job cut occasioned by the downturn in the economy.


I will advice that a guy with Job is not neccesarily a guarantee for you to be provided the good things of life. Secondly and most important, as a girl what are you bringing into a relationship. If you are not bringing anything, then just know that you will not be valued by your man.



For me, I finished uni and got a teaching job in a private school. I met this guy one day at the bus stop on my way from school. We got talking and I noticed he was so smart and had a lot of ideas in his head but jobless. I asked him what his plans are as per job. He said he wanted to work for himself. We eventually started dating and to cut the long story short. We are married with kids now for four years. We now have our own school which I manage, We own a logistic and haulage company. we have properties in Lagos and PHC.

Did you notice We own, We have. If you participate in building your home, you can boldly say We but if you came to meet wealth it is always my husband has, my husband owns... The choice is yours ... I rest my case

Truly Well Spoken, Gracias

Joy1706:

Dude shift abeg. Go and find a job

StephanieEzeh:
Dreamer! Don't turn out to be an irresponsible husband and father

StephanieEzeh:
Don't be a fool! I work.