bigtt76:
I will encourage him, walk the path to success with him, marry him if he so desires to else I'll give him my blessings if he chooses not to.

HaneefahRN:
I can date a guy if he is jobless for the time being, what I look out for is the positive potentials in him. Of course he has to be intelligent, ambitious, knows what he wants and work towards it. I'll support him and I'm an optimist, I know things wld work out well with God and hardwork.
But if he is the type that laze around, proudly dependant and expects a job to fall from heaven without working for it, and a dumbo, I can't even spare a 2nd glance at his side.
Personally I'm not the type of lady that expects or depends on a guy financially or materially, I pride myself on that. Why wld I av to make it a burden on a guy tht isn't my husband my financial needs, but the guy must'nt be stingy too though. Even if the girl doesn't ask he cld set up a treat for her when he can afford to.
The but is I can't marry a jobless guy, cos I can't imagine how he wants to cope with the responsibilities marriage brings without a source of income

StephanieEzeh:
What's your take? Some jobless guys can be so annoying! Instead of concerning themselves with their life and financial condition, they end up chasing women anyhow as if it's a paid job! . Sending rubbish romantic texts and initiating boring conversations on phone. Go get a job first and come for the girl later. She would appreciate you better.

HaneefahRN:
I can date a guy if he is jobless for the time being, what I look out for is the positive potentials in him. Of course he has to be intelligent, ambitious, knows what he wants and work towards it. I'll support him and I'm an optimist, I know things wld work out well with God and hardwork.
But if he is the type that laze around, proudly dependant and expects a job to fall from heaven without working for it, and a dumbo, I can't even spare a 2nd glance at his side.
Personally I'm not the type of lady that expects or depends on a guy financially or materially, I pride myself on that. Why wld I av to make it a burden on a guy tht isn't my husband my financial needs, but the guy must'nt be stingy too though. Even if the girl doesn't ask he cld set up a treat for her when he can afford to.
The but is I can't marry a jobless guy, cos I can't imagine how he wants to cope with the responsibilities marriage brings without a source of income

Tiffarah:
I once read an article here in which a guy expressly stated that jobless guys need not chase women and majority of the guys omline agreed with him on "money first, before women"..... Personally I think a guy who has potentials and jobless at thesame time wouldn't concern himself with issues of the heart or "skirts". I think such will only be bothered about making money and having a steady income instead of spending the lil they have on a lady.... Dnt get me wrong same thing applies to a lady... I believe you have to make a name for yourself before going after a girl or whatever... Atleast you'll be content with your achievment. Same applies to the ladies.

adbokus:

It doesn't surprise me that you don't see the sense in those words. What is there to do the sensing anyway. 'Fair&square' she said and fair&square is coming!...

HaneefahRN:
I can date a guy if he is jobless for the time being, what I look out for is the positive potentials in him. Of course he has to be intelligent, ambitious, knows what he wants and work towards it. I'll support him and I'm an optimist, I know things wld work out well with God and hardwork.
But if he is the type that laze around, proudly dependant and expects a job to fall from heaven without working for it, and a dumbo, I can't even spare a 2nd glance at his side.
Personally I'm not the type of lady that expects or depends on a guy financially or materially, I pride myself on that. Why wld I av to make it a burden on a guy tht isn't my husband my financial needs, but the guy must'nt be stingy too though. Even if the girl doesn't ask he cld set up a treat for her when he can afford to.
The but is I can't marry a jobless guy, cos I can't imagine how he wants to cope with the responsibilities marriage brings without a source of income

Nov15:
Guys with Jobs are good but a guy who is smart and has potentials is better. Some girls may date a guy without job but with brains because they know that joblessness is temporary. Do you know someone can have a job now and loose it after a while. With what is happening in our country now, no job is really guaranteed. I have friends who were working in Banking, Telecoms and Oil sectors who are jobless now due to job cut occasioned by the downturn in the economy.


I will advice that a guy with Job is not neccesarily a guarantee for you to be provided the good things of life. Secondly and most important, as a girl what are you bringing into a relationship. If you are not bringing anything, then just know that you will not be valued by your man.



For me, I finished uni and got a teaching job in a private school. I met this guy one day at the bus stop on my way from school. We got talking and I noticed he was so smart and had a lot of ideas in his head but jobless. I asked him what his plans are as per job. He said he wanted to work for himself. We eventually started dating and to cut the long story short. We are married with kids now for four years. We now have our own school which I manage, We own a logistic and haulage company. we have properties in Lagos and PHC.

Did you notice We own, We have. If you participate in building your home, you can boldly say We but if you came to meet wealth it is always my husband has, my husband owns... The choice is yours ... I rest my case

vizkiz:


[b]so you preffer a guy with a job who will later spend all his cash on you at the end of each month right?

You reason like a hungry broke girl to me.

And btw, why don't you get a job and stop being a liability to your poor family
What kind of generation do we live in these days? Our women are just so dumb and so dependant that they can't stand up for themselves! This is so annoying and heartbreaking.

Well, I think I now know why most of them chase after "rich boys" and are later used for rituals. Na with this kin thread the thing dey start.

How much did your mumu "RICH" father have when he married your mother?cuz I think if he isn't a broke ass biitch, we would have been seeing his name all over television. You are here talking shiit while your family is suffering and smiling. Almost all your threads are about broke guys but your family lives in a shiit hole here in lagos.

Come on, don't think we guys are that dump to go for a broke girl like you, all we wanna do is furck you and look for a nice girl with potentials to wife. A girl who wouldn't hide behind a faceless moniker to type shiit. [/b]

PunkyVeer:
TLC explained it better & I think they spoke on behalf of all women

A scrub is a guy who thinks he's fine
He's also known as a buster
Always thinking about what he wants
But all he does is sit on his broke @ss

NO, I don't want your number
And NO, I don't wanna give you mine
NO, I don't wanna meet you nowhere
And NO, I don't want none of your time

NO, I don't want no scrub
A scrub is a kinda guy who gets no love from me
Always hanging on the passenger side of his best friend's ride
Tryna holla at me

You don't have a car but you want me
Oh yes, son, I'm talking to you
You live at home with your mama
Oh yes, son, I'm talking to you
Wanna be with me with no money
Oh no, I don't want no scrub

Naff24:


Thumbs-up

Love supercedes everything, if I don't love him for who he is I will never stick to him in time of his trial.

Perhaps, I am a very independent lady, I'm working as IT consultant to d firm am working with to earn my living and to fulfil my career paths.
So, staying with a broke ass nigga doesn't mean u are doing him a favour, u are rather doing ur self a favour which will secure a brighter future for both of u and that's if u eventually get settled with eachoda.

What's d benefit of been with a nigga that gat dows to throw around at will and eventually d Table turns around, would u be able to stay with him during his trial period Or u gonna leave him for another rich dude

For every successful nigga u see out there... There is a particular woman behind dem, who motivates dem, encourages dem, ginger dem, cheers dem up to see what future holds for dem when dey were nobody and when dey were irrelevant to the society.

So, if ur bae leaves u now to date a Bank manager or already made guy just bcz u are still hustling to be a successful nigga nd she wanna comes back to u just bcz u don arrived , abeg would u accept her back
Where was she wen u are hustling
Who was behind u during ur trials
If u happened to be my bro nd u accept such lady, I will poison u with my own hand .

For u to be successful u must experience the failures.

As yoruba adage says :Ikoko to ma j'ata.... Idire ma koko gbona
No condition is permanent.... As change is always constant!!!

StephanieEzeh:
What's your take? Some jobless guys can be so annoying! Instead of concerning themselves with their life and financial condition, they end up chasing women anyhow as if it's a paid job! . Sending rubbish romantic texts and initiating boring conversations on phone. Go get a job first and come for the girl later. She would appreciate you better.

xandyE:
See how guys are attacking OP, just to sure D number of jobless and irresponsible people here, so u mean a guy dat doesn't hv a job at all, dat can't even take care of himself should start chasing women instead of working hard to chase his dreams and make something of his life? So this is actually wat u will advice ur brother or sons? Smh for anyone dat thinks like dis

naijadeyhia:


Pls lecture all these small girls on g string running around everywhere with bleaching cream in their hands.

Your case was just like mine. I met my wife when I was living in a single room apartment with 3 other people for free aka squatter she was even from a wealthy royal family but left her state to lagos for something different. She saw intelligence and potential in me as well as other qualities like hers and we got dating. I also never wanted to work for anybody as I wanted to run my own biz and stuck to that ideology and today I am in the property development biz and own several properties all within 6yrs with no financial assistance from my wifes family as we resolved to work together to achieve my dream and today my dream has started financing her dream as she is making pools of money in her chosen field as a self employed woman as well and not a white collar job person.

These ladies who are all about job and money simply know nothing!

After I came up financially a young man who attends my church came to me and said he wants me to be his mentor and I accepted. He had nothing but is a super brilliant mind as we share ideas all the time. I rented his first apartment for him. He met this young lady and liked her but the lady wasnt reciprocating because according to her he didnt have a job but she nevet knew I was d one who adviced him not to work fo anyone since he is a trained architect. I gave him d connection for his first 2m job and from then it has been non stop jobs for him. Today he is driving a sweet ford edge and lives in a 4 bedroom apartment after having outgrown the single room I first got for him and is currently building his own house.

Whose loss?

PunkyVeer:
TLC explained it better & I think they spoke on behalf of all women

A scrub is a guy who thinks he's fine
He's also known as a buster
Always thinking about what he wants
But all he does is sit on his broke @ss

NO, I don't want your number
And NO, I don't wanna give you mine
NO, I don't wanna meet you nowhere
And NO, I don't want none of your time

NO, I don't want no scrub
A scrub is a kinda guy who gets no love from me
Always hanging on the passenger side of his best friend's ride
Tryna holla at me

You don't have a car but you want me
Oh yes, son, I'm talking to you
You live at home with your mama
Oh yes, son, I'm talking to you
Wanna be with me with no money
Oh no, I don't want no scrub

porozhniy:
1,2,3...17, so this fight finally happened? lolz. on a serious note, chasing women while unemployed makes zero sense. unless, the love thing just happened, concentrate on your hustle full time. when you do get that job, pls stay away from leeches, jobless & under-employed women.

PunkyVeer:
TLC explained it better & I think they spoke on behalf of all women

A scrub is a guy who thinks he's fine
He's also known as a buster
Always thinking about what he wants
But all he does is sit on his broke @ss

NO, I don't want your number
And NO, I don't wanna give you mine
NO, I don't wanna meet you nowhere
And NO, I don't want none of your time

NO, I don't want no scrub
A scrub is a kinda guy who gets no love from me
Always hanging on the passenger side of his best friend's ride
Tryna holla at me

You don't have a car but you want me
Oh yes, son, I'm talking to you
You live at home with your mama
Oh yes, son, I'm talking to you
Wanna be with me with no money
Oh no, I don't want no scrub

furetin20:
See your mouth

vizkiz:


[b]so you preffer a guy with a job who will later spend all his cash on you at the end of each month right?

You reason like a hungry broke girl to me.

And btw, why don't you get a job and stop being a liability to your poor family
What kind of generation do we live in these days? Our women are just so dumb and so dependant that they can't stand up for themselves! This is so annoying and heartbreaking.

Well, I think I now know why most of them chase after "rich boys" and are later used for rituals. Na with this kin thread the thing dey start.

How much did your mumu "RICH" father have when he married your mother?cuz I think if he isn't a broke ass biitch, we would have been seeing his name all over television. You are here talking shiit while your family is suffering and smiling. Almost all your threads are about broke guys but your family lives in a shiit hole here in lagos.

Come on, don't think we guys are that dump to go for a broke girl like you, all we wanna do is furck you and look for a nice girl with potentials to wife. A girl who wouldn't hide behind a faceless moniker to type shiit. [/b]

repogirl:
LMAO, coming from a divorcee who couldn't make his own marriage work? Please tell us how many years your marriage to your 'virgin' wife lasted?

From your track record, your opinions on this forum hold no water... So am I bothered with what your small mind thinks? Umm...not exactly.

vizkiz:


[b]so you preffer a guy with a job who will later spend all his cash on you at the end of each month right?

You reason like a hungry broke girl to me.

And btw, why don't you get a job and stop being a liability to your poor family
What kind of generation do we live in these days? Our women are just so dumb and so dependant that they can't stand up for themselves! This is so annoying and heartbreaking.

Well, I think I now know why most of them chase after "rich boys" and are later used for rituals. Na with this kin thread the thing dey start.

How much did your mumu "RICH" father have when he married your mother?cuz I think if he isn't a broke ass biitch, we would have been seeing his name all over television. You are here talking shiit while your family is suffering and smiling. Almost all your threads are about broke guys but your family lives in a shiit hole here in lagos.

Come on, don't think we guys are that dump to go for a broke girl like you, all we wanna do is furck you and look for a nice girl with potentials to wife. A girl who wouldn't hide behind a faceless moniker to type shiit. [/b]