lurlah2014:
Op this does not apply to all females #its only the lazy bones#

U are free to let ur daughter remain an illiterate while your males become a graduated unemployed youth #your business

#your life not my life, so don't send a bad signal about the females

Nigerian woman are good examples

Toks2008:


At least make the money first then look for a rich guy as a plus,not as a succour...thats the point

SAMBARRY:
This is the FIRST TIME toks2008 is making sense

Unbelievable. So there's no one breeze cannot blow inside his number 6

ENIMONEY:
This Op is a senseless baboon!! First of all, what is the essence of Education?? So u can get a good job and make money?? Point number one, education is not all about money, you refine urself as a human being. So you would rather your daughter is a dull brained girl than be sound? You are a disgrace and I pity ur girl child!!!!!! You better goan work hard and make money and stop complaining. Who wants to associate with poverty before?

Amberon:
beautiful...
I'm a girl and I must say Nigerian girls have very low IQ.This is the same question I ask some friends of mine. Why don't Nigerians ladies feel the need to strive to be successful in life?

Sweetlemon:
Sometimes I wonder what these small boys think makes them men. Is it because of that thing dangling between your legs?
Very lazy bunch of things these new generation boys are wallahi!

Toks2008:


Another empty post from an empty brain.

I bet you did not comprehend as usual.


Many ladies are brain dead.

ENIMONEY:
you are very silly!!! Go to the villages and see Woman breaking stones for a living while their lazy husbands drink away their lives!!! Go to almost every home and see what women go through! Some have sacrificed their career to have babies and be mothers!! You are here saying rubbish.. How many men can boast of taking care of their homes without their hustling wives help??

Toks2008:
It is no longer a new thing that after graduation of a male child from a tertiary institution,there is so much expectation from him especially the one whose parents are from a very humble background and had to make huge financial sacrifices.

After graduation,this male child is expected to do his best as regards the ability to provide for himself,his aging parents and also prepare to start a family and we all know the financial demands that come with marriage ceremonies.

As if this is not enough for the male child,the female folks who have spent years in tertiary institutions to have a sound intellect and ought to be a succor in terms of encouragement and financial support have become an additional burden.

Please understand this...there is absolutely nothing bad for a lady be a graduate or not to want,hope or desire a rich or financially ok guy...which lady will not want that?

But it gets even crazier by the day cos most of those ladies who have no opportunity of bagging a degree are unbelievably hard working as we can see many of them doing one thing or the other legitimately to be financially independent while many acclaimed graduates just hope for one unfortunate maga to buy them..how sad.

Ok lets take a look at this..In Nigeria,both the male and the female child go to the same private or public schools right from nursery to tertiary levels,we had the same educational qualification because the last time i checked the University as well as polytechnic degrees are awarded to both male and female...

We go through NYSC together and start looking for jobs in the same labor market in the same country.It is even easier for a female graduate to get jobs compared to the male folks yet these same ladies expect these same guys to be "financially ok" enough to take care of them HABBA!

What happened to equal opportunity to be financially ok since we are faced with same economy conditions. What sought of magic are these ladies expecting the male folks to perform? It even becomes more unrealistic and wicked when ladies are looking for financially ok guys in their 20s and early 30s.


This has made me conclude that its gradually becoming a waste of money and resources for some parents to send their daughters to school since they are likely to come out and dump the zeal and qualification just to start scouting for "financially ok guys" before they can think of making a headway for themselves in life.

So if that is the case,there is no need to get a degree since they don't need that to get a rich guy as they can use their natural body degree to achieve that thereby saving the parents hundreds of thousands of naira.

So i am advising every Nigerian parent to ask their daughter this vital question before spending a dime on her tertiary education and beg her to tell them the truth...

"Are you ready to go to school and acquire a degree to become self reliant financially or are you nursing the thought of going to school and latter come out to start looking for a rich guy or financially ok guy"?


Be observant to the way she answers and make up your mind.

Odiegwu.

Toks2008:


Why on earth are you messing yourself up?

Did you read that article at all?

Apparently you fall into the category of ladies who after graduation went in search for a made guy wtout striving to make it on your own else you wont be showxading your shallow mindedness.

Amberon:
beautiful...
I'm a girl and I must say Nigerian girls have very low IQ.This is the same question I ask some friends of mine. Why don't Nigerians ladies feel the need to strive to be successful in life?

lyricalz:
O eziokwu na dis guy ne kwu eeba. Nna gt small truth 4 wetin dis guy dey talk here o.

jeevyww:



Which father? A Lot of girls forming they must marry a rich guy are from homes that look like ayelala shrine,many of their fathers are not rich or financially ok

Ageco:
Thanks for this piece. It's quite pathetic. It's common here Africa & Nigeria in particular. In the west is totally different.

lurlah2014:
Op this does not apply to all females #its only the lazy bones#

U are free to let ur daughter remain an illiterate while your males become a graduated unemployed youth #your business

#your life not my life, so don't send a bad signal about the females

Nigerian woman are good examples

Holyrule:


lol... Pls let me ask... as u quoted... "someone like her father"... What if her father is very poor?

doveda:

HE IS CONFUSED

I'm starting to think He's gay...

ENIMONEY:
you are very silly!!! Go to the villages and see Woman breaking stones for a living while their lazy husbands drink away their lives!!! Go to almost every home and see what women go through! Some have sacrificed their career to have babies and be mothers!! You are here saying rubbish.. How many men can boast of taking care of their homes without their hustling wives help??

Estharfabian:
I'm starting to think He's gay...

Estharfabian:
I'm starting to think He's gay...

Amberon:
Take your problem elsewhere, not my mentions. Travel outside your village first before you talk shit. The fact remains that the an average Nigerian girl sees marriage as her highest achievement in life and is ready to forgo her certificate to be a stay-at-home wife just as long as her husband dolls out regular pay check to her.

White women are the exact opposite. They dont see their partners as father christmas. An average Nigerian girl is always on the look out for a rich man and has zero goals and ambitions outside being a graduate.

How many female entrepreneurs or successful business women do we have in Nigeria relative to the men? 1:200??

I'm not saying that there aren't goal driven girls in Nigeria but its infinitesimally low when compared to the male counterpart.

I won't trade words with you, you can accept the truth or you can choose to live in oblivion.

HaneefahRN:


Are u a Nigerian? And I dnt blive u're a girl, cos u'll be agreeing u av low IQ. U might av bt don't generalize it. Some pple av low IQ wc is common to both male and female. I dnt av friends who dnt strive to be successful. Lots of Nigerian women are doing great for themselves everyday at every lvl so stop generalizing bullshit. There are lazy gud for nothing men out there, so why shld critics always face women cos of their choices? Yes, no doubt some women are feather-brained, bt the generalizing shld stop.

It's a choice is marry a rich man, likewise it's a choice to marry a struggling man. They av the right to their choices and tht has nothing to do wt their IQ or hw successful they are or will be.

Amberon:
Take your problem elsewhere, not my mentions. Travel outside your village first before you talk shit. The fact remains that the an average Nigerian girl sees marriage as her highest achievement in life and is ready to forgo her certificate to be a stay-at-home wife just as long as her husband dolls out regular pay check to her.

White women are the exact opposite. They dont see their partners as father christmas. An average Nigerian girl is always on the look out for a rich man and has zero goals and ambitions outside being a graduate.

How many female entrepreneurs or successful business women do we have in Nigeria relative to the men? 1:200??

I'm not saying that there aren't goal driven girls in Nigeria but its infinitesimally low when compared to the male counterpart.

I won't trade words with you, you can accept the truth or you can choose to live in oblivion.