onila:
ask nairaland censor thingy

it was supposed to be twa-t

Estharfabian:
Uh....I'm kinda dumbfounded sef...

About the beards...Uh...You really take everything I say on threads seriously? really?

About hector, Why's everyone thinking i got sth to do With him?

....He's like the 2nd person I exchanged contacts with On NL(Reason we're kinda close)..I Usually don't do that)...besides, he lives kinda close to me! Buh I Assure you...We're just friends...right Cutehector? comman tell him now o!

Bout my diary...thanks! I'm glad u like it..

misspicy:

am fed up of the diary




do Allah ka n de mata agida,ka beni
ha ha....

donephi:
U started out well. U deprive us of reading,



Mata? Na yi kama the wende ye ke de mata agida?

PushMusic:



He's living close?

Geez! Market don spoil finish lol!

i'm cool as friends too sha. who knows maybe i even live closer lmao!

I can even be a brother to you.

@Misspicy, i really like his topic cuz it's blunt and that's why i'm jumping on it like this.

But i'm not fighting for Esther. Mba! Just saying the way it is.

Afterall it's online and things are very different offline.

now i'm off before the list crew comes and make a front page post on how to spot a Niaraland hustler or some bad market dumb topic like that.

#ObservationMode.

Cutehector:
if u worth it or i worth it

Favolly:
Whoever comes on here to look for husband don miss road seriously

Well, I cant speak for everyone, but NL is just fun and games for a good number of us. When the thing tire us, we deactivate

Ain't nobody gat time

PushMusic:
Lobatan!

Cutehector:
lol... am a guy man...

PushMusic:



Plenty fishes in the sea man.

I've not even seen her yet, so i don't even know if she's my spec.

You should know my kinda girls na.

Cutehector:
bros i dont knw ur kinda girls.. I would like u to tell me please

PushMusic:


This thread should help. https://www.nairaland.com/2735168/how-met-billionaires-daughter

Cutehector:
then u aint right for esther

PushMusic:

Oga! That isn't for you to judge.

JoeCutie:


Well, it's good you rightfully pointed that out cos many have found lasting friendship here, some of which have really taken theirs to the 'next level'. While some catch fun, others catch love. Na so e be for all the other social networking sites.

Cutehector:
i'v said my peace brother... Goodnight

Favolly:

Yes I understand that overtime, friendships or relationships are likely to be formed. Of course, we cant really say never. But I think that's different from coming here with the intention or mindset that you're looking for a husband.

I think that's just sad mehn. Too many catfishes, fake people, misogynists, fraudsters, etc, are roaming these NL streets.

JoeCutie:
Lmao! Quite right. Do not forget though, that from among those "cat fishes, fake people, misogynists, fraudsters, etc" one finds love. Sometimes, love forgives all those.

Favolly:

Lol! Really? Love forgives those? Or desperation?

It's just easier to deal with people we see everyday jor

mizquote:
they re no husbands on Nairaland, romance section.

JoeCutie:
Thing is, there's always a first day. Right now, you may not have seen your eventual husband or have you? but then it doesnt mean he doesn't exist. Those people you see everyday - friends, course mates, colleagues at work, etc - all came around one day. Someone you met online could still fall into that category someday.

So you don't believe that love does forgive?

Favolly:

Case scenario 1:
I meet someone online who's based in Akure or Abuja. We talk over the phone for weeks and he professes his undying love to me. He then tries to convince me it'll work by trying to bridge the distance between us. If he can afford it, he may offer to come down to see me in Lagos every weekend or something fairer than that.

Case Scenario 2:
I have a family friend who I have known for years or possibly since I was in diapers. We're talking one day and he tells me he really likes me, and then I realize that feeling is kinda mutual.

The difference between these 2 is that, scenario 2 guy is more real to me. He can't bullish!t me because I probably know almost every important thing there is to know about him. If I need to run other low-key background checks, I know who to talk to. But for scenario 1 guy, I only know what he deems fit to tell me. He could be anything, and i wouldn't know

And that's what I meant when I said it's easier to deal with everyday people. Honestly, i think everyone I see commenting and posting online is just a figment of my imagination until I see them in the real.

And yes, my love forgives but it doesn't forget. So it definitely wouldn't let me marry such people

JoeCutie:
My Favour! Awwww. Your level of intelligence speaks for itself. Kudos.

I bet you've experienced those things you said in the both scenarios. Tell me it's not true and watch me do the unthinkable to you.

So I'm also a figment of your imagination, eh kwa? Well, I hope it'd let you marry me sha?

Favolly:

I have experienced something close to scenario 1, but I realised the futility of it so I didn't let it happen. And of course, I have experienced scenario 2. Twice

JoeCutie:
I trust you have.

So...what about me?

Favolly:

You're a figment of my imagination

Raalsalghul:
The funny thing about this thread is that the op misspicy uses her moniker in about two or three instances as an example of what not to do if you want to get hitched-up Nairaland. The thread might be proffering ways on how to get a husband on Nairaland, but subtly the op is giving us reasons why she can never date a Nairaland guy. That's my take!

Babacele:
Yea it is your opinion n not wat she meant. miss spicy actually used her moniker to explain what may probably put off gentlemen from going beyond viewing a lady's online presence to contacting her n taking it to the next level. Most things she expressed above are absolutely true unless one is not a gentleman.

misspicy:
so right.....

hifive

Laveda:
Really?

Errrm....I don't get...