am dating a guy who is really nice n sweet,also kind hearted,very brilliant,doesn't HV much frnds,isn't d hanging out type,doesn't drink nor smoke,luvs to play video game like crazy,luv football a lot,quiet but talks wen necessary.he keep a dairy on his Fone, doesn't say d I luv u but tries wit d I miss u part.I knw he is an introvert n I luv him like DAT.

onyichick:
am dating a guy who is very brilliant,doesn't HV much frnds,isn't d hanging out type,doesn't drink nor smoke,luvs to play video game like crazy,luv football a lot,quiet but talks wen necessary. doesn't say d I luv u but tries wit d I miss u part.I knw he is an introvert n I luv him like DAT.

Rapmoney:
Sorry to say this...ur ex is not necessarily an introvert but lacked social skills! Having sex is not among the traits of introverted guys!

you are so right! sex means nothing to most introverted guys i know, myself inclusive.

Richiy:
They hardly say I love you

O.M.G, why you wanna do this?

Dude! U don cast me finish! The reason I'm still single, ladies think I'm wierd cos their telemundo love freaks me less. I need a real woman.

Rapmoney:
That's thoughtful of you!

Lawsimon:
Being able to read others, think through before doing anything - being extra careful in life, being kind and having a heart that can't harm or hurt are parts of my introverted life I cherish alot. I don't easily get angry and I easily forgive too. Infact, I don't know how to keep malice or bear grudges against another. On the women aspect, I hate double dating and I'm not an expert in lying like some guys that I know. I'm very selective and only few girls can catch my attention, but very rare. This has made two female family friends of mine to say that I am a waste to women folks. They said this because of my looks. Concerning privacy, it's sancrosanct; I need quiet time to think and imagine (i take alot of pleasure in this). As quiet as I am, when I'm found in my comfortzone, you'll hardly recognize that I'm the one, especially interms of speaking. People often misunderstand me because of my quietness. Sometimes I feel bad and wish if they could understand and appreciate how rare I am. However, few people, mostly my few selected close friend do understand me. In all, I take solace in the fact that I am creative and that cannot be taken away from me. Reading is my number one hubby (it's fun). Op, I really appreciate this. It has given me wider understanding of myself.

u said it all bro.............. I love that life style

IHate9ja1:
I as an introvert,am easy going,hate drama,am irritated by people who have anger issues and people who take me for a fool coz of my humble disposition.
I dislike people who are controlling,I surf the web a lot and its a pity many think am pinging lol...can't talk much. If you have questions just ask!

Thank God I'm not alone. I'm always on my phone whenever I'm free and peeps do think I'm chatting, but I honestly can't remember the last time I chatted. Not even with ma gurl

IHate9ja1:
I surf the web a lot and its a pity many think am pinging lol...can't talk much. If you have questions just ask!

That's my hubby but people around seem to misunderstand me

one thing is we are greatly misunderstood by people around us, some even us as proud and snobbish. I just laugh within myself and wished they knew me better

Classicman47:


Bro u are just SHY. May or may NOT be introverted. There is a difference.

am an indoor nigga

jst added d above word to wat d op mentioned

[quote must be an introvert to know these things about us. U quite went indept d little u xposed.

[quote author=Rapmoney post=40917354]Sorry to say this...ur ex is not necessarily an introvert but lacked social skills! Having sex is not among the traits of introverted guys![/quot


Are you saying introverted guys don't like sex...? I thought as much.

Richiy:
They hardly say I love you

You r sincerely right... I actually can count d no. of times have had 2 say those words...

arrhenius15:


You r sincerely right... I actually can count d no. of times have had 2 say those words...

Why?

Harjet:
@ op you're right bro. I happen to be an introvert.. And most pple find it hard to bliv that cos wen am in the midst of my friends am an open fellow.. And mostly pple misunderstand introverts... It's fun dating introverts too which most ladies don't really know by the way. And to finish it, we introverts cherish our "me" time..

That word cherish our me time" carried enough selfishness that will make the devil grin. Most introverts are selfish people they do not know the other way out n if they do they simply don't care...the worst part is that when they are in a relationship they find it hard to give and openly show love which hurts their partners.. being an introvert is not a good thing atall because you are all too much of one thing and that is selfishness..Pls try and change cos as we all know too much of a thing is bad- very bad.

Richiy:
They hardly say I love you

Dirichi

goodgate:
Dirichi

What I do?

Richiy:


What I do?

I did not know you were on NL.

goodgate:
I did not know you were on NL.

Who is this biko?

Richiy:

Who is this biko?

Ahh don't worry.

Classicman47:


U have a solid point about the offspring thingy. But beyond that aspect, do u think the two can actually work out their compatibility issues?
I mean it feels good initially having an outgoing and lively person as a significant other(you being an introverted person) but sooner or later the two might start having squabbles based the personality differences. Either the female begins to feel bored and start looking for fun outside when she feels the male is too uptight and boring and stuff. Or the male himself begins to feel resentment towards the female for being too wild and stuff. Either way the relationship/marriage might just break down irretrievably and the said offsprings will be caught in the middle of the entire scenario.
Just my thoughts.

A loving extroverted partner would wake up the graceful part of you (an introvert). This is a personal experience with three successful marriages as supporting evidences... three of my siblings (females), pure extroverts married to reserved dudes.

onyichick:
am dating a guy who is really nice n sweet,also kind hearted,very brilliant,doesn't HV much frnds,isn't d hanging out type,doesn't drink nor smoke,luvs to play video game like crazy,luv football a lot,quiet but talks wen necessary.he keep a dairy on his Fone, doesn't say d I luv u but tries wit d I miss u part.I knw he is an introvert n I luv him like DAT.

U said dating ba...Pls think twice before u marry him.

DavidEsq:

Sori, but u didn't say what happened to the relationship.

Trying to forget it.

yungmill:





Bro inasmuch as opposites atrract your assertion on dysfunctional kids is wrong to introverts can marry and still birth an extrovert, plus its based on temperament no 1 is 100% an intro or extro na baba God hand e dey and most peoples ascertion that introverts cant be outspoken is wrong because some work on themselves, and there are some introverts you meet but wont believe becos at that moment they are in their comfort zone i.e with friends so they become outspoken, the key is familiarity bro and that inate desire not to fall our rep

Take my counsel, it's proven.

goodgate:
Ahh don't worry.

You must tell me oooo

It has been observed that most introvert like fantasies and love to explore thus explaining their love for pornography.

Richiy:


As long as it us true and genuine...you should say it.

I don't throw my words around in submission to untested feelings. I hate to say 'I love you' today and by tomorrow morning we are separated. Words mean much to me. Please pardon me, forcing it isn't cool with me.

U

Richiy:


As long as it us true and genuine...you should say it.

I don't throw my words around in submission to untested feelings. I hate to say 'I love you' today and by tomorrow morning we are separated. Words mean much to me. Please pardon me, forcing it isn't cool with me.

petkruz:
No way,i'v gone down that lane before! Introverts are very hard ppl to deal with.My ex was so bad that he never went out with his friends a whole year,he hardly forgives,when i'm hanging out he frowns,he doesn't like my friends coming around. The only thing that interests him is reading and sex,everyother thing was irrelevant.

...introverts doesn't easily forgive cuz they loved hard

sonofananimal:
....at the top.

merry Christmas in advance ohh!

how is everything sir!

Thank God. Wish you more