Politicos:
U

I don't throw my words around in submission to untested feelings. I hate to say 'I love you' today and by tomorrow morning we are separated. Words mean much to me. Please pardon me, forcing it isn't cool with me.

Virgindove:
Introversion is a sign of WEAKNESS never be excited by it. When noticed strive for solutions. Our world today needs people of great boldness and social skills. An intelligent extrovert would always have a greater chance of success than intelligent introvert.

Ebayray:

Naijabo iy!!!!!

Yea?

RobinHez:
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indoorlove:
you are so right! sex means nothing to most introverted guys i know, myself inclusive.

Oliviaarims:

Why'd u mention his name.. Is he introverted?

I don't know for her.

naijaboiy:

I don't know for her.

Virgindove:
Introversion is a sign of WEAKNESS never be excited by it. When noticed strive for solutions. Our world today needs people of great boldness and social skills. An intelligent extrovert would always have a greater chance of success than intelligent introvert.

Teempakguy:

hehehe


Perhaps you're right. perhaps you're right.

but then I gathered the comments about myself since i started my new agenda and weirdly,

the comments were rather positive. I still don't know how that works, but apparently acting like a total douchebag will make people like you . . . speaking of which, isn't that the reason you're following the son of mark and seun?

tsk tsk . . . when you follow too many douchebags . . . the chemistry is often . . .
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U don't have to be a douchebag
[quote]Anyway, I don't know what pride means. people have always called me proud all my life EXACTLY because I was an introvert.
so proud, i guess, means when you don't like talking to other people.

Richiy:

You must tell me oooo

RobinHez:

Dunno whatcha talking about.

No...pride is when u don't bring urself down to others level...to learn about urself.

urchmanx:

I didn't agree with you. Introvert talk when it is necessary to talk, the spend a lot more time observing new grounds and environment than jumping into people the newly met. Introverts talk when they comfortable and when the do talk people will be wow. The only advantage extrovert have is they win more women compared to introvert who value think observe before making a move. In times of success the are very much success and envied by others. Look my friends always say if the have half of what I have and know in this world that the will date any girl in this world but the lest of my problem is using my time to think about how to win a woman. Hope you get it.

Dpearlz:


Thank you for your good observation but I totally disagree with you ma. Being an introvert is strength if channeled properly and I will give you a few reasons why.

An introvert spends more time using his mind instead of his mouth. He analyzes people (their actions & reactions) and his environment. His ability to help and care for others is also an area of strength. Giving these two character traits, an introvert is more creative and innovative than his extrovert counterpart. Most Innovation comes from creative thinking and since an introvert does that more often he will definitely be more creative and productive. He can make products or services that can truly meet the needs of others because he understand them in a way the extrovert doesn't.

Also most introvert have very good self control. They have more power to resist peer pressure and the need and craving to belong. They are happy in many cases to stand out. Now if that is not strength tell me what strength is.

Introverts are the world's unsung heroes because they quietly design and make things that ensures our existence is less stressful. From electricity to the computer to air travel there have always been one introvert at the starting point.

Please ma, try to see people for who they are and don't be too hasty to judge.

bestdeals0:
Tnx dear. U re a barca fan like me. We go drill Deportivo LA coruna today .. One of f 3 wise men ain't playing but the other 2 are enough

Teempakguy:
what . . .

Do you know what happens to people who bring themselves down to other people's level?

they become like everyone else.
now, if I were in some place like MIT, or Harvard, i would have good reason to bring myself down to other people's level so we can learn together.

but doing that in Nigeria, is a recipe for destruction of talent and destiny.

As far as I am concerned, it is better to distinguish yourself from people who hold no value for you. otherwise, instead of having people who challenge you every step of the way and inspire your creativeness, you find yourself among people who suck on your creative juice all the time. they are free to call it pride. they are free to call it anything they want, If they want to interact with me, they have only one option. they have to brush up. I ain't stooping for nothing.

I know this might seem a little . . . well, rash.

but I've noticed that perhaps the reason why nothing ever gets done in this country is because the people who have the ability to make an actual difference are actually trying to blend in with everyone else all the time. One has to STAND OUT to make a difference.

Virgindove:
Introversion is a sign of WEAKNESS never be excited by it. When noticed strive for solutions. Our world today needs people of great boldness and social skills. An intelligent extrovert would always have a greater chance of success than intelligent introvert.

RobinHez:



I said bringing urself down to learn about YOUrSeLF!

Meaning, swallowing ur pride to know what people really think about you..

Anyways, nice epistle.

Teempakguy:
oh well, that is one way to see it.

another way to look at it is this, if you are humble to other people, they will feel the need to return the favor, and as such, they will sugarcoat their evaluations of you. I learned this when i first read the laws of power seven years ago. People who think you are humble won't actually tell you the truth about yourself.

don't tell me you didn't know this?

acevic:

I totally understand this. I dont get angry easily, in fact big issues dont get me angry but small issues. I dislike people that control too much and abusive. I think deeply, maybe too much as i get lost in thoughts at times I talk less. I do not like noise at all.

Politicos:


This is it. Only a perfect match would stick around forever. Clinging to any lady that comes around is waste of emotional energy and useful time.

Brownhypo:
That's my hubby but people around seem to misunderstand me

Rapmoney:
There are many introverted guys that are just so special in diverse ways that are hardly understood by many of our modern-day Nigerian ladies...this could lead to what I call a misrepresentation of attitude and character!

Psychologically, as humans, we all possess behavioural traits such as introverted and extroverted qualities. That's God's creation and whoever thinks that God's creation was senseless in the first place should better have his or her head examined!!!

Below are some characters of introverted guys in relationships. Ladies, you need to understand your introverted partner...better than the way you think you do :

1) Most introverted guys are creative: Ladies, because he doesn't talk much or brag about his exploits doesn't mean he is just another regular guy down the street! I tell you today, there's so much cooking up in that head of his that you might not know or never know. If you take a closer and more critical look at the lives of many great inventors and artistes, you will discover that they exhibited or exhibit introverted qualities wayback even before they ever came close to fame!!! I am not in any way saying that all introverted guys are creative but what I am saying in essence is that the number of creative guys that are introverted and those that are extroverted can be compared to the fans of Manchester City and Kano Pillars!!! Study him carefully and observe his passion; you just might be an instrument to push him to greater heights! He would rather think of how to create or develop something than spend time with you at the cinema

2) They are mostly shy: Even introverted celebrities are shy most times without you knowing. An assumed snubbing by a celebrity in an event or show might not necessarily be real! The young man might just be too shy to stand face to face, meeting folks he has never met before. So when an introverted guy doesn't feel like hanging out with you and friends every weekend, don't be too critical. They don't often like being in public places

3) They often love good women for real: Introverted guys are not like their counterparts who are fond of going out, meeting new people, talking and demonstrating a lot! They are mostly quiet and think deeply. They would easily approach a woman only when they admire, value and want her. An extrovert guy might just feel like talking which is a nutural aspect of his personality; this might send a false signal to the lady that she's being loved for real!!!

4) They need personal space most times: Many introvert guys hardly enjoy staying with a lady consistently for too long. They would rather need privacy to themselves so that they could merry in some creative imaginations! If you are coming to his house, you must call him on phone first! Failure to do that equals you putting too much salt in an already well cooked pot of Egusi soup with assorted meats!

5) They hardly entertain 'make-up jealousy': Don't try to make an introverted guy fall more in love with you by trying to arouse the spirit of jealousy in him! You might end up killing the emotional attachment he has with you and the relationship eventually! A lady can do this by answering suspicious phone calls in his presence romantically, telling him tales of guys who admire her and the rest

It is true that humans are dynamic in nature but learning about their psychological traits helps a lot in coping with them!

IHate9ja1:

My fellow nairalander,I hardly feel anything deep for babes this days but if @ all I admire her I can just flirt.
Am afraid to give away my freedom.

Richiy:
then test the feelings and speak the word brother

petkruz:
No way,i'v gone down that lane before! Introverts are very hard ppl to deal with.My ex was so bad that he never went out with his friends a whole year,he hardly forgives,when i'm hanging out he frowns,he doesn't like my friends coming around. The only thing that interests him is reading and sex,everyother thing was irrelevant.

Virgindove:
Introversion is a sign of WEAKNESS never be excited by it. When noticed strive for solutions. Our world today needs people of great boldness and social skills. An intelligent extrovert would always have a greater chance of success than intelligent introvert.