Niceman4u:


If this is wat u can deduce from the OP write-up am afraid u need to go back to GNS/GS 101 on hw to summarize an article.

danbrowndmf:
typical yoruba boy? Who tell u say i be yoruba boy? Cus i dy follow u speak yoruba?.
Oya omo dun melo ni e? So ma le mo e ye odun ti ma fi kun...

misspicy:

i know you are a kogite


just add 2 -3 years,am ready

Biim:
Nigerian men and their reasoning though, so a girl should go with any man that wants to marry her just because she has to get married? If many men in this generation were husband material, Nigerian women go don marry finish abi una think say na only women suppose possess qualities to be looked out for when picking a spouse?

nickydof:
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"Stop being so insecure and stop trying to make women feel that they need men"

What? Do you even know the meaning of 'woman'? This is an identity problem. You need men because you were created for them! That doesn't stop you from achieving your goals. I strongly support women becoming the best they can be but always remember why you were created! If you do, you are sure to be successful at all fronts. Function where God has positioned you to! Always remember your husband is your master!

ZipporahElla:
Thanx brother I will keep to this advice, but this days u hardly know a serious guy, once they're serious it looks like all they want is sex.

danbrowndmf:
oya na gimme ur junior sister make i help her...she go fit wait for 8years na.

misspicy:

viickerz:

oh.. Trust me, its a big deal down here...

Its not our fault tho, women down here are very selective and picky when it comes to chosing their partners... Especially the good looking ones., so when they get to the age of 25,29 before marriage, it is assumed that she is a proud lady, she turned down a lot of dudes e.t.c..

Thats a stereotype tho.. In my opinion

Richiy:
Whoever moved this to front page is a masochist fool. When you are done, blame ladies for the all the world wars.

It is their lives for crying out loud!! Everybody for their own selves!!! Are you going to also judge men that don't marry early

danbrowndmf:
kilode ti oshi enu le ba yen na? Ofe kin fi nko si e lenu ni.? Pa nu de jare.

misspicy:

my sister is a no go area o,i fit kill person

mavany:
Clueless 0P, and to think this made Fp

ZipporahElla:
Thanx brother I will keep to this advice, but this days u hardly know a serious guy, once they're serious it looks like all they want is sex.

misspicy:
i know you are a kogite

just add 2 -3 years,am ready

YourMain:
A woman's goal in life is not marriage. You all need to stop acting like if a woman doesn't get married she hasn't accomplished anything. There's so so much to life than marriage.

danbrowndmf:
8years from now she go don ripe for me to pluck na...since u,u say u be old cargo...lemme go for fresh blood.
before then i go don buy range rover...so money don dy wella den...if you never marry that time u go be our flower girl...

Johnsown1:
ready to do wht

TheSlyone:

You sound like a pained FEMINIST

misspicy:

kwakwakwakekawakwa
funny guy,one guy was being funny around my sister sometime ago,i cut his d!ck

danbrowndmf:
omo dun melo ni? U cut off his diick? If u cut mine i still have extra one ,i'll surely fix it... and our relationship is not base on seex so we may not need a diick

MrsPhyno:
First of all, is it ur life

Secondly, how could u as a Man, possibly know more about the stages in a woman's life than a female would. No need to teach us; thanks tho

Thirdly, are u saying girls should marry young? And if so, what's ur definition of young. Cause under age 23/24, most gehs are still in school..... It would be difficult and kinda irresponsible to marry while in school. Just know that education is the biggest thing that keeps females from marrying "young" or whatever....

So during our teenage years... Most of us are still in school, okay. That's your answer If we kept a serious boyfriend now, una would still complain. Lubbish.

danbrowndmf:
8years from now she go don ripe for me to pluck na...since u,u say u be old cargo...lemme go for fresh blood.
before then i go don buy range rover...so money don dy wella den...if you never marry that time u go be our flower girl...

misspicy:
daddy he has come again o the ojuju has come

Abbykem:
African mentality.

Boyfrnd @18 u be ashewo. Focus on ur studies


Get married @23, too young. Can't she just build a career first?


Single @27 but rich. Career woman/feminist.








I beg! Let everybody live there lives how they want it.
Eyin olofofo
Amebo

misspicy:
daddy he has come again o the ojuju has come

lovethchioma:
Because I am female, I am expected to aspire to marriage. I am expected to make my life choices keeping in mind that marriage is the most important thing.
But why do we teach girls to aspire to marriage and we don't teach boys the same?
We teach girls to see themselves as competitors, not for Jobs or accomplishment but for the attention of men.

If the op would come here to blab rubbish about a girl doing what she had to do in order to get married at a young age. Why would not the guys too get married at a young age?
I am so sick of seeing people insulting ladies who are well accomplished just because they arent married yet. People would be like with all the money she never still marry. Like marriage is what? A ticket to happy life or heaven abi? Ah laff
Women were not made for marriage. They were created to fufil purpose on earth. Just like the men.
God will not judge you for not getting married but He is so gonna judge you for giving you brain and yet you didnt accomplish anything with it.

If you have a man who adds value to your life and makes you happy. And you are ready for marriage, both Spiritually, physically, emotionally, financially and otherwise please go ahead and marry. Marriage is a beautiful thing.
If and If, you are not sure for the responsibiities that come with marriage. Please wait.
If you want to get married because you feel time is going or every of your friends have gotten married. Then you are about to make the biggest mistake of your life.
A lot of people have rushed into marriage and now they wish they never did. Trust me
You spend 4-6years studying a course in School and yet you think you don't have be prepared before entering an Institution that's for a life time. One that you can never graduate from. Oh! You actually think because you have graduated marriage is the next in line?
I know of so many girls that got married when we were still in School and others that also got married immediately we graduated just because everyone is doing it. With what I have seen, Seriously, I don't envy any of them now. I rather remain single than be unhappy in marriage. Well, thats what you get if you don't prepare fully before embarking on this journey of no return.
Don't allow anyone deceive you, Continue adding value to yourself, get a life, get a job or set up your business, be independent. I am telling you when a true man comes, he will value you.
If you rush into it, you only become a liability. Believe me, no one wants a liability.

Do not allow what the op has written down or what you read on nairaland or any other place dictate how you should live you your life.
Let God be the centre of your decisions. Please!

Richiy:

Honestly I am very pained with this topic.

YourMain:


Hahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahha. You're so backwards it's ridiculous.

jessetom:


The guy above you was just describing people like you. The OP on the other hand is trying to say that you should build meaningful relationship while you are "young". Live a good life. Have fun but not excessively. Keep good relationships. And stop flirting around with any guy you see.
And most importantly, live your life with a sense of direction.
If you are in school by then, find or get a serious boyfriend and not start riding and sucking on any random guys dick!
Good day!

Genea:
All this kind of write ups make me sick ,i just want to slap the op....rubbish post