SexyStrawberry:
Mehn Op! u were too direct! hehehehehehehe, but her actions to me shows that she's guilty of something, lemme not say guilty of abortion o! hehehehehehe if na me u ask that question, I will definitely be shocked at first coz for u to ask me that thing, hmmmm e be like say my body don show u signs and u just want to confirm, lolzzzzzz but I will still answer u nonetheless, but anyway just apologise and give her time, she will come back to her senses.
We ladies are complex beings u know

SexyStrawberry:
Mehn Op! u were too direct! hehehehehehehe, but her actions to me shows that she's guilty of something, lemme not say guilty of abortion o! hehehehehehe if na me u ask that question, I will definitely be shocked at first coz for u to ask me that thing, hmmmm e be like say my body don show u signs and u just want to confirm, lolzzzzzz but I will still answer u nonetheless, but anyway just apologise and give her time, she will come back to her senses.
We ladies are complex beings u know

vizkiz:
the question was too forward now. You sef ehn

Just send her a message and apologise give her some space too. She will come around bro... That is if she loves you

DeeTus:
You're right and also wrong. Women should not be taken as sex objects. There's another way to ask that question like how many balls have you conceded before?

In as much as the girl is his girlfriend, he ought not to disrespect her while in a relationship. Again, women should be respected.

misspicy:
some guys can ask destabilizing q
uestion ehn ...lol

duchess25:
as for me ooo.I don't see any big deal inside oo becos me go ans am sharpaly esp wen I don't have any skeleton in my cupboard.anyway just ask her for forgiveness.

SexyStrawberry:
Mehn Op! u were too direct! hehehehehehehe, but her actions to me shows that she's guilty of something, lemme not sayust want to confirm, lolzzzzzz but I will still answer u nonetheless, but anyway just apologise and give her time, she will come back to her senses.
We ladies are complex beings u know

MRBrownJ:
@Samfigo1
there is nothing wrong with the question you asked and, unless she was a virgin when you met her, i dont see why she should make a big deal out of it.

here is the msg you should send her:" [b]i asked you a simple question that was bothering my mind, and you jumped on your high horses and left, while talking NONSENSE! i believe in HONESTY and therefore if i want to ask you a question then i dont see why i shouldnt. i am sorry if the question offended you but i want/hope i can express myself with you FULLY, without having to second guess myself. i dont know what type of r/ship you want us to build here but i do sincerely hope that the day you want to ask me ANY question, you do so regardless of how i may feel. i dont have a crystal ball to know if you have ever done such a thing, and since this is important (to me), i want to make sure about it, and get this out the way, from the get go.

btw: many good women have had abortions after being raped by evil men, while others did so because of the ill circumstances they found themselves into... who am i to judge them? i wont, but i certainly want to be aware, AND decide, if i want to be with such person or not, because having a family is important to me, and many women have damaged womb due to the quack/charlatans that perform these illegal abortions.[/b] "

foriz4u:

lol...lol...lol...lol...omg!!! infact enh frm d question down to d Romeo n Juliet n to d bad guys comments n d new episode r just so funny...I'm a guy above 30 I've never ask such a stupid and silly questions like before. it's like looking ur mother in th e eyes and then ask her, mum have u ever has sex b4? hahahahaga...d kind slap that pikin go chop enh rainbow go commot for him eyes n mouth... babe d part2 is out o and it came out just d way u narrated. all dis 9ja film dem self! can't they just surprise us with a story line for once?

SexyStrawberry:


Lol, I've seen the part 2 already, but be it a true story or not, I still don't really see anything bad in what he asked her, and I don't know why it was so difficult for her to answer immediately, guys do ask more hideous questions than that naaw, it just showed that she was hiding something, and I hate relationships based on lies, even in the second part I still don't trust what she said.

Tallesty1:
There are things we hide from our partners because it "doesn't concern" them but those things pose serious risks that can ruin everything in the long run.

I asked a certain the kinda question this op asked, I think it was in our second year together.

She told me everything, how she got into the mess and all that, and then told me to search for her chat with a certain guy on one of her social accounts.

I did and everything was just as she told me.

It didn't change anything and when she noticed that I ain't gonna use her past to judge her future, she loved me more.

Months later, her best friend and room mate called me and asked if I was busy that she want to tell me something.

I thought the girl(my then bae) was in a problem so I told her to go ahead that I am free.

Guess what? She spewed so many thrash, she started with how she noticed that I truly love the girl and have good plans for her. That she knew all the men she's been with and none of them loved her like I do and all that.

She no stop there oo," she started naming them for me.

But trust me nah...

She was like, "she dated this man[calls name]" and I would reply "Yea, the one that does this[I would tell her what the man does for a living].

When she noticed that I have heard bout them, she then said "are you als= aware that she once aborted a child"

I replied "Yea, and you're the only one she told about it because she trusts you and now you're betraying her".

She ended the call and blocked my number.

@emboldened, you will be too shocked to know what to say.

VenusBetty:
so, what if she said 'yes, i have been pregnant before'. what will be your next move?

foriz4u:

u r right on point my dear... she could b true abt d rape story ooo who knows, but d little boy inside me tells me she's lying... because there couldn't have been a way she found out to b pregnant after one month of being raped right in d presence of her parents? I'm sure d next morning they'd taken her to d hospital to do some medical checkup n have some injections to prevent any fertility... she's a born liere abeg... all there young girls of did days enh na dem dey teach devil how to lie self.

SexyStrawberry:


Hahahahahahahahahahahaa, she's definitely lying to the guy, I dey fear girls o, they can lie!