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did you say, hi how are you doing, i also go in her mouth once in a while, unlike you though, i don't go up in smoke, LOLEST
does she have smoke breath? if not, then it's probarbly not hers, unless if you've never kissed her, in which case, tell her, u don't like her smoking and see if she likes it

it's on now, ayeye right now, lolest,

Amara, get a hold of yourself, someone is liable to get hurt if you don't watch it, in any case, ur response to this matter shows why ur guys love S.A girls,

just by the by, @ least s.a acknowledges their  Aids figures and not hide behind bewitching and demonds and cults, go learn some manners,

ur dudes prefer s.a. women cause they take no crap, i.e. they give as good as they get, also, contrary to popular belief, s.a. girls are decent. yeah there's aids, but it's everywhere and if u don't use a condom u'll get burned,

often times, the guys are impressed by diction, intellect, ability to hold your own and a willingness, to be a freak when in need, and a lady when wanted,

its sad that we've been so colonized that we see nothing wrong with looking down at our own cultures and practices, funny how no 1 made a hoohaa of such proportions when he took them all to his inauguration,

Is your wife of 9ja descent?

Hmmm. lets see could this be true or not, , me thinks it's hogwash, but knowing our 9ja's it probarbly could be, guy probarbly forgot he didn't have to travel fake, cause he's made it,

One year old, breakfast, luch and dinner, plus snacks in between, your pudding dish should be an indication of how much to feed the child. Processed foods are the biggest culprits when it comes to obesity.

One thing i've observed about naija mommies is that (where i'm at) is that they don't hesitate to give the sweet stuff, it doesn't matter the age of the child. even giving fizzy drinks is not an issue,

for me, snacks are yoghurt, dried fruit, fibre biscuits, juice/water and tartrazine free chips, of course when going out, the girls can have macdonalds, fish fingers with chips and chicken strips, but it shouldn't be the norm,

feed the child when it's hungry, not when you want to keep it busy,   

[img]http://www.smileyshut.com/smileys/new/free-ashamed-smileys-129[1].gif[/img], quick update, revenge of the cheated wife, he gets to my place Thursday. plays with the kids, etc, then i get a call from a guy friend, and well, lets just say, naija man, don't appreciate what he's got till another shows appreciation in what he's got, man slept @ 21:45, woke up around 23:50, we did a prayer @ midnight, shortly after that my friend called again, it was sooo much fun to see him all miserable, yeah he stayed over the whole weekend, it's now 2010, and the piep piper is getting hers, guess where the locus of control is at now, i've made peace and moved on, i've been holding on to ashes, it wasn't the reactions or his sadness that made me realise i've moved on, but the kids preference for me when they need something or when crying out at night, i have all that I need in them.

Stella might not have gotten her groove back, but she sure got her arsenal back,

sorry, but why do u think it's okay for her to terminte because it suits you, my god u've got some gall and are unspeakably selfish. I pray to God that in the afterlife men will be the one's to bear kids and terminate, etc, cause all you'se think it's sooooo easy. why she didn't use contraception and why you didn't glove is anyones guess,

I suggest you talk to your mother, I don't know how it works where you are, but in some households boys are treated better because they 'stay' whereas the girls marry and leave the home, so they are expected to excell in everything because they'll be representing where and how they were raised when they get to where they are meant to be. Ask your mother what the issues are, how old are you anyhow?

Thank u nairalanders 4 ur bluntness,its appreciated.may be I dont want 2 let the nigger go. But pray tell how do i let go of sum1 i still love,even when he does me wrong i love him.2010 is almost here,time enough 4 me 2 face reality.2nite Im getting mine,if it makes me cheap so be it,he's the only man ive bin wit,& my kids deserve 2 c in the new year with their father,as wrong as he is.

hmmmm, logic dictates that whoever you chat with will sit infront with you, but common courtesy says female back, males in front,

https://www.smileyshut.com/smileys/new/Laughing/lol-045.gif soo true MrPrsdent, now tiger in the woods can come out of hiding,

The fact of the matter is, the guy didn't marry or ask for permission to marry another woman, he engaged in infedility. Am sure if he'd asked she'd have said yes or no to him marrying another woman. She'd have known, there wouldn't have been cloak and dagger stuff,

Dearest, should you choose to stay with your husband, accept and get over what has happened, but keep your eyes open ,

My very muslim husband, doesn't want to leave me be, even though we both know it's over and done with,

mama-gee:
She'll let you go,if you tell her.

If only it was that easy, if you can tell me how to say no and please leave me in peace in Yoruba and Hausa and Egbira then surely that will work, cause me saying it in English doesn't seem to be doing much good-ooo,

MRbrownJAY:
@28schweet
there is a big different between being your EX/father of your children and being your respectful husband. that man doesnt DESERVE to be called your husband even if you guys are still married so stop fooling yourself.

your relationship is purely because of the kids and basta so sleeping in your bed is pointless unless you can tell me what convenience sleeping in your bed bring. if you aint got a spare room, i am sure you get a sofa (or a floor with a sheet).

as i said previously, the reason why you let him in is because you need something from him. . . . . . . . ¨a hope for reconciliation¨

removing him permanently from your life will never happen because he is the father of your kid but you can make sure that he leaves permanently FROM YOUR BED by saying NO the next time he comes crawling.

Should i lock the doors on him next time he comes around, what a spectable that'll make my kids and I, saddest thing is that he's told his family we're back together and fine, meanwhile its one big lie, how do I tell the mother the truth without causing her a massive heart attack https://www.smileyshut.com/smileys/new/Sad/sad-027.gif

https://www.smileyshut.com/smileys/new/Babies/pregnant-woman-123.gif.

Akebulan - non invasive IUD, I might be wrong, but my understanding is that an IUD is pretty invasive, I mean it chills in a womans womb for 1-5 years to prevent pregnancy, now if your talking about diaphragms, cervical caps, then i suppose that's non invasive  , an established pregnancy would be one where the foetus has a heart beat, e.g. @ 6 weeks,  1-6 weeks is just the sac and fertilized cells that are looking to grow.

& just by the by, contraception mustn't only be the woman's concern.

Whether I like it or not de man is still my husband & father of my kids, clearly I still harbour reconciliation hopes.Him sleeping in my bed is pure convenience.

His friends say he wont leave us 4 long,no man leaves his iyawo & kids,but I dont c them stopping his philandering.

HOW DO I GET HIM 2 LEAVE PERMANENTLY!?

I'd rather https://www.smileyshut.com/smileys/new/Disgusting/vomit-3.gif than let him come near me, I haven't slept (physically) with the man since he moved out, he comes over, we sleep in the same bed, baby 2 or 1 between us. It starts and ends there, bear in mind, this is the man i've been with for the past 6 years, so it takes courage to say no.

as for giving him my kids to let me go, believe me ooo, i would if he showed an inch of interest in them when they are not with him, he's the deposit, come visit for a day, buy takeaway and forget their existence kind. he never used to be like this, money changes people, my only wish now, is that he impregnates another woman (hopefully she bears a son) so that he can leave me in peace, then my girls wont have to go to naija to be faced with the same dilemma as me, https://www.smileyshut.com/smileys/new/Babies/dancing-baby.jpg

Rokiatu,

I wouldn't know about now, but when we separated he didn't have the HI Virus, or at least I didn't cause I tested before going for the final separation,

Chaircover

I let him come over/stay because it's the path of least resistance, i'm tired of fighting, because clearly he aint hearing me, besides, the looks on my babies faces when they see him make it difficult to turn him away,

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kinda difficult to divorce someone who doesn't want to be divorced. I'm not whining dude, not my style, but brother drives me crazy with his confusion, so you tell me how to get rid of him, cause his actions tell me he doesn't want to be with me, & I've accepted that, now he won't let me move on. If you are any kind of man, let me know how to get rid of this brotha, the thought of him kidnapping our kids and taking them to naija doesn't scare me anymore, i just want him outta my life,

My husband, father to my two children, whom I'm no longer living with is busy sowing his wild oats, I don't have a problem with it, all I want is for him to leave me be, to either be single or find a man to love me for me wholeheartedly. On important days he wishes to come sleep at my house, but first he has to start off at his girlfriends and them come harass me. I can't take it anymore, short of murder, what can I do.

The situation is unhealthy for my kids and I, I don't want to die of Aids, I'm much too pretty for that fate

have you ever spoken to her about this issue?
Have you tried gentle persuasion and romancing the lady, u sound like u want to impose your sexual needs on her, pray tell how you managed to knock her up?

Best love relationships started out as friends, besides, easy does it, keeps stuff steady for longer, unless he's not into you as much as you're into him,

[color=#770077][/color][i][/i] one who has one too many kids and no nanny,  one has to question her driving skills, didn't she check her review mirror,

don't starve him o  
give him often enough and he won't have to rush through to the finish line, 9ija probarbly thinks ur gonna dissappear on him,

Women seem to brand men as devils. Every failed marriage (to a woman), d man is d cause. It's true dt men (as well as women) can b funny, but understnd dt certain things are suicidal. WHen u c smthing harmful & u dare it. In marriage, it's abt what your spouse likes abt u. 4get abt wht pple preach 2day in modern day marriage. U live 4 your hubby & vice versa. Is he says this dress isnt good, 4 goodness sake, stop wearing. If u insist on putting it on, it could b interpreted as u r looking 4 another admirer or spouse outside wht u have. If pple will undstnd it this way, spouses will live happier than it is. 


& pray tell what happens when you accede to the demands, oops, request of the other party in the union, but they don't return the favour. Marriage should be quid pro quo, if not, then it's not worth it. Too many times men expect the women to sacrifice and compromise, while they go merrily about their business. I'd rather be alone, fat/skinny, than with some person who doesn't value me or my opinion.

I do hope u kept ur figure dearest, and ditched the hubby,