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I wonder where the marriage is now

fyzaila:
Well, for me i can because s3x is not my thing but he must sha have enough 💰🤑 😃

Let us dive into this female equivalent condition.
Why is sex not your thing? I will say that it seems more accepted for a woman to have that situation than a man.

The man just gets insulted and traumatized.

If you have to even ask this question, then maybe you should not be having 4 children.
You shoulda stopped at 2.

IkeAbuja:
Aunty don go do surgery come online dey wyn us please show us your stomach lets verify their is no cut down there

She basically illustrated that she had a gastric sleeve so yes she had some surgical help....and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that!
Use every technology possible to achieve your goals. There is no honor or bragging right in treking from Lagos to Ibadan for days when you can simply just drive there in an hour.

Women: can you marry a man whose thing cannot stand? Or if it does, is not hard enough to penetrate even though his sperm is healthy? All you get is oral, fingers and toys.

I don't think this topic gets discussed enough, and it should, with the rate of consumption of blue pills and concortion by even young men in their 20s. E reach to table the matter.

Without these medicines, a lot of young men's members don't work today, and the effectiveness of those pills sometimes drop with each use, so it is a reality facing many.

Stargurl20:
He should be ready to turn blind eyes to my.....

Haba. But he go dey chop your toto naw
That one no reach you?

Jman06:
The existence of porn-induced erectile dysfunction is debatable and usually, the desensitization you alluded to resolves when the habit is stopped. This desensitization is common with regular sex or mazturrbation not only mazturrbation!

Everything should be in moderation!

Everyone is different. PIED is 100% real for many people, just like depression is real for many people.
Some people have been in it since their early formative years. That will affect someone differently who got into it much later.

Is it just me or was she sexier when she was bigger?

Jackanda1:
It does. There is such a thing as 'Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction'.

If one faps to Porn long enough, you get desensitized to a point that real women don't measure to your sexual standard anymore. No women gives you erection except the one on the screen.

Its better to have sex as much as you like, than fap to Porn. The brain wasn't designed for porn.

I laugh when i see a people support porn and fapping. I hope they end up with erectile dysfunction. That would be their biggest lesson.

Thankfully it can be cured by abstaining from porn.
The brain will reset.

Oxb90:
He is a demon. He is not fit to be alive.
What happened to all the female members of your church
This is why it is a truth to say homosexuals are not only demon possessed but also mad.

So your bone of contention is that he did not rape and kill the females instead?

There are some very unintelligent Nigerian girls that all they know is how to bill men with toto.
They don't understand things like unit of measure unless it involves unit of billings.

You cannot expect such a creature to properly navigate higher planes of reasoning that would be required when checking the dimensions of things before you buy them. In general, when buying luggage, its dimensions are important and something you want to check anyway.
I know she saw the dimensions too, but the kind of creature I'm talking about does not know the difference between CM and M.

Nigerian women basically just do yahoo yahoo with their toto while nigerian men do it with laptop.
One requires training your brain, the other requires training your holes with no brain work. It explains a lot.

This man has gone through some things. You can hear his pain.
Ndi Houston TX. Ndi Galveston.

https://www.facebook.com/clayton.udoh/videos/1269923231059646

When men finally talk. Listen to his hurt...

https://www.facebook.com/watch/live/?ref=watch_permalink&v=1269923231059646&t=0

Righteousness2:
You are very Wrong bro. That is the spirit of Poverty that ministering to you.

There is no crime or Sin in being SUPER Wealthy and Having all the jets , skycrappers and all that.

What is wrong is in letting the Wealth , riches and vanities to Own or control you.

What is wrong is in making thrse things to take the place of GOD ( 1st place) in your life and living.

What is wrong is in putting your trust in them.

What is wrong is in Glorying, Priding and bragging in wealth and riches.

No matter how rich, wealthy and Blessed you are, Handle them with Very light hands.
The Piroty of life should be in things that has Eternal value.
The Pirority of life should be in things that advances and strengthens your salvation and walk with GOD.

Abramham was rich and Blessed in ALL Things. He is in Heaven.
Lazarus the poor man, died in Poverty. He is also in Heaven.

You can choose how you want to make Heaven.

Yes indeed. Abraham was a business man.
He was not just collecting from the poor around him to enrich himself indefinitely.

A pastor should be paid for their spiritual work, but there needs to be checks and balances.
If a pastor amassed wealth from trading purely off his business earnings, then that too is also good.
Donation money is not his/her personal bank account.

Unfortunately with the current situation in Nigeria, many people realize it is easier to just carry bible and be reading from it while demanding that other people give you all the monies seemingly inscribed within, context be damned.

ultraviolet27:
While it is good to desire the best things of life and make money don't you think if the Woman isn't Satisfied She can also strive hard(hustle) and make more money? must it be the Husby alone that's why Men die earlier than Women.what is the good in making my Man die earlier than me living me behind in a luxury that may not even outlive me after my death?
Many Houses and buisnesses built by Rich Men or Couples had even Collapsed after their demise what's the craze for this money that you won't even take to Heaven self?? A Woman that Her Father hasn't even giving Her 100k before should be satisfied with Her Husby giving Her that, you are satisfied with your Dad's Poverty but wants to push your Husband to an early grave by pressuring Him to make more money!!

How many Wives does their husbands even give 30k for Shopping in this Nigeria right now?? let alone seeing 100k and yet won't be happy?? you aren't from the wealthy 5 percent of the Nigerian population yet you still they get entitlement mentality,
It's not every Man that is destined to be a Millionaire!!and if you as a Woman isn't Satisfied with that nothing stops you frm hustling harder!!

May God bless your head with more oil. You have spoken well.

Blessedpalms:
These fears are more than real the moment you hit 33. I looked in my mirror and saw my beards, becoming everything I feared.
I have never felt so lonely in a world filled with 7 billon humans. Too much worries

Maybe I should have took that risk, maybe I should have learnt something instead of just focusing on academics. I keep thinking about everything I could have done earlier. Maybe I should have started this 5 years ago at 28. Maybe I should have started that 7 years ago when I was 26.
But it's unfortunate those years are in the past now.

It's my fault, I was optimistic and thought things were going to be better. Government employment, good salary. I'll have a good career and my own family. Maybe a wife and 2 kids.
I just laughed at myself now,
This clown got No kids, no business
maybe that's even a blessing in disguise because how do I feed them?
I have always been afraid not being able to be there for people around me talk less of my kids. These fears are real because I can't even be there for myself.


I am not the type that blames anyone. I feel like life has a way of telling you optimism is weakness and a lie.
Don't get me wrong, Life is kind to many others
And this is where temptations comes, you start to see society and crime from a different perspective.
No one is free from this kinds of temptations

No one is free from this kinds of temptations.
This is why I find it hard to blame call girls and women in clubs acting a stripper. You don't know the kind of struggles that push people to where they are. I have grown and learnt not to make mockery of anyone. Some of them aren't even 33 yet. Alot of things tempt people to Fall. Many people with no real jobs.

Appprehsive about what to eat, appprehsive about health, Appprehsive about neighborhood asking for any fee, apprehensive about Rent, Appprehsive about aged parents. I don't know what tomorrow holds. You tell people to teach you things, they tell you, you're too old.

I am at a point where I am trying not fall. It's emotionally shattering. NO job, no real solid financial backing. It feels like only you in the world. you have to fight and figure it all out.
You think, Plan, write but see, it all feels like a meaningless scribble.

If you you are still 25 or 26 now is the time to do something. Just do something, forget about optimism. Optimism is deceptive.
Do everything not to stumble and fall in the future. Don't be bothered about what people think about what you do. You'll only be respected if you are able to care for yourself and people around you.

You are still young.
Start now. You will be soon be 38 looking back at 33 wishing you started today.

Blessedpalms:
These fears are more than real the moment you hit 33. I looked in my mirror and saw my beards, becoming everything I feared.
I have never felt so lonely in a world filled with 7 billon humans. Too much worries

Maybe I should have took that risk, maybe I should have learnt something instead of just focusing on academics. I keep thinking about everything I could have done earlier. Maybe I should have started this 5 years ago at 28. Maybe I should have started that 7 years ago when I was 26.
But it's unfortunate those years are in the past now.

It's my fault, I was optimistic and thought things were going to be better. Government employment, good salary. I'll have a good career and my own family. Maybe a wife and 2 kids.
I just laughed at myself now,
This clown got No kids, no business
maybe that's even a blessing in disguise because how do I feed them?
I have always been afraid not being able to be there for people around me talk less of my kids. These fears are real because I can't even be there for myself.


I am not the type that blames anyone. I feel like life has a way of telling you optimism is weakness and a lie.
Don't get me wrong, Life is kind to many others
And this is where temptations comes, you start to see society and crime from a different perspective.
No one is free from this kinds of temptations

No one is free from this kinds of temptations.
This is why I find it hard to blame call girls and women in clubs acting a stripper. You don't know the kind of struggles that push people to where they are. I have grown and learnt not to make mockery of anyone. Some of them aren't even 33 yet. Alot of things tempt people to Fall. Many people with no real jobs.

Appprehsive about what to eat, appprehsive about health, Appprehsive about neighborhood asking for any fee, apprehensive about Rent, Appprehsive about aged parents. I don't know what tomorrow holds. You tell people to teach you things, they tell you, you're too old.

I am at a point where I am trying not fall. It's emotionally shattering. NO job, no real solid financial backing. It feels like only you in the world. you have to fight and figure it all out.
You think, Plan, write but see, it all feels like a meaningless scribble.

If you you are still 25 or 26 now is the time to do something. Just do something, forget about optimism. Optimism is deceptive.
Do everything not to stumble and fall in the future. Don't be bothered about what people think about what you do. You'll only be respected if you are able to care for yourself and people around you.

You are still young.
Start now. You will be soon be 38 looking back at 33 wishing you started.

imagrg:
This topic is strictly for those endowed with toto and not for us carrying cucumber size preeks between their legs.

Entering toto is the preek's major function but when it fails to perform its natural role, ladies may not find it funny.

The question here now is: Can ladies tolerate a preekless life with a spouse?

The topic needs front page to garner more input from our queens on this growing and serious issue.

Anyone know the mods?

franchasofficia:
People may not understand this woman. If you calm down and think over her statement, you will realize that there are some truths in it.


You can never get what you despise.


You can never get what you do not desire with all your heart.


That is the power of positive thinking. It can also be likened to power of attraction


When you marry a woman that is easily satisfied or a woman who doesn't care about how much you give her or how much you earn, believe me, her low energy will start rubbing off on you with time. She will gradually influence you with her low thinking and poor desire.


But if you marry a success driven woman who loves success and big things, she will inspire you and motivate you to work harder and aim higher in whatever you do. When you remember that 100k won't excite your wife, you will always want to earn more to give her millions and believe me, whatever you desire in life is in your imaginations. Once you change your thinking, once you change your mindset, you will change your world.



I can go on and on to explain this better but let me stop here for now.


I support the lady

This your logic is twisted and unbiblical. Godly contentment is wise, and there is a need for balance.

The best thing a man can do, especially as the world moves into a new era, is to avoid BROKE women who love money.
A woman who, as a wife, has not worked on herself to bring anything in but her hand is always out to collect from you.

The only time a woman is good for loving money is if she can make it for herself.
But if he plan is to be solely dependent on the man, then she needs to put on the spirit of contentment.

If I talk now about igbo people and moneycentrism, somebody will come and be talking.
Anyway, let me come and be going.

folake4u:
Likeeeeee!!!!

This is how they chase women from commenting on threads. Mtcheww!

Oya sorry.

doggedfighter:
Can you stop running around this thread, let women talk please.

WTF...then TALK.
You are a woman aren't you?
Your opinion should not be based on what other women say first. Speak your own mind.

So long as internet porn usage is at an all time high, this issue will be an ever growing issue. Best we start talking about it now.

EmperorCaesar:
I wish I could open up here on this thread but Nigerianss too dey talk

I hope women can marry such men sha, else hmmm

This is a faceless forum.
Open away. It's the best place to discuss these things.

Personally, I will if I love her. We can explore other options like surrogacy or even adoption of a baby.

And it will never be something she will be made to feel ashamed of. I hate spouses who use things like these to attack their spouse later when they need ammunition to win a stupid argument. That's when you know you married Satan him/her self.

I see a lot of women are clueless about the male anatomy. There is a difference between impotence and infertility. For those talking about childbirth, There is IVF and things so that is not an option.

A man's sperm can be good even if he can't get the pipe up so y'all can still have children

I invoke the powers of front page upon this thread

pocohantas:
You are not a woman.
You don't own a vagina

You are not a transgender.

You are not a family lawyer, so you are definitely not privy to how many marriages have crashed due to no sex.

You are not married and sexually incapable.

So would you die if you take the back seat and allow ACTUAL women talk? At least allow women have the floor first. Must you comment even when the topic is clearly addressed to women?

Jeez!

Well said. What is your view on the subject?

lululovesblue:
I wonder what response to give to this.

If I say yes, I may be called a sIut who wants to cheat on her husband outside marriage.
If I say no, I may be called a sIut who cannot control her sex drive. Believe it or not, I've had this conversation with someone before. I'll just follow the topic to see other people's responses

My dear, please speak your mind. Ignore naysayers.

I don't think this topic gets discussed enough, and it should with the rate of consumption of blue pills and concortion by even young men in their 20s. E reach to table the matter.

Without these medicines, a lot of young men's dicks don't work today, and the effectiveness of those pills drop with each use, so it is a reality facing many.