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She refused to be used. Pity that the child suffered for it.

Who impregnates a girlfriend and then sends her to yankee for delivery? He is messy, and got what he got.

Would it not make sense to be with a fellow working class woman? Students are basically bums. Date your level.

Nigerian men, respect yourself enough to know that some females are actually well beneath your level. It's dating, not poverty alleviation. She is not your wife. Save small money for your actual wife.

Extracting resources from the men dumb enough to date them is the core skill set of a lot of girls.

Tinubuwins2023e:
I believe you sir. You can do it and you will do it to the amazement of your haters who have started wailing already this early morning as if you are the cause of there miserable life.

God bless you Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu

I hope you sucked Tinubu's dick well last night too.

Bish.

5 children, in these times?
Look, if you cannot afford contraceptives, na mutual oral smex sure pass.

nedekid:
In my opinion, she is family. You guys are her last bus stop. What if something happens to her in her husband's house? Surely there may be things she cannot reveal to you that makes her uncomfortable there for personal or embarrassing reasons. No woman will leave 5 kids without genuine reasons.
As per you. Do as you wish to move out if you have made up your mind, contribute to the home upkeep as you can. Encourage her to find something doing also.
The bright side of this is that when you guys move out, you will have your sister available to take care of your father while you face your hustle, also have grandchildren around him to keep him company and lively.

then she better find the comfort to discuss everything in full detail AND be ready to have her story cross checked.

Anything less is a play on my good graces, and I will not tolerate that.

But regardless, given your situation, there is no financial room for what she is planning to do.
So she needs to come up with different plans.

OP How was she raised? Was she raised to be an idiot who just goes around spreading legs getting inseminated or was she raised to be a contributing member of the house?

Every solid single Nigerian man has multiple babes to pick from when he gets tired of being single.

Sorry that sometimes you might not make the selection given his unique needs when that time comes. No hard feelings though, I'm sure you also have very good guys who are chasing you despite your deficiencies. Perhaps you can practice what you preach by looking past their deficiencies as well and giving them a chance?

If she no get yansh, at the very least she should have a nice face. If she no get either, then wetin she wan give our daughter?

she go dey alright.

A man wouldn't even leave his real wife for his side chick, talk less of poisoning/killing her.

That gender can reason like yansh sometimes.

AfroKnight:
Lies.

At some point or the other in their 20’s, all those women met at least 3 guys who would have been great husbands to them. They didn’t give the men any chance cos of baseless pride and conceit, or they preferred heartbreakers.

In hindsight, they can see which men actually wanted them for marriage and which didn’t.

This reminds me of one babe (a friend of mine) who was considering one player like that. I warned her several times. She even accused me of being jealous and a hater. She accused me of secretly wanting her but that certainly was not the case, cos she was not even my type.

Everyone knew this guy was only going to break her heart. They couldn’t warn her but I didn’t send her. I told her straight. It was funny sha cos She had just left one player and was about to fall for another. And there was a serious decent guy by the side who was dying for her. She kept friendzoning that one. Responsible guy, enterprising and a kind person. Lol.

Long story short, she got heartbroken again. Surprise surprise. The friendzoned guy too was a mumu, instead make him find another chick, he was still hanging around but they never dated cos she still didn’t see him as suitable when all he ever did was care for her. I graduated before them anyway and left them to their silly situationship. Last I heard, she’s still single. I don’t know where the other guy is.

Yeaaaah....

Nothing dries up a woman's pussy more than a man begging for her.
They know that if he has to beg her, then no one is begging him, so he is worth less.
Whether she thinks he is cute or well off is irrelevant, it is always whether she PERCEIVES that other women are craving him.
Women only care about impressing other women.

The best thing a man can do for his sanity, health, and general life happiness...is to build himself.
Planets revolve around sons (suns), not the other way round.

You think simps chase women? You don't know what chasing is until a woman chases you.
Their own mumu no get pause button because they are already super emotional beings.

Kingstanding:
. It's right. The European that brought Christianity to Africa always wear it. I wanna ask you a question? Have you been out of Nigeria before?

LOL
I can already see where you are coming from.
I will leave you be.

Kingstanding:
. For those of you who are still under the law of Moses may not wear trouser. And the Bible says curse are those who are still under the law. You're a confusionist.

Leave law.
Is it RIGHT?

IF you have to ask, that is the Holy Spirit already telling you No.
You don't need to rationalize past that.

It's only to attend international forum and to be posing around that these ones know.

have you tried having a deep conversation with some pussy-owners?
Eventually you will stare at them in awe like how can a whole human being be this daft and vapid?
After which you will simply just understand that this is why all she is good for is swallowing cum and being bred like a cow.

She can at least be of some use to the human race that way.

Has anyone read the book "Ask for the Ancient Paths" by Jessica Jones?

ogakamwu:
Please kindly advise me if it is okay.

I am a guy of 35 years considering a lady for marriage who is 22 years.

Please is it okay.

You are free to criticize.

I just want to get it right.

Leonardo di Caprio breaks up with any woman as soon as she turns 25. But not every one is Leo.

Ask yourself why you are marrying her.

Good for him.

No one does that persistence shit no more.
No means no. And any woman today sitting down waiting for somebody's son in 2022 to be persistent while giving him no green light is a fool.

fcbelle72:
The dude is a fool...Will he give her back all her puna he ate , if i were the girl, i will claim other properties even the ones i dont have,he will pay tier

Only if she gives back all the dick and sperm she has also enjoyed from him.

He likely bought it for her in the first place so he has every right to repropriate his favors.

Better to donate and get blessed than to donate and get mocked by a person who thinks they are sharp.

Is this a BDSM thing she's on about?

She has no game if she can only get that with money.
These things come easy to women. It's not an accomplishment... I guess that's why she wants to use money.

Noise cancelling earphones while listening to music will sort you out.

Sadly, you cannot dictate your roommates sex life as he pays rent there same as you.

Blessedmercy8:
I wonder at the people that go about engaging someone in a relationship when they know theyre not interested in that person. Isn't that madness?

I never see that person that will try it with me.

If I'm courting you and you blank me more than three hours a day, even if it's for genuine reason, I'll send you a painful and unbelievable text and end it. No time to waste.

Sounds like you are jobless, and used to dating fellow jobless people who are in their phone always. You have an anxious attachment style. Go and Google what that is and seek help quickly.

XullySwt:
Good evening everyone, thank God for life coz that alone is indeed a great blessing.

I will be brief with my post here i promise
Indeed i have seen life at its worst....

After mourning my husband i decided to leave my city Kaduna to begin a new life with my kids,yeah a boy and a girl.

I started from the scratch here in Abuja, from lesson that paid not upto #6000 to a school that pays #20,000 and presently am working in a school that pays not less than #50,000 all these boils down to my hardwork and perseverance and above all God.

Alright this the main ishhh, i met this single, understanding and loving guy that have already paid for my dowry and wedding is coming up November this year

Now my fear..... We love each other, he loves my kids so dearly we have been together for almost 2 years now that's why he decided to move the relationship further.

Ohh yes, i said my fear, his currently a job hunter ?

we thought things would get better before the wedding but Nigeria got no chill sincerely so now i have to leave my job and follow him to his city where he base so as to help him with his little business hoping things would get better.

So now my question, Am i doing the right thing by moving to his city or i should continue with my job and wait till he gets a better job??

Adding that his in his mid 30's and willing to settle down.

Please my people advice me. Or if you can help him pass through this stage of life, blessings will follow you.....

He is a graduate and lives in Zaria. God bless you all.

Between sorry for any blunders or typo error, am just seeing double

He sounds like an unwise man.

You don't tell your woman to leave what she is doing and come and meet you until you have prepared a place for her.
One thing before the other.

Sad...but it's the life they chose.

The whipping has not yet ended. They still have a year to go.
Somebody who supports the bandits himself, you think he gives a furk about those people?
He will only care and be outraged when he hears that cows are being gang raped. He can't stand for that.
President of the bovines.

Who God wants to bring down, He first allows to be foolish so they can partner in the endeavour. Tinubu is doing too many foolish things because he is not God's chosen.

She will be the one to beat if the next guy does not beat her.

Also, I pity her children.

cococandy:
False. No one has ever asked my child to change their gender… where are children being forced to change genders like this? I want to know where and I’ll be there protesting with my placard. You can’t even force your child to change their gender much less someone else’s child. Lol




He’s far right. So is Tucker Carlson and co

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1RpN5CI-4Qg

NuCypher:
Dude, grow up while you can. Tell us you were not leaving the lights on while you were in Nigeria

Guy shut up before I dash you $300 electric bill.

Any body wanna talk about it?