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OP, so deep and provocative, your message come across as something many guys have experienced at on point of their life.

I will advice that you let her go. You cant really blame her much and I wont. She is probably influenced by people around her. Trust me, her friends and family members could have been asking her what are you doing with a jobless guy when someone else is available, do you know if he could be dating another girl over there and fooling you here ,etc? Bro, ladies are very good at poisoning another's heart when it comes to things like this. But sway that aside.

Bro, never put a woman as your number priority in getting a means of making a better tomorrow for yourself. I am a fresh grad and waiting for my NYSC already but I dont put a woman as a priority. What you need now is money, consistent money and that should be your focus.

To get a job in Nigeria is not easy but I can tell you that networking is the best way to go in a country like this. connect with people that are connected and please, do not throw away jobs that are hardly available.

You are not the first to go through this neither will you be the last. Long distance relationship, as far as I know, has never worked. When a woman wants to make her decision, she does not care about your sorry a55.

As she said, people do change.Bear that in mind too that change is the only constant thing in life.

Look, this is Nigeria and you have to start acting like one. The only language most this girls understand is MONEY. If you go the cash, they will come in drove and will want to tear you apart.I was on chat with a friend last night. He told me that in 2010, he was asking a girl out, she refused and even insulted him. Well by 2012 he exploded and guess what? He bought a BB touch 1 and the rest is history. He told me that if he wanted her, all he would do is just call her on phone. That is the reality for most this Nigerian girls. Except the very few that are well brought up. I can also give you 2 other instances with different friends of mind.

My ex class mate was dating a girl and it was also a long distance thing but the guy was doing his best to make sure that she close to him. But did that stop her from Fvcking a doctor? NO! But as God will have it, my friend got a job with Exxon Mobil as a permanent staff due to having under gone their training before that time. That was a the girl lost an opportunity. Now my friend can buy any car he want , bran new, build his house if he wants etc .

He had to change his line after the girl became a pest. To get a full gist of this. Google ===>" Nairaland.om: die minute"


Hunt that JOB down that is all that really matter--yourself and future. Networking is what I am applying to my approach and from what I am seeing, by God's grace, I may not finish my NYSC before getting a job.

Let her go. Period!

xzibukz: lol
He just want to be sure,but seriously I found online shopping more interesting especially if its something I can use for a while before selling it e.g laptop,phones,camera,games console.
or I keep it for personal use if I couldn't get a good deal.
[b]but importing Brazilian hair,I wonder if it's men that give women the money to buy such.
I can't imagine myself giving out Brazilian hair to my Girlfriend [/b]of Siblings incase I didn't find a good buyers

I laugh in india *nehi nehi nehi nehi*

It will surprise you that men spend money on that just to please a woman and what are they after? TOTO...

kenniojo: BABA I GET LIITLE EXP. I JUST NEED FINISHING TOUCHES

look closely at my siggy, and you will find my number.

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Ogugua, did u ever stay in Naija, na where u learn all those ya naija slang, pidgin and all?

xzibukz: Presently through Circuitatlantic.com

you try ooo. After saying it on this thread he still ask the same question. Annoying.

Redmosquito: Hehen! So u sucked the tongue wella abi?

na lips things , no tongue werey

Redmosquito: hehehehehehehe! 2sexy so girls no come dsturb you for kiss?

I no say u no go let me rest now... black mosquito. But I bad for that kiss thing oooo. No play go there ooo. You no when you kiss and a lady tell you say she never experienced that kind thing before or she ask you say where you learn to kiss like that... To be frank, the first girl I had it with still never believed when I told her it was my firs time.

Redmosquito: Chai! And you call urself 2sexy?!

bro... I didnt even start dating till dat age... book no let me see road... abeg remove the quote

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Tonjeola1: pls, what do u use to buy from ebay?

read dis page again. Haba... Even when d guy has said it you are still asking.

I will once I get home. Thanks.

xzibukz: see

what phone are you using bro...?

Xpset: kai i wonder which school u attended if any. do u need to be spoon feed. from africard to websutfer.

u must be gbari

people are just 2lazy to do research.

Optimisticgondy: Please I sent you mail

i have replied you

chemashie: I have been sending the price lists of the brazilian hair to many people who saw the info on NL but not read from anyone if he/she has paid for the product. It means we have many jokers on nairaland. Or are we planning to buy after the new year??

That is nairaland for you--always quick to drop or ask for email. Pathetic!

osca123: i ve nt realy taken time to go tru ebay and amazon. Why do u prefare them to aliexpress and co? Are there products more original, cheaper and how about shipping and payment?

If you want quality product, especially electronics, then ebay and amazon is your market.

Nigerian too like awoof... I learnt that what you pay for is what you get. Cheap things poisonous if you look deeply.

my 2cent... please I need to get on selling my domains and sending out emails... xmas don come and man need money

sweetrace: Well different kinds of the blocking and filtering applications. The text blocker I use is one that allows the text come in, but instead of going into your inbox it goes straight to the blocker. I programmmed mine to automatically delete it without me reading it. This way, the sender doesn't know that I'm blocking his text messages, so there's no need to change his number. But even if he changes his numer, the app can accommodate quite a number of numbers. As per phone calls, if the "stalker" changes their number, you receive that once and simply add to the filter list. Oh well! It works for me.

What kind of phone does that for you or what phone are you using?

xzibukz: yes,I have used all means genuine/available online for importation, before settling with CA,here is a trick I used in shopping both in ebay & Amazon:
1.I download ebay & Amazon application for my Android, custom a search for my need (product, country of availability, price, condition of the items, all in the ebay application for Android) .
2.Always be with my Gtbank ATM card incase I see. an interesting offer.
3.I always go for an item that has all original package because no one in my town wants a used item for the original price.
4.Always ask Amazon sellers to send me pictures of the original items I found interested.
more coming...

Okay... can you kindly text me you phone number to me at the number in my signature? Look closely. I will like to give you a call.
Does the GTB card need to me activated (I mean paying the 3k for token) for use before you can pay CA?

Please can you explain what you mean for the bold text?

learner gini... na game

heed101: guy u dey try o. Na u go resuscitate this thread from its cemetery baa. Or r u a learner?

[size=30pt]OYA GRAB THIS ONE AGAIN $197(BIN)[/size]

http://www.ebay.com/itm/COMPAQ-PRESARIO-CQ60-15-6-PENTIUM-DUAL-CORE-T4200-2GHz-250GB-2GB-WIFI-DVD-RW-/251203272247?pt=Laptops_Nov05&hash=item3a7ce1be37

I just found this on my facebook page

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How can a girl send you boxers & expect a BB? A tie & expect Brazilian hair? Singlet & expect iPad 2? Cufflinks & expect BB Porsche of 450k? Or nothing at all & expect an expensive dinner at Chicken Republic?

...Well, The National Association of Nigerian Boyfriends (NABNB) says it should be trade by barter this Xmas Oooh - Singlet should be exchanged with a Bra.

-If she gives you roll-on, buy her "Miss Paris". -She gives you cufflinks, give her rubber band to tie her natural hair.

-If she shows up at your door empty- handed, put NTA or AIT for her to watch.

Don't let her watch your subscribed cable (no free thing). - If she asks for an expensive dinner, take her to an expensive night vigil. MFM or CAC to be precise.

-She gives you a flower, you give her igneous rock from Olumo (all na nature,guys dey vex).=D =)) Compliments 2'u ll.



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Na wa o

[size=30pt]ANOTHER DEAD CHEAP BABY ($99)[/size]


http://www.ebay.com/itm/TOSHIBA-SATELLITE-A135-S2386-2GB-Ram-80GB-HD-WITH-WINDOWS-VISTA-/130823719483?pt=Laptops_Nov05&hash=item1e75b38a3b

benbrains: Well, I didn't say U̶̲̥̅̊ weren't...

Where U̶̲̥̅̊ guys really discussing Christmas thingy or doing Christmas thingy...

Discussing oooooo

benbrains: It is well...

Two people, a gurl and a dude discussing Christmas thingy in a room for hours, with d door completely locked.

And so ? Dont you know that certain things are better discussed behind closed doors. Must the public know about it? shuo!

[size=30pt]Another Dead Cheap Baby( BUY IT NOW $180)[/size]

http://www.ebay.com/itm/HP-Pavilion-DV6700-Series-1-8GHz-Core-2-Duo-2GB-250GB-15-4-Ubuntu-12-04-/110992064707?pt=Laptops_Nov05&hash=item19d7a480c3

Activityj: bro! Please can you show me any baby on ebay,that baby you show us previously they have bought it! Help! Help!

[size=20pt]GRAB THIS BABY LESS THAN 20 HOURS LEFT[/size]==============> http://www.ebay.com/itm/DELL-INSPIRON-1564-15-6-LAPTOP-INTEL-CORE-I3-M330-2-1GHZ-320GB-HDD-4GB-RAM-/170961569042?pt=Laptops_Nov05&hash=item27ce1a8512

nice4life: there is no way that could happen, infact i need to thank her very well for misbehaving helping me to meet the love of my life.Honestly her misdeed was a great blessing to me.

In the words of 190, the ex has to go so that the wife can come in...

When was the last time u used dem? What I find on their website contradict what you have just said.

They accept credit card and charge 8.5%.

Have you used them before?

xzibukz: 1.Shipito will cease your goods asking you to prove the ownership of your creditcard
2.You can only pay for shipping fee by western union money transfer if you are using shipito
3.You will be charge 10% when you ask them to do the purchase for you
4.Circuitatlantic is the best as far as I am concern,the only reason I can quit using them is when paypal accept Nigerians

I know this thread was created to bash the ladies... what about guys who has slept countless other ladies and still counting?
but some guys have also lost count of the girls they have slept with. so what are we saying here?

[size=20pt]shipito.com[/size] I think they are a bit cheaper than circuit atlantic. still researching on them...

rafhell: must we buy every phone?
these guys are just ripping us off

that's a legal way to steal money if ask me. Business men understand human nature, they carry out researches and they use what they find to make, market and sell products.

I dont fall into the category of people who just buy everything off the shelve or to impress people.

Since I read Rich Dad's Guide To Investment, I finally understood how businesses think. I often delete TXT from MTN, GLO sent to purchase one thing or the Other....

BB,BB,BB, BB,BB ooo. E never end now? Even small pikin dey use BB now.

Bro, when you see people being crazy over something, position yourself and make money off it.... It's call BUSINESS!

Na now I wan even change my phone sef just because of my chic and whatsapp things. If not, I am very OK with what I am using.