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favouryemmy:
Yes, this is one imperfection,but it's a major one. If she doesn't change, he should move on jare. This imperfection can lead to a divorce.

Glad you get my point. I actually meant TRY before giving UP, instead of just moving on like that.

PresVA:
Men need 'supportive' wives that would help them run the house financially. .. but it's sad many of them can't help domestically while still expecting the wife to make money...

I encourage men to marry women that have visions; she should have plans career wise or business wise atleast to add value to herself. .. However, marrying a woman because she'll help you financially doesn't just add up to me.. A man shouldn't keep such a mindset! You should struggle and your woman would know when just to step in and help; you shouldn't be echoing the financial help thingy. ..

Except the lady in question is a lazy Gold digger. .

Domestic work are piece of cake for me lol.

0taPiaPia:
one question for you bro..
The clear conscience, is it after the marriage

no, not really. Before marriage actually. It means you tried instead of just ending without trying. It is wrong to end a relationship simply because of one's error or flaws. I have ended numerous relationship because the other person just seemed unreasonable, mostly without trying to change them or help them become a better person. But if I continue like that, it would be very detrimental at the end because there is no complete package anywhere.

deyemia:
Not at all, we just started courting not long ago, about three months now, her bday just passed in feb. I got her a lovely cake and a wrist watch, she really appreciated the gifts and I was happy too.

My birthday is this month, I told her and she brought out her phone to save the date. I'll keep my fingers crossed and see what happens on that day.

I strongly hope she doesnt disappoint after all she said today. If not for what she said today, I wouldnt be looking forward to getting anything from her.

Those words are really disturbing as they seem but you would have to watch your back. Like I said, let her know how her words affect you. Bring her to realities of life. You said she is from a rich home, that could have been reason because such persons do not really know what REAL life means or look like. I could remember telling myself that I can't ask people for anything when I was in school all because I had mother that gave me everything I needed. I also remember looking down on people with poor grades and wonder why anyone could not make a better grade.

But when my mother died, It dawn on me what it feels like on the other side, did I ask for help from people in those days after her death? SURE bro. What about my grades? it was affected.

So you see what it feels like when we are on safer side? It same way many of our politicians do not know what the masses are going through, neither do their kids and family.

You have to bring her to realities of what it feels like on the other side. I don't know about you but there are subtle ways to make her see it's not easy being a man not being supportive to man whom you call your husband is very cruel and insensitive.

deyemia:
Honestly this is similar to what I envisage and it is very scary!

Bro, I would have said dump her but having grown wiser, it is not the best to end a relationship on the basis of one's imperfection, hence the need to mould someone into a better being. That is the reason for our co-existence as humans, leaving them better than you met them.

There is no complete package anywhere.

You need to sit her down and talk to her at length. Let her know where you stand and what you feel about her words. She may not likely change but your conscience would be clear that you tried.

hassrash:
Budget 1.8/1.9m for a corolla sport 2006/07

all wit custom duty papers

budget 1.6/1.7m for matrix 2005 model

How Much will land me 2006 Toyota Rav4? Thanks

Vikings007:
I have to agree with You on this one...a good domain will always sell itself, if You like use pidgin English as Your title.

Y'all are missing the point.

In internet marketing and sales letter writing, there is what we call AIDA. The A at the beginning stands for ATTENTION. Let's forget about other letters in the acronym

As seller of any goods, your first major goal isn't to sell BUT to pull ATTENTION. That is essence of my method for using the name of the enduser as subject. I didn't start but it has been proven over and over again that personalized email delivers far better results, hence the name in the email is aligned along that logic.

Anyway, whatever you feel like using sha. Happy Sunday. Na you wear suit like professor ?

Lsofdk:
i guess you're an extrovert, I'm right. now here is a live example of an extrovert the worst cheats ever

probably this dude has a girlfriend, and simply because a lady objected his opinion, he wants to have a nice time with her to prove a false point.

You killed it bro.

xpac01:
Calmness is feminine.
As an alpha male I see introverted ladies as beings that need my care and protection.
Their voices also. I am yet to see an introverted lady without that brain melting slow voice.
And try romance with an introverted lady. They are born lovers.
#teamnointrovertnomarrige

so true

MARINS:
Wow! How I wish most guys could do this.
Lalasticlala come and see wonders

I can do that

delishpot:
If it was one of your girls that followed a bayelsa boy home and his people refused to hand her over to her parents for months, would you say these words to your people?

don't you know these people are animals?

9jii:
She was not the first southern gal to ran to the north and will never be the last.
all the nonsense you people are talking will never make sense to us ever.
She found peace and love b4 u ruined it 4 her
thank God she's pregnant

Will it be okay if the same measure be meted out to your girls? Please answer my question. If your answer is NO, may your Allah never receive your prayers henceforth and Every good prayers towards him becomes a curse upon your life and those of your lineage

goldtooth hmmmm

elevatoria:
No, no and no, why is it so difficult for you to get namejet account. I t is not a matter of man know man, may be you did not have the required documents?

dude, how many of your domains do you have on Namejet? Go submit ur domains and come to tell us ur experience

DauraDullard0:
The day of reckoning is coming... The excesses of you northerners is reaching boiling point and will soon boil over. The chickens are gradually coming home to roost. The faulty foundations upon which this evil and criminal contraption called Nigeria is built will soon be tested. Everybody is watching with keen interest.

just leave them bro. They are in for a shocker.

Speechless3:
But they worship international rnb musicians.

but same RnB is dead in Nigeria. I am a huge RnB fan and I sing RnB as well as a hobby but Nigeria has killed notable RnB singers... Styl Plus, Wande Cole

carinmom:
Op, receive sense for your hatred. There are criminals everywhere north or south.

I did you see the fool I quoted above and I quite sure you are his liker

carinmom:
Maybe your cousin gave him room to be harassing her, you know how many of you southerners dress is disgusting.

yeah and that is why you malu fool found it worthy to harrass her despite being disgusting abi? So your monkey brother like disgusting thing too abi?

Good, you guys should keep it up. Time is thinking and disintegration is eminent at this stage.

9jii:
She was not the first southern gal to ran to the north and will never be the last.
all the nonsense you people are talking will never make sense to us ever.
She found peace and love b4 u ruined it 4 her
thank God she's pregnant

Now, this is what I have been saying. Anyway, you are lucky, very lucky this is an online forum and therefore gives your the freedom to talk trash. I would run you down if it were offline, irrespective she isn't related to me. If I were the parents, I will kill that child in her and your wish will be squashed.

Bloody animals.

drauj:
Mr. OP, I can understand your Bitterness and Hatred against the "North". But it's too extreme and unrealistic.

PS: I'm a Northerner. A far Northwestern one for that matter.

Are you a muslim? Did you follow what your brothers were saying concerning Ese's case? That because southerners engage in sex before they reach the age of 18, it therefore makes it right for they (North) to forcefully have sex and marry Ese? I couldn't just contain my anger. One thing I believe in is tit for tat and it's high time we tell your people that Nigeria does not belong to them and will NEVER BE. YOU hear that? Nigerians does not belong to the North... I never wanted to support the disintegration of Nigeria but right now, I think it is the best.

tartar9:
are you telling us your cousin stabbed someone simply because he requested for the knife she stole and defending a man for beating a poor kid.

dude, the kid was not beaten. I JOKINGLY clip/pin the head of the kid between his leg. He didn't beat the kid.

It seems you have poor eyesights? Where in my post did I state that the ABOKI/MALU requested for a knife. let me explain again. The knife was owned by our friend, a yoruba guy to be precise. Aboki was always sexually harrasing my cousin and when the opportunity came, she stabbed him with the knife she collected from the yoruba dude. simples

ademega:
with the pix, is that not an evidence of a struggling home?
with what we have been reading since yesterday, are u saying the girl has not been proving stubborn to reunite with her parents?

while must IPOD people attack for no reason. madam first lady NA beg I beg u oh I no get incurable problem oh.

it's just unfortunate that people on this section make me sick. Kanu Nwankwo was from a home like that, 2Face WAS from a home like that, osimhen the under 17 world cup star, was from a home like that and I can go on...

You may end up in a home like that tomorrow even if you have 100million in your account right now... NOBODY knows tomorrow

ChuzzyBlog:
Even with this, they are still in relegation zone

caesaraba:
Oh God! Not again!

what happened?

missbronze:
Hmmmm.


What do this Billionaires do that we don't do?

I mean, how do they acquire so much wealth?

Does it mean they are the ones that husstle most?

Abi, na dem get brain pass?


And, Yes, life is not fair. how can it bless one person with so much wealth and let another person be as poor as church rat.?



Meanwhile, why is it that the ratio of rich men are higher than that of rich women?

Is it that God or luck favours men most?

ONE: They are risk takers. Many job seekers are scared of taking risk, especially financial risk.

They have failed more often than you can imagine.

They think BIG

they are dreaded go getters. They hate salary jobs with passion and prefer to determine their time.

So many things set them apart and they know something you don't know.

paulsir:
namejet is more like a club,you dont get in easily.I have tried it count without numbers.I even got the manager email,maied him,only for him to said my domains doesnt worth it.

it is a case of man know man

[size=25pt]STORY... YUNUSA THE BASTARD WILL GO SCOT FREE like other northerners who partake in this crime[/size]

DabELLs:
Online gangstar... You should be commenting to these instead.

Pastor accused of rape, sexual battery of children
http://www.wdsu.com/news/local-news/new-orleans/pastor-accused-of-rape-sexual-battery-of-children/36416032

Pastor rapes 13-yr-old during deliverance, says its devil’s work
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/11/pastor-rapes-13-yr-old-during-deliverance-says-its-devils-work/

Pastor Rapes Pastor’s Wife Inside Church
http://www..com/talk/topic,45238.0.html

Church Leaders Chop Up Baby On Altar And Eat It. Pope Francis Participates.
http://beforeitsnews.com/eu/2014/04/church-leaders-chop-up-baby-on-altar-and-eat-it-pope-francis-participates-2556828.html

Eye witnesses to Pope Francis killing and eating babies in Satanic rituals
http://www.abovetopsecret.com/forum/thread1047693/pg1

Kevin Annett: Eye witnesses toPope Bergoglio rape teens, kill& eat babies in Satanic Ninth Circle ritual
http://exopolitics.blogs.com/exopolitics/2014/04/kevin-annett-papacy-and-vatican-exorcised-and-abolished-replaced-by-new-spiritual-gathering-of-free-.html

so because they do it, it makes it right for me to rape and kill your daughter? If you can not answer me right, then you are not worth air you breathe in one seconds