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Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by MoNickk(f): 10:17pm On Jul 14, 2016
when a lady says 'I was there for him',it simply means she was there. period. she was there as a shoulder to cry/lean on during trying times,there as an adviser,there to mop his brow during illnesses,there to pack up his vomit after a drunken night with the boys. on the other hand,it could mean monetarily. dating a guy who has promised you marriage n Ure both saving together for bride price and all of a sudden,he makes it big n suddenly remembers you have bow leg. one of many scenarios.
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by logica(m): 10:22pm On Jul 14, 2016
It means other women were HERE for him.
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by adedayo3193(m): 10:23pm On Jul 14, 2016
No mind dem @op dem go sit down for house dey watch marry again,while the guy go dey for work uzzling for wot the girl
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by adedayo3193(m): 10:24pm On Jul 14, 2016
No mind dem @op dem go sit down for house dey watch married again,while the guy go dey for work uzzling for wot the girl
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Olypeppy(f): 10:24pm On Jul 14, 2016
physically,mentally,socially,sexually all join.Ungrateful niggas everywhere...
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Olypeppy(f): 10:27pm On Jul 14, 2016
physically,mentally,socially,sexually all join.Ungrateful niggas everywhere...All na standing by him joor
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by soberdrunk(m): 10:29pm On Jul 14, 2016
Means in plain terms that she has better options but has decided to manage ur 'broke ass'..........
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by solidman59(m): 10:30pm On Jul 14, 2016
I love this babe. You are really magical
magicalBae:
undecided

Ladies who usually say that are those set of ladies that never add a drop of water to an ocean.

A supportive woman don't brag over stuffs like dat no matter what but if d opposite buy a recharge card of #200, she'll remind u d date n time she bought it wen u 2 hav lil misunderstanding.


U suffered with him b'cos


*u asked him for 10k n he gave u 4k ?
*u asked him to take u out n he said not dis weekend ?
*u don't get t'fare at times wen u pay him a visit?
* u asked him to buy u iPhone6 n he got u BB10? ..... nonsense!!!!

U're nothing but a liability to him.
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by ileogbenfidel(m): 10:31pm On Jul 14, 2016
This girls that will be forming am suffering with you and still be knacking other guys out there abeg forget the girls ain't loyal.

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Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by doveda: 10:31pm On Jul 14, 2016
You are not making any sense. I don't think you are woman sef

Ladies who say this are no different from men who think women should worship them because they me TG or lives better. We are in a country where a ‘good' woman is expected to stick with a man be it her husband or fiancee or bf all through his financial struggles. To do that means that hse may constantly have to listen to his struggles, supplement his income with what she has and ignore those prospective guys that seemed better off. If she is unable to do this, you will be the same set of people that will crucify her for not sticking with him.




magicalBae:
undecided

Ladies who usually say that are those set of ladies that never add a drop of water to an ocean.

A supportive woman don't brag over stuffs like dat no matter what but if d opposite buy a recharge card of #200, she'll remind u d date n time she bought it wen u 2 hav lil misunderstanding.


U suffered with him b'cos


*u asked him for 10k n he gave u 4k ?
*u asked him to take u out n he said not dis weekend ?
*u don't get t'fare at times wen u pay him a visit?
* u asked him to buy u iPhone6 n he got u BB10? ..... nonsense!!!!

U're nothing but a liability to him.

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Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Akkord4gov: 10:32pm On Jul 14, 2016
magicalBae:
undecided

Ladies who usually say that are those set of ladies that never add a drop of water to an ocean.

A supportive woman don't brag over stuffs like dat no matter what but if d opposite buy a recharge card of #200, she'll remind u d date n time she bought it wen u 2 hav lil misunderstanding.


U suffered with him b'cos


*u asked him for 10k n he gave u 4k ?
*u asked him to take u out n he said not dis weekend ?
*u don't get t'fare at times wen u pay him a visit?
* u asked him to buy u iPhone6 n he got u BB10? ..... nonsense!!!!

U're nothing but a liability to him.

Are u for real?
If this your writing wasn't for "see me" purpose. God pls forgive me for that negative believe about 21st century ladies

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Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by whoAreYou11: 10:35pm On Jul 14, 2016
Funny!! but that's the truth.

YorubaWoman:
grin grin grin


Aimoye ojo to ti ro
Owo to ti wo gbo
Provision rira nipa pe keyan na le contributu
Gbogbo nkan teyan nse, ise oluwa ni
Boowu ko gbori duro
Bi pe eyan n fun onibaara lowo ati awon alaini ni o se je semi

I don't say 'boowu e ko gbori duro, oun leyan ba e jiya yi'
No no no, eniyan nrin oun sowo nu
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by ERCROSS(m): 10:44pm On Jul 14, 2016
magicalBae:
undecided

Ladies who usually say that are those set of ladies that never add a drop of water to an ocean.

A supportive woman don't brag over stuffs like dat no matter what but if d opposite buy a recharge card of #200, she'll remind u d date n time she bought it wen u 2 hav lil misunderstanding.


U suffered with him b'cos


*u asked him for 10k n he gave u 4k ?
*u asked him to take u out n he said not dis weekend ?
*u don't get t'fare at times wen u pay him a visit?
* u asked him to buy u iPhone6 n he got u BB10? ..... nonsense!!!!

U're nothing but a liability to him.


Sister... I swear u head stand gidigba for ur neck, imagine the rubbish those three ladies above u were spewing, they know the truth yet shy away from it... I don dry fall in love with u already gan cheesy
cum and be there for me biko cheesy
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by meme98: 10:45pm On Jul 14, 2016
magicalBae:
undecided

Ladies who usually say that are those set of ladies that never add a drop of water to an ocean.

A supportive woman don't brag over stuffs like dat no matter what but if d opposite buy a recharge card of #200, she'll remind u d date n time she bought it wen u 2 hav lil misunderstanding.


U suffered with him b'cos


*u asked him for 10k n he gave u 4k ?
*u asked him to take u out n he said not dis weekend ?
*u don't get t'fare at times wen u pay him a visit?
* u asked him to buy u iPhone6 n he got u BB10? ..... nonsense!!!!

U're nothing but a liability to him.
chai....dis gal get truth 4 mouth
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Nobody: 10:45pm On Jul 14, 2016
It means she now owns your life and you dare not breathe unless she gives you permission.

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Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Nobody: 10:49pm On Jul 14, 2016
Toks2008:
I have heard many ladies use these words and i really want some ladies to clear the air on this matter.

Its amazing that some ladies juxtapose staying with a struggling guy with doing him a favour and I tend to wonder why this is so. I believe that a lady should be with a man because she wants to regardless of whether he eventually hit it big In life.

I once dated a lady and each time i gave her what i can afford she will quickly say"im struggling with you now o and nobody is seeing it" and i try hard to remember if we went out together to hustle.

So the question is;when a lady says "i was there for him when he had nothing" please what exactly does she mean?

1..Does it mean she stood by him by actively contributing to his life by bringing him food or food stuffs,by giving him her money or helping him in one way or the other materially or monetarily?

or

2.Does she mean she remained his bae when he was struggling and suffered with him by drinking the little garri he managed to buy with the little stipends he gets or because she usually collects the little he gives to her from the very little money he fortunately makes from his hustle.

Please ladies i really need to know your definition of being there for a man in times of struggles

Over to you ladies.

Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by karryn(f): 10:52pm On Jul 14, 2016
I have done number 1 in 3 relationships but none of them appreciated
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Piptoes(f): 10:56pm On Jul 14, 2016
EnigmaticEnigma:


That's what's up!

I really don't like it when girls you barely know (like under a year), start asking for stuff.

Such a turn off undecided
And ladies hate it too, when a guy they barely know ( like less than a month) start asking for sex...
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by agabaI23(m): 11:00pm On Jul 14, 2016
magicalBae:
undecided

Ladies who usually say that are those set of ladies that never add a drop of water to an ocean.

A supportive woman don't brag over stuffs like dat no matter what but if d opposite buy a recharge card of #200, she'll remind u d date n time she bought it wen u 2 hav lil misunderstanding.


U suffered with him b'cos


*u asked him for 10k n he gave u 4k ?
*u asked him to take u out n he said not dis weekend ?
*u don't get t'fare at times wen u pay him a visit?
* u asked him to buy u iPhone6 n he got u BB10? ..... nonsense!!!!

U're nothing but a liability to him.
Magicalbae, all these sense with those legs?
I don dey look for you since wink
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Piptoes(f): 11:01pm On Jul 14, 2016
karryn:
I have done number 1 in 3 relationships but none of them appreciated
same here dear...they start developing "new money syndrome"
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Boyooosa(m): 11:09pm On Jul 14, 2016
Omotayor123:
It means she was there for him in his trying moments.
According to a Yoruba adage :"The presence of people in your life is worth more than any money".

Being lonely kills faster than being poor! cool
Where then is the word LOVE? I used to think dat love is being shared btw lovers... I thot the lady should be in trying times then, if she couldn't resolve her boo's major problem in trying times, the question is 'who is helping who?' or better still 'who is there for who' in the so called trying times? Am confused.
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Skmoda360(m): 11:15pm On Jul 14, 2016
YorubaWoman:
grin grin grin

Aimoye ojo to ti ro Owo to ti wo gbo Provision rira nipa pe keyan na le contributu Gbogbo nkan teyan nse, ise oluwa ni Boowu ko gbori duro Bi pe eyan n fun onibaara lowo ati awon alaini ni o se je semi
I don't say 'boowu e ko gbori duro, oun leyan ba e jiya yi' No no no, eniyan nrin oun sowo nu
being a Yoruba guy, can't decipher what she wrote.
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by magicalBae(f): 11:17pm On Jul 14, 2016
doveda:
You are not making any sense. I don't think you are woman sef

Ladies who say this are no different from men who think women should worship them because they me TG or lives better. We are in a country where a ‘good' woman is expected to stick with a man be it her husband or fiancee or bf all through his financial struggles. To do that means that hse may constantly have to listen to his struggles, supplement his income with what she has and ignore those prospective guys that seemed better off. If she is unable to do this, you will be the same set of people that will crucify her for not sticking with him.


U don't get... there ar difference between struggling with him and just standing there when he's struggling, n she starts claiming been there for him cos she stood there adding nothing.

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Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by magicalBae(f): 11:18pm On Jul 14, 2016
agabaI23:
Magicalbae, all these sense with those legs?
I don dey look for you since wink

wink
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by chigoizie7(m): 11:19pm On Jul 14, 2016
Toks2008:
I have heard many ladies use these words and i really want some ladies to clear the air on this matter.

Its amazing that some ladies juxtapose staying with a struggling guy with doing him a favour and I tend to wonder why this is so. I believe that a lady should be with a man because she wants to regardless of whether he eventually hit it big In life.

I once dated a lady and each time i gave her what i can afford she will quickly say"im struggling with you now o and nobody is seeing it" and i try hard to remember if we went out together to hustle.

So the question is;when a lady says "i was there for him when he had nothing" please what exactly does she mean?

1..Does it mean she stood by him by actively contributing to his life by bringing him food or food stuffs,by giving him her money or helping him in one way or the other materially or monetarily?

or

2.Does she mean she remained his bae when he was struggling and suffered with him by drinking the little garri he managed to buy with the little stipends he gets or because she usually collects the little he gives to her from the very little money he fortunately makes from his hustle.

Please ladies i really need to know your definition of being there for a man in times of struggles

Over to you ladies.
it means she has been doing osho free
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Owliver(m): 11:20pm On Jul 14, 2016
Boyooosa:

Where then is the word LOVE? I used to think dat love is being shared btw lovers... I thot the lady should be in trying times then, if she couldn't resolve her boo's major problem in trying times, the question is 'who is helping who?' or better still 'who is there for who' in the so called trying times? Am confused.
everything is about gamble. a girl will stick to a broke guy with the hope of a better tomorrow. she's not there for the guy but for herself. when the guy makes it she blackmails him by reminding him. right now I am stinkingly single not that no girls but i want to make my money first. I want to be able to tell any jerk gerrarrahia Meeehn when it's needed. no time

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Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by richez25(m): 11:20pm On Jul 14, 2016
magicalBae:
undecided

Ladies who usually say that are those set of ladies that never add a drop of water to an ocean.

A supportive woman don't brag over stuffs like dat no matter what but if d opposite buy a recharge card of #200, she'll remind u d date n time she bought it wen u 2 hav lil misunderstanding.


U suffered with him b'cos


*u asked him for 10k n he gave u 4k ?
*u asked him to take u out n he said not dis weekend ?
*u don't get t'fare at times wen u pay him a visit?
* u asked him to buy u iPhone6 n he got u BB10? ..... nonsense!!!!

U're nothing but a liability to him.

Ma'am did I tell u that ur mom raised u well, I just said it.. God bless u.. Beta husband for u.. Chaii ur type is hard to find.. In such u r not just one in a million, u r a limited edition in a mass production called girls today.. I respect u, and ur unwavering wisdom..

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Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by magicalBae(f): 11:21pm On Jul 14, 2016
ERCROSS:



Sister... I swear u head stand gidigba for ur neck, imagine the rubbish those three ladies above u were spewing, they know the truth yet shy away from it... I don dry fall in love with u already gan cheesy
cum and be there for me biko cheesy

iyam taken tongue
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by agabaI23(m): 11:23pm On Jul 14, 2016
magicalBae:


wink
Seriously, I go send you message now now..
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by laikas: 11:37pm On Jul 14, 2016
op, definitly u were hitting dis girl and gives her changes(1000) to manage, in some cases she brings u food, buy u clothes even gives u money and u are alwayz tellin her how mch u luv n u wont leave her 4 anybody, atlast the money comes n u forget nkechi that was alwayz there for u in times of conji, tp fares,feedin money, pocket money,hous rent, clothes so u can look lyk a human being and go for cassandra that called u dirty whn the going was rough and u say God will nt punish you after nkechi has cried and cursed you.
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by ArinzeAlec(m): 11:39pm On Jul 14, 2016
magicalBae:
undecided

Ladies who usually say that are those set of ladies that never add a drop of water to an ocean.

A supportive woman don't brag over stuffs like dat no matter what but if d opposite buy a recharge card of #200, she'll remind u d date n time she bought it wen u 2 hav lil misunderstanding.


U suffered with him b'cos


*u asked him for 10k n he gave u 4k ?
*u asked him to take u out n he said not dis weekend ?
*u don't get t'fare at times wen u pay him a visit?
* u asked him to buy u iPhone6 n he got u BB10? ..... nonsense!!!!

U're nothing but a liability to him.

Damn *Tripping* Jah bless you intellect girl.

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