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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by steppin: 6:00pm On May 06, 2016
[quote author=NikitaNike post=45369606][/quote]
No need...it wasn't funny.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Klington: 7:10pm On May 06, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks
status comes with a prize tag...how possible will it be for u 2 humble ursef b4 any man n make a good wife..I bet u know u ve no such quality.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by 400billionman: 7:31pm On May 06, 2016
DragonReborn:
https://www.nairaland.com/2912265/im-very-confused-state-right#42613462
https://www.nairaland.com/3085972/please-need-advice
Here's why NL ladies should not be taken seriously. OP went from being 23 and in her first long term relationship, to being a rich successful woman in her early 30s with bad luck in men, to needing a job and almost being scammed after applying for a job online.

Nigerian ladies lie more than satan.

Her picture shows she is fake.

Its a pity real men still have chose one of these to get married..

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Imyourex(m): 8:35pm On May 06, 2016
Reading this story, the story of Jesus Christ and the rich man came to my mind.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 8:50pm On May 06, 2016
hammak1993:
You r realy observant, n what does the OP tend to achieve in this ?

More Nairaland guys sending her PMs and desperately trying to impress her because they assume she's rich.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 9:04pm On May 06, 2016
mizlolar:
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You said you are rich, but also trying to get people visit your websites. That is parasitic. You even have your pic in your profile. That is a scam alert.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Kiish(m): 12:58am On May 07, 2016
undecided

Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 6:12am On May 07, 2016
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 7:47am On May 07, 2016
Baby so you are from a rich family? I think i have fallen in love with you #tonguesout #lol
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by alist(m): 10:29pm On Dec 17, 2016
ghetto101:
would u like to meet a good guy?tho he's not in Nigeria





I wouldn't like to send u a message on someone's else's thread pls I saw u need a six flats two bedroom block check my tread I have e done numerous currently doing one in Akure and I have no history of complains. U can trust me I deliver on quality and timely
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by ghetto101(m): 5:04pm On Dec 18, 2016
hey Alist you can write to me through my email










alist:
I wouldn't like to send u a message on someone's else's thread pls I saw u need a six flats two bedroom block check my tread I have e done numerous currently doing one in Akure and I have no history of complains. U can trust me I deliver on quality and timely
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Jasparo123: 5:08pm On Dec 18, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks
call me on dis 08032567531 or whatsapp...Thanks
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by alist(m): 9:10pm On Dec 18, 2016
ghetto101:
hey Alist you can write to me through my email


alistdevelopers@yahoo.com
Or Watsapp 08038982710







Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by davidif: 12:57am On Aug 15, 2017
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

Wow!!! shocked shocked shocked Wish you the best.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by GuntersChain(m): 11:32am On Jun 03, 2018
you are what you eat.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by izzygoing(f): 3:11am On Oct 13, 2022
[quote]hi mizlolar i'm your fellow woman though married but can give u good advice. U can call me with this number
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by imagrg(m): 5:47am On Oct 13, 2022
Are you married now?
If not, I think I am the type of MAN you've been looking for.
Hala me on dm
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by phemy36(m): 7:07am On Oct 13, 2022
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

I don't know while I find it difficult to quote female but I will try to tell you something that will help you to find solution to this problem. Be yourself, leave a simple life, be kind to people around you, let your next suitor know your do and don't. If possible don't let him know your worth. Rent a room self contain. Don't take him to your main house. Listen to a genius complain from your partner and also make sure he's generous. Don't be forward. Know everything about him. Lastly change your circle or environment if necessary

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