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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by analyticalnayos: 9:23am On May 06, 2016
Sister,I can feel ur pains.The most wicked and pretentious people are seen in Nigeria.Poverty and the economic crunch have made too many Nigerians gold diggers.You have got to be yourself before you make a very terrible mistake.Don't be in a hurry since you are in your early 30's,it doesn't just matter but what matters most is your ability to get a good looking,hardworking,intelligent and at least a working class somebody,he may not be rich but will be able to cater for the family needs,then,you can support.If you want to reach me for more advice,whatsapp me on 07082204800.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by zheroes(m): 9:29am On May 06, 2016
DragonReborn:
https://www.nairaland.com/2912265/im-very-confused-state-right#42613462
https://www.nairaland.com/3085972/please-need-advice
Here's why NL ladies should not be taken seriously. OP went from being 23 and in her first long term relationship, to being a rich successful woman in her early 30s with bad luck in men, to needing a job and almost being scammed after applying for a job online.
thanks for this job!!!! Fake people everywhere..... Op is so fake !!!!

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by zheroes(m): 9:32am On May 06, 2016
Eaa247:


Y shud ppl belive ds ur make up story? U claimed to b in ur early 30 here nd in ur previous post u said u were 23? I won't b surprised if some gullible niggas ve started bombarding u wit PM because may ve succeeded in ur aim of putting this trash online. Ur primary aim is just to seek attention. I shud blame d mod dat brought ds poo to FP.
moderators don't know their jobs, sitting in one corner eating guguru and epa!!!!!! Rubbish

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by tuk2ato(m): 9:53am On May 06, 2016
he should start with his nanny or class teacher.
NikitaNike:

bring ur girl let's see what happen next
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by franklingud(m): 9:59am On May 06, 2016
Pretty girl I am available.
Am looking for a wife. Early 30s, I need to settle down cos am the only son of my parents with three girls.
Franklingud@yahoo.com
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Flawlessangel(m): 10:11am On May 06, 2016
Tabh:
I can relate with this, I know that feeling. You could just be yourself and don't expect too high. There are still genuine men that would love you for you. Keep searching if you so much want marriage.

where do you reside?
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by steppin: 10:19am On May 06, 2016
NikitaNike:

he is wondering y u re picking money from d ground instead of borrowing from d mad man staring at u with a bag of dollar.
Not funny...try again.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by ps3o(m): 10:36am On May 06, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

i must be Frank with u...u need SERIOUS DELIVERANCE if all what you said are happening to you.
my utmost advice is that you close any relationship for now and enjoy mere friendship. from there, u will find the true love.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 10:48am On May 06, 2016
Boeing777pilot:


Online forums like this gives us anonymity. grin
I have already received several pm's which I'm not going to bother to reply for obvious reasons.
my belle don dey pain me wet I take dey laugh, pm kor,prime minister ni
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by bigcil2(m): 10:58am On May 06, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks
Can we talk? I know there are a lot of folks right now mentioning you, but if you don't mind,go to my profile and mention me in any of my posts apart from this one. thanks
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by six2s: 11:00am On May 06, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks
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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by six2s: 11:01am On May 06, 2016
six2s:
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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by hibiscus76(f): 11:11am On May 06, 2016
crixtex:


Can u date a broke guy? ? hypocrite. .. angry
There's nothing wrong with a broke guy as long as he is hardworking.. fool
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by zabibu: 11:13am On May 06, 2016
iPopAlomo:
Scam 101...

Anyone that believes this cooked up story can believe anything...
YOUR NO ONE SCAMMER IS SHE ASKING YOU FOR ANYTHING?
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by zabibu: 11:14am On May 06, 2016
LEAVE THE COUNTRY
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by sharpshooter01: 11:32am On May 06, 2016
Buzz me for best advice 07034871553 smiley
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 11:40am On May 06, 2016
hibiscus76:

There's nothing wrong with a broke guy as long as he is hardworking.. fool

Be reasonable! stop using ur fish brain... I didn't abuse or insult you...
From ur reply, one can deduce that you are not a woman of ur words.. u must be a Buhari zombie......
How can u date a broke guy wen u will kill him with your small tongue of words... clown
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by gbens2000(m): 11:49am On May 06, 2016
Just stop advertising urself that would help u don't need to drop ur rich or flamboyant lifestyle don't pretend to get a guy cuz u would likely pretend throughout the relationship,cuz my watever u use to get a gal has to keep going cuz once it stops u would loose that gal same goes for gals.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by cemeteryh(m): 11:52am On May 06, 2016
Talk to me on fcbk kaycee buhari
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by gbens2000(m): 11:58am On May 06, 2016
P
lestat:


My dear it also happens to guys, one girl I dated conived with guys to say she was hypnotized and they made her clear all the money in my gtb account, she went as far as stabbing herself in the arm

I have seen stories from dating broke girls ... Firstly SRT a standard, for example the guy must be mobile, he must have a job and his own place not living with friends or his parent s

Nigeria has turned young men and women to sociopaths who and desperate for cash.
As in I met a girl day before yesterday on tinder, so yesterday I didn't go to work I jokingly asked her if she wanted to come hang with me, mind you this girl doesn't even know my last name, men the girl entered a cab and called me to say she was is surulere that I should tell the cab guy my address and I should come out and pay.
I just chatted with this girl twice on tinder!!!

I did receive her took her out for lunch because ibddint want to stay in the house alone wit her as I was still in shock even though she had already made her self at home.

Until I dropped her off from lunch I was scared whether armed robbers would suddenly turn up.
Either way you ain't alone, there's nothing wrong with you either, it's most Nigerians that have something wrong with them
there. Was nothing wrong with wat that girl did but because of ur previous experience u didn't allow u shelve explore something different I know times are hard ppl are desperate but seriously dat gal might just AV picked that much interest in u.honestly some ppl act fast like that based on their instincts pls don't let ur previous bad experience spoil wat u would enjoy now.but still thread with care and be smart.

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 12:00pm On May 06, 2016
hi mizlolar i'm your fellow woman though married but can give u good advice. U can call me with this number 08037763024
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by yomcity: 12:30pm On May 06, 2016
I ve an advice 4 Ʊ buh it must b tete atete, dis is my Emai;jinadu.abayomi@ymail.com
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by yomisley: 1:11pm On May 06, 2016
NA WA OOO POOR MEN DEY CHASE YOU UP AND DOWN AND YOU ARE NOT HAPPY , WELL WAIT THERE FOR THE RIGHT PERSON WHO YOU WONT SUPPORT WITH A DIME, YOUR STORY SHOWS HOW STINGY YOU ARE. THIS IS NOT HOW SMART YOU ARE, BY THE TIME YOU CLOCK 50 STILL SEARCHING FOR A MAN WHO IS A MILLIONAIRE THEN YOU KNOW WHO DEY DO YOU OR NA YOU DEY DO YOURSELF.....WHY NOT SET UP A BUSINESS FOR THE THE POOR MAN AND MAKE HIM STOP ASKING YOU FOR MONEY..PPLE WEH TALK SAY MAN MONEY NA FOR EVERYBODY, BUT WOMAN OWN IS MEANT FOR THEM ONLY. #CRAZY WORLD...
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by hibiscus76(f): 3:08pm On May 06, 2016
crixtex:


Be reasonable! stop using ur fish brain... I didn't abuse or insult you...
From ur reply, one can deduce that you are not a woman of ur words.. u must be a Buhari zombie......
How can u date a broke guy wen u will kill him with your small tongue of words... clown
It addressing someone as a hypocrite isn't an insult then I don't know what planet you came from..thing is I wouldn't honour your stupid.ity by replying you again..Buhari Zombie..wtf is that??
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 3:09pm On May 06, 2016
gbens2000:
Pthere. Was nothing wrong with wat that girl did but because of ur previous experience u didn't allow u shelve explore something different I know times are hard ppl are desperate but seriously dat gal might just AV picked that much interest in u.honestly some ppl act fast like that based on their instincts pls don't let ur previous bad experience spoil wat u would enjoy now.but still thread with care and be smart.

Very good point bruv, thanks alot
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by gbens2000(m): 3:17pm On May 06, 2016
lestat:


Very good point bruv, thanks alot
uwlcm
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by NikitaNike(f): 3:19pm On May 06, 2016
[quote author=steppin post=45360944] Not funny...try again. [/quote hmmmm... Dat hurt. Sorry
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by NikitaNike(f): 3:30pm On May 06, 2016
tuk2ato:
he should start with his nanny or class teacher.
lol
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 3:38pm On May 06, 2016
hibiscus76:

It addressing someone as a hypocrite isn't an insult then I don't know what planet you came from..thing is I wouldn't honour your stupid.ity by replying you again..Buhari Zombie..wtf is that??

Your words and ur dp proves u are an hypocrite. ..
Common 'I m sorry' you cant say to a guy... and u say u can date a broke guy??
Isnt dat hypocrisy? ??
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by obiajulusam(m): 4:17pm On May 06, 2016
This looks like one of dos Nigerian movies which I have watched then, but I think u should be more simple and don't show urself more to people dat doesn't know that ua rich or anything. As for those people in ur firm that are on ur neck, they are still one of dos gold diggers.

I think u really need a simple life if u wana get true love.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 4:18pm On May 06, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks
please permit me to contribute, firstly, I don't see anything you mentioned as a problem, it's only a challnges that need some form of attention, ask yourself, What exactly are you doing wrong that's attracting wrong guys? Check yourself, think deep and I'm sure you'll get the answer. Lastly, please pray, we all need it to win battle. I'm glad it's happening at a stage you can easily end it. God bless you.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by hibiscus76(f): 4:56pm On May 06, 2016
crixtex:


Your words and ur dp proves u are an hypocrite. ..
Common 'I m sorry' you cant say to a guy... and u say u can date a broke guy??
Isnt dat hypocrisy? ??
Ah ah, see me see wahala..why on earth should I be sorry to you?? And when did it become a crime to love one's self..nawaoo, don't know why you are desperately seeking for my notice

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