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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by repogirl(f): 12:23pm On May 05, 2016

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 12:25pm On May 05, 2016
hammak1993:
You r realy observant, n what does the OP tend to achieve in this ?
Cheap popularity. The craze for FP has addled some people's brain

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by papazboi1(m): 12:39pm On May 05, 2016
HONEY THE QUESTION IS ARE YOU HONEST TO YOUR SELF ?
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by NikitaNike(f): 12:56pm On May 05, 2016
More of my son picture but bring ribenna for him

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by misspicy(f): 1:15pm On May 05, 2016
DragonReborn:
You seem genuinely worried, so I'll play nice. Most 'successful' ladies confuse confidence/self-assurance with pride. You may be unconsciously exuding a pompous vibe that men find off putting. I once asked a lady why she didn't pick my calls and she said she wasn't in the mood to talk, I asked why she didn't just say so and she said she couldn't be bothered. I stopped calling and she called one day to demand what the problem was, as she hadn't done anything wrong. Watch how you carry yourself and the way you talk to people. Also assess the kind of guys you are attracted to. Most hard-working guys don't have time to do fancy haircuts, wear tight blazers with those funny looking pencil trousers and suede loafers you girls love so much. If you like those kind of boys, probability is he's either a yahoo boy, a YBNL wey no sabi sing or a student. If you want to meet responsible men, then go were responsible men are, its that simple.
See as you just waste MB and time wey you suppose use reply me for there undecided

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 1:20pm On May 05, 2016
misspicy:

See as you just waste MB and time wey you suppose use reply me for there undecided
Another rich single lady fit learn lesson for here. Abi you think say rich single babes no dey Naija?

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by olac21(m): 1:28pm On May 05, 2016
Well,from my point of view..you flaunt those riches which you inherited from your late dad..I think it will do you every good if you start re -planning and reassessing your suitors and make sure they don't know how rich you're!btw,how old are you if I care to ask?
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by MrCork: 1:30pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks


angry

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Hannysmilez(f): 1:34pm On May 05, 2016
DragonReborn:
https://www.nairaland.com/2912265/im-very-confused-state-right#42613462
https://www.nairaland.com/3085972/please-need-advice
Here's why NL ladies should not be taken seriously. OP went from being 23 and in her first long term relationship, to being a rich successful woman in her early 30s with bad luck in men, to needing a job and almost being scammed after applying for a job online.
And to think I felt sorry for her. Confused OP

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by MrCork: 1:34pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks


....seee yor tiny headlike SOmali made portmanto....4real......so u want us to help u find rich man on nairaland?...abi?...wot is wrong wit startin up wit poor guy, help him walk his way through strugles, become comfortable then become rich together (step by step)...huh?.....Sweeery ...my profesionnal opinnnoon...Your Grankolobolakulatt head need battery relacpemment..goat!!(no oofeinse) angry

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by misspicy(f): 1:35pm On May 05, 2016
DragonReborn:
Another rich single lady fit learn lesson for here. Abi you think say rich single babes no dey Naija?
Yes them dey gringrin
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by HopeAtHand: 1:41pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

Marry me, i am very rich and you will live in paradise forever grin

Seriously, someone who wants to teach others how to find love cannot find love..

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by yemre(m): 1:51pm On May 05, 2016
Baby, ur few comments made a whole lot of sense. U hit d nail on d head and i think dats enof for d op
hibiscus76:
It's because like charges repel while unlike charges attract..stick to one broke man and help his life to help yours
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 3:25pm On May 05, 2016
misspicy:

Yes them dey gringrin
Abeg tell me where dem dey make I go mount table dey sell tomatoes. Maybe one of them fit pity me, make me deputy boyfriend grin

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by ucnwafor(m): 3:36pm On May 05, 2016
DragonReborn:
Abeg tell me where dem dey make I go mount table dey sell tomatoes. Maybe one of them fit pity me, make me deputy boyfriend grin
lol so dat dey go soon select u sharperly
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 3:42pm On May 05, 2016
ucnwafor:
lol so dat dey go soon select u sharperly
You know say rich babes dey like dat tin ehn, e dey sweet dem for belle.
"A boy from a humble background that rose above his problems and worked hard to feed his family..."
I can already see them scrambling to stuff my hands full of cash with tears in their eyes. Seriously any carpenter in the house? I need one urgently grin
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 3:55pm On May 05, 2016
DragonReborn:
https://www.nairaland.com/2912265/im-very-confused-state-right#42613462
https://www.nairaland.com/3085972/please-need-advice
Here's why NL ladies should not be taken seriously. OP went from being 23 and in her first long term relationship, to being a rich successful woman in her early 30s with bad luck in men, to needing a job and almost being scammed after applying for a job online.
kai! U bad o.

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by ted1741: 4:10pm On May 05, 2016
As a legal practitioner, we thrive in confidentiality and my advice will be strictly in confidence if that is ok by you. Email me at ceziefule@gmail.com or call +(519) 562-4127. Cheers.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by stancod(m): 5:05pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks
to me i would like 2 marry u if only u would give ur wealth(i mean all expensive property & cash) 2 d less privilege nd marry d way i am. Try 2 put ur wealth aside then u will find true love

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by ZeeAfrica(f): 5:29pm On May 05, 2016
Babe, i feel yah, bt if i may give my 2 cents worth. Number 1 - dnt ever ever date anyone who works in de same company as u, unless u wil b ready to deal wit shit wen things go wrong. Den number 2 - try a different method. For 6 months, move to a middle class surbab and leave yo cars at yo original place. Use public transport n b humble. If u have to, lie to any guy who will approach u. Dnt let anyone in yo new circle find out who u r or wat u r worth. Den de lie u can b tellin yo new guy is dat u r a village girl who came to lagos to find a better life. Watch de kind of guys who will b sticking around. Dey r the ones who want de person inside u, n who wana protect u. Den later on, once u have found yo soul mate, u can reveal yo true identity, and explain dat de reason u went into disguise was for u to find yo true self, witout any disturbance from yo material world

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by oglalasioux(m): 5:30pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

You won't like my advice but consider these.

Stick to your class. Poor guys can never value you. Go to places where rich guys hang out and try the following;

1. Don't dress provocatively.
2. Don't be rude to anyone that approaches you.
3. Don't start giving the rich guys lectures on how to run their lives.
4. Refuse anything you don't like with smiles and brief explanations.
5. Don't play hard to get. Even if you are invited to a private home honour the invitation but if things gets out of hand explain with smiles that you don't want intimacy that fast.
6. When you decide to have sex don't tie strings to it.

Most importantly don't appear desperate. The signs of desperation makes men take a woman for granted.

Best wishes.

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by schumastic(m): 5:32pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

from all what you put up there, is either you are not the friendly type, selective kind of girl, you move or hang around the wrong places or set of people...you sound really desperate, though is normal for ladies especially when they are not getting any younger..try this, stop flaunting your wealth and you can try your mum's advice about not going out with the car and see out it plays out..are you in your mid or late twenties?
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by tayadof9ja(m): 5:33pm On May 05, 2016
DragonReborn:
You seem genuinely worried, so I'll play nice. Most 'successful' ladies confuse confidence/self-assurance with pride. You may be unconsciously exuding a pompous vibe that men find off putting. I once asked a lady why she didn't pick my calls and she said she wasn't in the mood to talk, I asked why she didn't just say so and she said she couldn't be bothered. I stopped calling and she called one day to demand what the problem was, as she hadn't done anything wrong. Watch how you carry yourself and the way you talk to people. Also assess the kind of guys you are attracted to. Most hard-working guys don't have time to do fancy haircuts, wear tight blazers with those funny looking pencil trousers and suede loafers you girls love so much. If you like those kind of boys, probability is he's either a yahoo boy, a YBNL wey no sabi sing or a student. If you want to meet responsible men, then go were responsible men are, its that simple.
hehehe i for like read ur tory finish o. Hw e com be btwn u and d lady na?

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by oglalasioux(m): 5:35pm On May 05, 2016
ZeeAfrica:
Babe, i feel yah, bt if i may give my 2 cents worth. Number 1 - dnt ever ever date anyone who works in de same company as u, unless u wil b ready to deal wit shit wen things go wrong. Den number 2 - try a different method. For 6 months, move to a middle class surbab and leave yo cars at yo original place. Use public transport n b humble. If u have to, lie to any guy who will approach u. Dnt let anyone in yo new circle find out who u r or wat u r worth. Den de lie u can b tellin yo new guy is dat u r a village girl who came to lagos to find a better life. Watch de kind of guys who will b sticking around. Dey r the ones who want de person inside u, n who wana protect u. Den later on, once u have found yo soul mate, u can reveal yo true identity, and explain dat de reason u went into disguise was for u to find yo true self, witout any disturbance from yo material world

Your advice is great but consider the human psychology of shifting responsibilities to the person who provides. This girl should find her class. Even the guys that are looking for the 'person' in her in the beginning will be worse in marriage when they find out the girl is loaded. They won't want to work again because there's free money. She should stick to her class. Poor guys have absolutely nothing to offer to a rich girl in marriage.

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Christianwalas(m): 5:44pm On May 05, 2016
God will lead u to him. Be prayerful
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by steppin: 5:45pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks
This is exactly what the average Nigerian guy endures in the hands of Naija women. You just tasted a little and you're on the verge of going nuts.
Its unfortunate you're going through this... But when you eventually meet the right person, you'll take the person serious.

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by agrovick(m): 5:46pm On May 05, 2016
Mtcheeeww

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 5:46pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks



Am actually looking for a down to earth babe like you.Am not a broke ass guy as i am made aleady!Give me your heart and go with my chest of diamond-
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by IYANGBALI: 5:47pm On May 05, 2016
I have a nice guy that is comfortable that is seriously looking for a nice lady to marry. If you wish to meet him. Pls hit me up.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by olayinkajnr(m): 5:47pm On May 05, 2016
Mutuwa:


you should thank the almighty that men even approach you,there are girls out there,that dogs don't even smell.
thing is you have to continue your search with abundant efforts,the right man will come.you cannot change the fact that you are well to do,even if you try to hide it just to get a descent man,it may only take a while for him to discover and switch to gold digging mode.

why don't you try dating a poor boy for a change? undecided


Abi ó, Aunty Titi is 38 years old now and still searching.

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Category1: 5:47pm On May 05, 2016
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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by goryorhal(m): 5:48pm On May 05, 2016
@ OP
Weldone oh you think say you go see clients for here wey you go scam right . Just continue sha who knows you fit see dem here ..

No one to believe in Nija again .. Everyone won scam each other ..

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