No2Atheism:

Personally, I enjoying the wooing, its fun being able to connect with a woman on a mental level, emotional and psychological level.

Cus at the end of the day, when both of you are bored of sex . . . being able to connect on another level is what would save your relationship.

There is a difference between a sex partner and a companion . . .

You wooo and continue to woo a companion (men its good to fall in love with someone you are able to connect with)
A sex partner is just a typical hit and run job

Why the feck dont all guys reason like this?

every side of the coin has a diferent meaning,

so it depends on d side u r facing,

everything in life is cheap depending on how much each party is able to bargain with and on.

woooing a babe with material stuffs has tooooooooo many interpretations d pick is rather personal than general these days.

UJUJOAN no vex, i guess everything has gone IT, u can actually woooo a babe via internet 4 all u both care without actually spending a dime n still enjoy eachoda's company. BUT there's just nothing bad anyways in hanging out n sharing a sip or so.

No2Atheism:

Personally, I enjoy the wooing, its fun being able to connect with a woman on a mental level, emotional and psychological level.

Cus at the end of the day, when both of you are bored of sex . . . being able to connect on another level is what would save your relationship.

There is a difference between a sex partner and a companion . . .

You wooo and continue to woo  a companion  (men its good to fall in love  with someone you are able to connect with)
A sex partner is just a typical hit and run job 

Nice!

No2Atheism:

Personally, I enjoy the wooing, its fun being able to connect with a woman on a mental level, emotional and psychological level.

Cus at the end of the day, when both of you are bored of sex . . . being able to connect on another level is what would save your relationship.

Word!

romance is dead or on life support, ladies just want to get your money, if they cant get it from you the move on tto the next rich guy

@ frank , simple meaning u r pooor in spirit, words, acts, immagination n pocket.

i agree there are some girls we guys only chat with "sex" fixed in our minds cos of the circumstances we meet them likewise there r a million odas u want to hang around not because u spend on them or not but cos u enjoy their company alot n take home 2 mum 4 all d right reasons

cliveland:

@ frank , simple meaning u r pooor in spirit, words, acts, immagination n pocket.

i agree there are some girls we guys only chat with "sex" fixed in our minds cos of the circumstances we meet them likewise there r a million odas u want to hang around not because u spend on them or not but cos u enjoy their company alot n take home 2 mum 4 all d right reasons

Hi hun, Im interested in the highlighted sentence, Is it because of the way the girl dresses or the vibes you get from her?

frank3.16:

romance is dead or on life support, ladies just want to get your money, if they cant get it from you the move on tto the next rich guy

Not all girls, there are some good ones out there, It works both ways though, Most Guys flash their money and expect the girls to drop their pants.

Not all girls, there are some good ones out there, It works both ways though, Most Guys flash their money and expect the girls to drop their pants.

That's why they are going hyper about this 'wooing' thing. The feel 'if I'm gonna spend a dime, she had better be ready to get down'!! Its such a shame!

Ujujoan:

That's why they are going hyper about this 'wooing' thing. The feel 'if I'm gonna spend a dime, she had better be ready to get down'!! Its such a shame! 

Of course. . . . . .Why waste money on a project that won't benefit me?
If i am spending money at all, i must get to the goldmine.

Ujujoan:

That's why they are going hyper about this 'wooing' thing. The feel 'if I'm gonna spend a dime, she had better be ready to get down'!! Its such a shame!  

A damn shame,  Some buy you a meal or two and expect sex after.

~Sauron~:

Of course. . . . . .Why waste money on a project that won't benefit me?
If i am spending money at all, i must get to the goldmine.

Shame

tubabie:

Shame

Then they turn around and call those girls hos

~Sauron~:

Of course. . . . . .Why waste money on a project that won't benefit me?
If i am spending money at all, i must get to the goldmine.

So does that make you a cunt-digger?  

Ujujoan:

So does that make you a cunt-digger?  

Show me a straight guy who isn't?

tubabie:

Shame

Don't hate. . . . .

~Sauron~:

Show me a straight guy who isn't?

Don't hate. . . . .

We wont, if you dont call us gold-digger!!

No2Atheism:

Cus at the end of the day, when both of you are bored of sex . . . being able to connect on another level is what would save your relationship.

Classic!

chamotex:

Sex?  

Respect Yourself!

Ujujoan:

We wont, if you dont call us gold-digger!!

Why dig a man's gold? U should dig his penis not his pockets.
Gender Equality, remember?

~Sauron~:

Why dig a man's gold? U should dig his penis not his pockets.
Gender Equality, remember?

Trust me hon, we find the penis in the pocket

Ujujoan:

Trust me hon, we find the penis in the pocket   

U do? That is reassuring.
Men find love in the coochie too.

Ujujoan:

Trust me hon, we find the penis in the pocket

~Sauron~:

U do? That is reassuring.
Men find love in the coochie too.

hmmmmm You guys are a perfect match for one another

So have we established that both parties are users then, Some Men are cunt-chasers and Some women are  money-chasers?

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, am sure Uju didn't mean to take it as far as most of u are taking it, can people really take comments in good faith without throwing tantrums at d poster even when it deserve one??

Some comments here got me laughing, some too sad to be true, some spoke in reality,some claiming to be who they are not, but well under the disguise of internet we can say anytin, make me wishing i can hv a spot on/assessment, on every poster on dis forum, but how impossible.

Ladies,guys we are all in this, some people are who they are today based on wat life and experience has taught them, some try to be little nicer,still get their fingers burnt in it all, making[b] us [/b] all learn in a very harsh way, the reason why love has become a casino (a game of not willing to loose)a girl wants a man to be nicer b4 she can show her true love if any, and a guy wants to take a lady to bed jus on a first date, how sicking it all seems.

But in all comments, If there is anytin i hate, is when any gender is been generalise or seen in same light, we do have men and women of integrity among us no doubt,
Some men  go thinking by jus mere recharge card/or few cents in their wallet u can woo a lady and take her to bed, well needed blame any who spotted on these, cus i can't dispute d fact that some ladies has not lost their moral values, thrown every caution to the wind jus in d name of trying to belong where they are not, and sometimes the results we get factors mostly on the kind of people we associate ourselves with.

There are men among us, and there are boys, jus like we have women/girls among us,leaving me wondering on wic class of people we deal with sometimes, irks me a g8 deal when some boyz think they can talk where men are talking in deformities, vice-visa.

The point am driving home, what happens if we try to keep our thing all in-check, men no wooing, women no treasures, i bet peace will reign among us all,
I can't wish everyone to be me nor me everyone, otherwise some men would understand that there are real women that are still priceless.

@ebonyeyes

like my post said,, d circumstances of d meeting determines a lot of things. ok some meetings r just destined to be materially or sexually wrapped up vis-versa, its neither male or female, its poisoned chemistry being there a couple o times. 4gve me

but i'd rather keep d coy of an intellectually engaging babe than d slam, atleast i can learn a thing or 2 from her n i ve been very humble n blessed to always hook up with pees dat can afford d things i can 4 her. simply knowing my standard n staying there

n really wooooing has been overfogged here , its much more than gifts n money, at least 1 gets to learn how to give d giving sef. u just dont drop it at d psn just that abi

wow! So women find the penis in the pocket, which means women are money-chasers! And women get mad when label them as "money-chasers."

tubabie:

hmmmmm You guys are a perfect match for one another

Are we?
Uju is a married woman, no?

cliveland:

@ebonyeyes

like my post said,,  d circumstances of d meeting determines a lot of things. ok some meetings r just destined to be materially or sexually wrapped up vis-versa, its neither male or female, its poisoned chemistry being there a couple o times. 4gve me

but i'd rather keep d coy of an intellectually engaging babe than d slam, atleast i can learn a thing or 2 from her n i ve been very humble n blessed to always hook up with pees dat can afford d things i can 4 her. simply knowing my standard n staying there

n really wooooing has been overfogged here , its much more than gifts n money, at least 1 gets to learn how to give d giving sef. u just dont drop it at d psn just that abi

wooing is more than money, a nice modest date and fun activities will help. But i specifically have a  problem about what Uju said about "paying bills just to get her to say yes." Only a mugu will do that, and ladies that expect that from men will end up with mugus.

wow! So women find the penis in the pocket, which means women are money-chasers! And women get mad when label them as "money-chasers."

Oh we dont get mad anymore, Sauron admits you guys are cunt-diggers too so . . . .  'all fair is war and love' right?

Are we?
Uju is a married woman, no?

No!! But I dont think your pocket is deep enof.  

wooing is more than money, a nice modest date and fun activities will help. But i specifically have a problem about what Uju said about "paying bills just to get her to say yes." Only a mugu will do that, and ladies that expect that from men will end up with mugus.

Okay maybe that came out a bit wrong . . But there's still noting wrong with paying bills for a woman, even if it's not to get her to say yes!!

Ujujoan:

No!! But I dont think your pocket is deep enof.  

I won't take the bait.

~Sauron~:

I won't take the bait.

Oh that's okay, we all know you can't even if you wanted to

Anyway, it sucks that men and women think so low of each other, no thanks to the men!! Makes me wonder what the world's turning into.

Ujujoan:

Oh that's okay, we all know you can't even if you wanted to

Cheesy. . . . .No one knows what i am capable of.
Don't make me come down to Naija and get you.

Anyway, it sucks that men and women think so low of each other, no thanks to the men!! Makes me wonder what the world's turning into.

On the contrary, i don't think low of women.
For me, if i like a woman. . . . . .there's no limit to what i can do for her(she doesn't even need to ask).
However, there are some that have made it their modus operandi to tax men cos that's the only to prove he's interested.
Those are the ones men can't really stand. . . . .