TOPE2000!:

Shut up jor
You guys claim women want gender equality and yet we still  have to submissive to u, where is the equality in that?
When women talk abt wooing and a man being in charge, u guys bring out the gender equality card. Pathetic
Broke ass negros

We don't want y'all to be submissive . . .
Women have placed mutual respect on the table and we've accepted the deal.

So you can't hold on to the perks that only come with the other side.

oyinda.:

lol. r u one of those "engaged" ones?

Of course. . . . . .I had to get engaged to avoid y'all daughters of Jezebel prowling the streets these days.

yea but size doesn't matter too much unless the girl is loose down there   right? since the girls are complaining about that part too much. lol

Of course, size matters.

eldee:

We don't want y'all to be submissive . . .

Really? cuz i am 4eva gonna quote on that. .  .

Women have placed mutual respect on the table and we've accepted the deal.
So you can't hold on to the perks that only come with the other side.

Oh Lawd. . . . Is there any real guy other anymore??
lemme guess if u also get married, u and ur wife will split the bills into 50-50 right? or better yet u will also become house husband and look after the kids while ur wife works instead . . . . . Huh?

What is the world becoming?

TOPE2000!:

Shut up jor
You guys claim women want gender equality and yet we still  have to submissive to u, where is the equality in that?
When women talk abt wooing and a man being in charge, u guys bring out the gender equality card. Pathetic
Broke ass negros

Submission is a MUST  not a need my dear. I think u'll also find its the women rather than the men that do that(play gender equality card). Broke ass niggu or not,remember we Men deserve a bit of Tender Loving Care .

chic2pimp:

Submission is a MUST  not a need my dear. I think u'll also find its the women rather than the men that do that(play gender equality card). Broke ass niggu or not,remember we Men deserve a bit of Tender Loving Care .

And we dont, right?
and submission is a must? Why shud i be submissive to a man that does nothing for me?
instead he even takes from life.

This is a pathetic issue.
To each his own and kind.
I dont want my man to feel obliged to pay my bills and stuff but show me , woo me, let me know why you singled me out. This has nothing to do with gender equality.It's about playing your assumed roles. And if its the lady asking you out too,its behoves her then to woo you and let you know why she chose and wants you.

TOPE2000!:

Oh Lawd. . . . Is there any real guy other anymore??
lemme guess if u also get married, u and your wife will split the bills into 50-50 right? or better yet u will also become house husband and look after the kids while your wife works instead . . . . . Huh?

What is the world becoming?

yes ke. Whats wrong with dat? Didn't our marriage vow say  'For  Richer For Poorer'.

TOPE2000!:

What is the world becoming?

The world is not becoming anything jare . Men are only expressing their love of gender equality.

tubabie:

This is a pathetic issue.
To each his own and kind.
I dont want my man to feel obliged to pay my bills and stuff but show me , woo me, let me know why you singled me out. This has nothing to do with gender equality.It's about playing your assumed roles. And if its the lady asking you out too,its behoves her then to woo you and let you know why she chose and wants you.

I cud kiss you

chic2pimp:

yes ke. Whats wrong with dat? Didn't our marriage vow say 'For Richer For Poorer'. The world is not becoming anything jare . Men are only expressing their love of gender equality.

I pity whoeva end up with some of youse

tubabie:

This is a pathetic issue.
To each his own and kind.
I dont want my man to feel obliged to pay my bills and stuff but show me , woo me, let me know why you singled me out. This has nothing to do with gender equality.It's about playing your assumed roles. And if its the lady asking you out too,its behoves her then to woo you and let you know why she chose and wants you.

'Playing our assumed roles' is a form sexism jare . Gone are the days when Men and Women had established roles. This is the 21st century .

TOPE2000!:

And we dont, right?
and submission is a must? Why shud i be submissive to a man that does nothing for me?
instead he even takes from life.

Submission is a 'MUST' jare. No Submission,No Marriage simple as ABC . He takes nothing away from u. He wants things to be shared 50-50(gender equality) thats all.

TOPE2000!:

Really? cuz i am 4eva gonna quote on that. .  .

It's my word sis . . . take it to thebank

TOPE2000!:

Oh Lawd. . . . Is there any real guy other anymore??
lemme guess if u also get married, u and your wife will split the bills into 50-50 right? or better yet u will also become house husband and look after the kids while your wife works instead . . . . . Huh?

What is the world becoming?

It's simple . . . when I wanna take care of the kids, my boss gives me 14 days, when you guys ask, you get three months.
Of course I won't ask her to split bills, just to make a reasonable contribtion.
Afterall she gets the house after divorce.

TOPE2000!:

I cud kiss you

Yeah the cheeks will just be fine

chic2pimp:

'Playing our assumed roles' is a form sexism jare . Gone are the days when Men and Women had established roles. This is the 21st century

Yeah right!

TOPE2000!:

The ones still worth fighting another girl for   so we will take our chances

Heheheheh . . .thot so

No wonder you wanted to trade blows with Vaneesa.  

chamotex:

No wonder you wanted to trade blows with Vaneesa.  

Lol. and Katie too

eldee:

It's simple . . . when I wanna take care of the kids, my boss gives me 14 days, when you guys ask, you get three months.
Of course I won't ask her to split bills, just to make a reasonable contribtion.
Afterall she gets the house after divorce.

Abi ooo. Make u help me tell them.

tubabie:

Yeah right!

Wetin be lie I talk dere now ehn iyawo?

TOPE2000!:

I pity whoeva end up with some of youse

Na u sabi jare. The Wifey will be just fine thanx. SOLIDARITY FOREVER(* 3 times),we shall always fight for our right .

tubabie:

Lol. and Katie too

Tope is a kick-boxing Champion. Don't under-estimate her

tubabie:

This is a pathetic issue.
To each his own and kind.
I dont want my man to feel obliged to pay my bills and stuff but show me , woo me, let me know why you singled me out. This has nothing to do with gender equality.It's about playing your assumed roles. And if its the lady asking you out too,its behoves her then to woo you and let you know why she chose and wants you

How about the good ol' 'actions speak louder than gifts' method??

yeah whatever happened to guys being gentlemen and not jerks?

eldee:

How about the good ol' 'actions speak louder than gifts' method??

Wooing isn't all about the gifts although you have to agree with me that when you like/love someone you tend to want to give them gifts.
Yes we want you to act it(woo) . . . . . . call her, show interest in her more than the obvious, communicate and note if the woman feels you then she reciprocates.

~smurf:

yeah whatever happened to guys being gentlemen and not jerks?

Good question but wrong sex(switch men for women).

~smurf:

yeah whatever happened to guys being gentlemen and not jerks?

That's a good question, şenörîtá.

chamotex:

No wonder you wanted to trade blows with Vaneesa.

lmao. . . tell her to stop stalking me jare

~smurf:

yeah whatever happened to guys being gentlemen and not jerks?

I WONDER

tubabie:

Wooing isn't all about the gifts although you have to agree with me that when you like/love someone you tend to want to give them gifts.
Yes we want you to act it(woo) . . . . . . call her, show interest in her more than the obvious, communicate and note if the woman feels you then she reciprocates.

Amen sis

tubabie:

Wooing isn't all about the gifts although you have to agree with me that when you like/love someone you tend to want to give them gifts.
Yes we want you to act it(woo) . . . . . . call her, show interest in her more than the obvious, communicate and note if the woman feels you then she reciprocates.

To me . . . gifts during wooing stage end at flowers. . . c'est fini
Why should I spend $$$ on sumone I don't know if we're compatible??

~smurf:

yeah whatever happened to guys being gentlemen and not jerks?

Not handing out gifts on every second date doesn't make me a jerk . . . it makes me sumone who respects you enough to know that I cannot use gifts to influence your decision bout how far you want the relationship to go.

I have nothing against spending half my salary on gifts for a patner/spouse when we're into the relationship already, not trying to buy her off at the very begining. . .

eldee:

To me . . . gifts during wooing stage end at flowers. . . c'est fini
Why should I spend $$$ on sumone I don't know if we're compatible??
Not handing out gifts on every second date doesn't make me a jerk . . . it makes me sumone who respects you enough to know that I cannot use gifts to influence your decision bout how far you want the relationship to go.

I have nothing against spending half my salary on gifts for a patner/spouse when we're into the relationship already, not trying to buy her off at the very begining. . .

I said earlier its not all about the gifts but more about the other salient acts. Wooing is anything you do to influence and incline another person to be romantically involved with you.

tubabie:

I said earlier its not all about the gifts but more about the other salient acts. Wooing is anything you do to influence and incline another person to be romantically involved with you.

Exactly what I said . . . if it's anything a man does to influence how attracted sumone is to him with the aim of starting a relationship, he should not use money.
Wooing should be the one place where your personality trumps everything else.
It just doesn't make sense . . . it's disrespectful to ladies, it's not how true gentlemen should act and it is just wrong.

I will find it offensive if someone did it to me, so why should I do it to someone else??

^^ Good we are on the same page now.

ELDEE has finally been bullied into submission . . . . . . . . . nah wa for women's charms sha.

chic2pimp:

ELDEE has finally been bullied into submission . . . . . . . . . nah wa for women's charms sha.

Bullied?? If anything I shushed all three of them . . .
Did you read my last two posts??

Tssk Indeed.

We both agreed it aint all about the money and gifts at least.

tubabie:

Tssk Indeed.

We both agreed it aint all about the money and gifts at least.

Nah . . . you said it's not all about money
I said, it has nothing to do with money and gifts

You said it's the 'assumed role' of a man to woo with gifts.
I said it's disrespectful, stupid and not gentlemanly to do that.

You're sooo on a different page . . . I think you need a new book

eldee:

Bullied?? If anything I shushed all three of them . . .
Did you read my last two posts??

If u truly shushed them, I say well done.

tubabie:

Tssk Indeed.

We both agreed it aint all about the money and gifts at least.

I think u'll find the poster meant money and gifts. Not once did I hear hugs and kisses.

eldee:

Nah . . . you said it's not all about money
I said, it has nothing to do with money and gifts

Was about to say she has suddenly changed her tone . Guess I was right after all.

eldee:

Nah . . . you said it's not all about money
I said, it has nothing to do with money and gifts

You said it's the 'assumed role' of a man to woo with gifts.
I said it's disrespectful, stupid and not gentlemanly to do that.

You're sooo on a different page . . . I think you need a new book

Hey,stop twisting my views
I never said its the assumed role of a man to "woo with gifts ". . . . . . I said its the assumed role of a man to WOO however you wanna carry it out.
I went further by saying Wooing isnt all about money and gifts but has other salient parts often ignored.

tubabie:

Wooing isn't all about the gifts   although you have to agree with me that when you like/love someone you tend to want to give them gifts.
Yes we want you to act it(woo) . . . . . . call her, show interest in her more than the obvious, communicate and note if the woman feels you then she reciprocates.