Equipper:

I do not se anything negative in what is going on here; all I see is the eagerness to express oneself in a straight forward way. You may not believe this but there are elements of our true humanity in every joke, false fight etc, the real can be masked in comedy, pretended anger and the likes. So don't get too defensive; what is happening here is real. Don't we fool around with our friends outside of the cyberworld? Its called being human. There's nothing deragotory happening here, just human beings being human

Equipper:

I do not seE anything negative in what is going on here; all I see is the eagerness to express oneself in a straight forward way.  You may not believe this but there are elements of our true humanity in every joke, false fight etc, the real can be masked in comedy, pretended anger and the likes.  So don't get too defensive; what is happening here is real.  Don't we fool around with our friends outside of the cyberworld?  Its called being human.  There's nothing deragotory happening here, just human beings being human

Equipper:

AMAKA
I do not seE anything negative in what is going on here; all I see is the eagerness to express oneself in a straight forward way. You may not believe this but there are elements of our true humanity in every joke, false fight etc, the real can be masked in comedy, pretended anger and the likes. So don't get too defensive; what is happening here is real. Don't we fool around with our friends outside of the cyberworld? Its called being human. There's nothing deragotory happening here, just human beings being human

Equipper:

I still just cannot believe that members of this forum cannot PM each other

Magz:

I like this guy!

Magz:

LOL @ Amaka

I long to learn who you are.

Equipper:

The negative voices around you can have negative impact upon you in so far as you your affirmations are not grounded in deep seated convictions. This is the reason dreams are never fulfilled: the dreamer must have a strong "spine" of convictions because the "haters" will have their say. If your convictions cannot clearly define and motivate you, the fact is that you will end up being a casualty. It is sad but true.

Magz:

I long to learn about you and find out who you are

Kna'mene?

FL Gators:

Still here?

No sleep?

Quote from: Magz on Today at 07:20:53 AM
I long to learn about you and find out who you are
Kna'mene?

can you just explain?

Equipper:

I want to once again thank y'all for putting me right I guess I'm good to go.  By the way Magz  The AMAKA is still waiting for your explanation.  As they say: "Never keep a lady waiting" (lol)

Hi Equipper,

I must say that you sound like such a sweet guy. I wish 'my' guy was on a forum this very same moment asking for advice to win me over.

Firstly, it helps to be successful in what you do and good looking. However, contrary to what some people might say on this forum, Nigerian girls are smarter than that, a lot of us know that a true catch doesn't always look like the typical candidate.

For your sake I hope she really likes you too and has no problem with really being serious with a non-Nigerian man.

To win her affection, I think you should stay true to yourself, what drew her to you, if it was her great personality then you must be more conscious about also being a great person to be around.

Of course you can serenade her with gifts, but you don't want her to get into the habit of thinking that because you're out of sight the only way she'll remember you is through your gifts. Have faith in yourself.

I wonder wherher you are travelling to Lagos just to see her, if you are, it is very important not to raise your expectations too much, life is never the fairytale you expect it to be. See this as an opportunity to experience her true self, herself at home.

Don't spend too much on wooing her, because associating your love with your money can lead the romance down the wrong route.

I really hope that she is at least a sincere girl and that she is worth all this wohala (trouble).

All the best and keep us updated .

Equipper:

My man the issue of wealth is not a factor in the equation of love. I'm just a level headed guy who tries by God's grace to hold on to the values that were passed on to me by my forbears, as well as those that I gleaned along the pathways of life. THE AMAKA is a perceptive and smart individual.