rheether:
My ex tried it with me. He asked his cousin to woo me and lo and behold I fell for his cousin instantly. We are in the our second now and the relationship has been worth it.

halfricanadian:


Ok

yetty247:
I have tested my bf severally and he passed
lol.. I gisted my cousin about it and she gave me her bf number to help her confirm if he is sincere to her, so I decided to chat d guy up not up to an hour d guy narrated everything about my cousin and he was even referring to her as his Ex.. I was shocked. my cousin broke up with him and he begged for some months b4 moving on

Rexhenrex:
Thats a very illogical thing to do and it makes no sense in trying it on your partner only if and only if you suspect them cheating on you.but aside that why do you need testing your spouse when they have never done anything to arouse the contempt of your trust for them....an ex did that by sending her bestie to try and know if am loyal to her by dating me. trust me the bestie sold her out by actually dating me and it tore my bae apart but she cost it and i dated her bestie without an iota of pity,because it didn't warrant it because i loved her but it hurt me because she had doubts of me. Everyone has a weak point no need testing there loyalty till the need warrants so to me its a capital NO trying this is using your own hand in ruining your relationship because when your spouse find out it might not go down well.

Cutehector:
Some of us like to play dirty games in our relationships, our insecurities have gone to the extreme we now set trap for our partners to see if they would ever cheat on us.



Some go as far as creating a new account and adding their hubby on social media either whatsapp, bbm, or whichever disguising under a very sexy lady or guy to entrap their partner to see if he/she will pass the fidelity test.



Now I put this foward to guys and ladies out there, do you think such measure is efficient to know the extent to which your man/woman really loves you?



Do you think it's a bad/good measure?




Do you also think you can forgive him/her should you happen to be "tested" and you found out?

Odunharry:
Ladies and lack of trust (Fidelity test ) are like..

Misspicy hope u dont do that??

I don't have the time for that.....its a waste of precious time and resources monitoring and testing my partner....

i'd rather use that time and energy to make money online

Rexhenrex:
sorry to mention you but please i wanna grasp something here and i will be very well honoured if you answer me,thanks in advance.

1,was it that you didn't like your b.f that you fell for the cousin?

2,And also did you know prior before you fell for the cousin that your b.f sent him because if you didn't know before accepting his cousin then you never loved him

3,and how did your b.f act about you and his cousin rolling together?

4,lastly what made you accept the cousin?

babyfaceafrica:
one thing is definetly certain,she never really loved the guy.her getting swayed by the cousin is a lazy excuse!!..test is never a excuse to fail!

larabae13:
*testing testing 1..2... Testing 1..2*

Eureka123:


The person you quoted did the same to his girlfriend with her bestie. So what are you two saying?

Cutehector:
pls stop derailing my threads ok. Someone insults u, u kindly ignore dem. Simple. Jeez!

halfricanadian:


Wat was posted wasnt true

Cutehector:
what d fvck is ur problem halfricanadian? Pls can u just go through pages 2 and 8 to see how u and one oda guy knowingly derailed my thread and u are here telling me another thing. Dnt let me get angry with u. Infact, I know wat to do

misspicy:

I don't have the time for that.....its a waste of precious time and resources monitoring and testing my partner....

i'd rather use that time and energy to make money online

babyfaceafrica:
they are both wrong

rheether:


Nice questions. I never wanted to date my ex but the pressure was there for me to get a boyfriend. I just decided to hook up with to escape loneliness at the said time. I never knew they were a couins and we started as friends. My ex was mad and his reactions and actions were understood , it was a battle he will never win. My ex cousin was my spec and a real bestie unlike my ex was sees me as only his girlfriend, we couldn't even have normal conversation as friends, that gf/bf tag was too heavy especially for me and I couldn't cope with it. Shout out to Alex.

shegsky:


Bravo, You are now a certified Radionic

rheether:


Nice questions. I never wanted to date my ex but the pressure was there for me to get a boyfriend. I just decided to hook up with to escape loneliness at the said time. I never knew they were a couins and we started as friends. My ex was mad and his reactions and actions were understood , it was a battle he will never win. My ex cousin was my spec and a real bestie unlike my ex was sees me as only his girlfriend, we couldn't even have normal conversation as friends, that gf/bf tag was too heavy especially for me and I couldn't cope with it. Shout out to Alex.

BlizzydoDo:
I cnt test my partner, & I'll feel very hurt if I find out.

halfricanadian:


Or u went to her bestie ursef nd she found out

Which girl will send her bestie bloody liars

Cutehector:
Some of us like to play dirty games in our relationships, our insecurities have gone to the extreme we now set trap for our partners to see if they would ever cheat on us.



Some go as far as creating a new account and adding their hubby on social media either whatsapp, bbm, or whichever disguising under a very sexy lady or guy to entrap their partner to see if he/she will pass the fidelity test.



Now I put this foward to guys and ladies out there, do you think such measure is efficient to know the extent to which your man/woman really loves you?



Do you think it's a bad/good measure?




Do you also think you can forgive him/her should you happen to be "tested" and you found out?

Evathyst:
Wetin dem ask, wetin you dey talk?


*Modified*

Any lady that subjects a smart guy to any test of some sort is surely digging her own 'relationship' grave. Even the devil self dey learn work where some guys dey. My own is just that, sha respect my feelings. The day I'll ever catch you cheating on me, that would be the end of Solomon Grundy.



Like my guy for example, something tells me the bastard is cheating on me but it's very difficult to find out. Even when I visit him impromptu, I don't see anything suspicious. Check his phone several times, nothing. Yet, I still feel he's not clean. Accuse him of infidelity, he'll tell you to prove it. Men! I carry yansh for some guys.

toprealman:
simples.....Never accept any friend request!!!!

Rexhenrex:
Thats a very illogical thing to do and it makes no sense in trying it on your partner only if and only if you suspect them cheating on you.but aside that why do you need testing your spouse when they have never done anything to arouse the contempt of your trust for them....an ex did that by sending her bestie to try and know if am loyal to her by dating me. trust me the bestie sold her out by actually dating me and it tore my bae apart but she cost it and i dated her bestie without an iota of pity,because it didn't warrant it because i loved her but it hurt me because she had doubts of me. Everyone has a weak point no need testing there loyalty till the need warrants so to me its a capital NO trying this is using your own hand in ruining your relationship because when your spouse find out it might not go down well.

DeeTus:
That's totally wrong. Because of a girl, you won't accept friend request? What about someone who hasn't met you for so long but got you on Facebook for instance?