kidsam:

Ladies don't be decieved, as much as your virginity is appreciated by a guy it does not substitute for a good and pleasant wife.
I am married and she was a virgin till our wedding night but sometimes i had wished i married a non-virgin without some of her attitudes

ouch @ your unfortunate marriage. why not get a divorce?

reading through and keeping my virginity

Rephrase the question please, Not all men are concerned with a womans virgin status.

!amebo no1:

sexyleamon needs encouragement, cos shes still a vargin, thats why she opened up these thread

But why open up a thread on this topic? for heaven sake a million threads like these are still existing on this forum, the answers you seek are there, so why waste space?

I will advice u to go back and read my post, coz u seriously miss the point big time.

@iykedare or whatever the hell u called urself, if you have nothing to Contribute, then buzz off. am pretty sure everyone is entitle to their own opinion and they have the right to express it, if u don't like it ignore it, why are you cursing? please do not spoilt this thread for us. I don't know what make you think u are better or intelligent then anyone else who posted in here, I hate arrogant human beings, if you don't want me playing the arrogant game with u, stick to the topic or fuc*k off!

No i did not miss the point, your post is saying something else, from what the real reason is, you need encouragement, now you've got it, keep being virgin

I believe in abstinence and waiting for marriage but these days i find that guys cant wait. If a guy truly loves a girl,why wont he be willing to wait for her?He feels that he could try and convince her but she is firm on her belief and leaves because he can't handle it. It hurts but he doesnt care, meaning that most guys like the idea of being the first obviously but cant stick around after a few months or even weeks of trying,

Persönaly i tink any dude stil lukin 4 a virgin must b sick coz 2 me its a crime if u're stil a virgin by 18 or u must realy b síck.

Eshyy:

Persönaly i tink any dude stil lukin 4 a virgin must b sick coz 2 me its a crime if u're stil a virgin by 18 or u must realy b síck.

the reverse is the case here, you are the sick one, come , how old are you?

sexyLeamon:

am sorry even I am tried of this virgin topics, but please bear with me and go through this one.  why are men so obsessed with Virginity?there have been like countless topics on dis, and honestly I don't know whats the fuss is all about. and i don't mean it badly, i just want to hear from guys on why it's important. is it like a prize? or an ownership thing? please be completely honest. i just don't see what the big deal is. I mean it's not like i care if you are or not, so why does it matter if i am?

I am not bashing you guys for this, just curious at what the big deal is.

b4 i answer ur question, are u a virgin? and is sum1 trying to get with u and u feel it is not for "love"?

@ wyyny
I know it is'nt polite but how old are u realy. Geez u need to realy get läîð. U re definetly misin alot undoubtedly

@ amboe
y d suden attack sinc wen did u turn 2 wynny's lawyer. Abi SAN dey hungry u Senior Advocate of Nairaland. Hahahaha

hey peeps, its just a question Age has nothing to do with it.Its all bout choice dear, And yes, not all guys are the same so there's still hope, lol. I believe in the one man syndrome.

It's cool. guys respect ladies who wait until marriage, as I'm doing the same thing. everyone like a clean a pure thing.

Vagin! VirGin!! Virgins!!!

I'm tired of this virginity threads,

Eshyy:

@ amboe
y d suden attack sinc wen did u turn 2 wynny's lawyer. Abi SAN dey hungry u Senior Advocate of Nairaland. Hahahaha

hhahahahaahhahaha very boring ,get a better joke

Sth times I wonder who actually can be considered a virgin,some time ago,I read in a foreign mag how young middle eastern girls go to hospital in London to operate on thier vagina to keep the hymen intact as if it had not been touched because their culture demands that for them to be properly married they ve to be virgins.What many ppl don't know is that U can't tell for a fact if a woman is a virgin by merely looking at the hymen cos she could ve had sex and still do job on her vagina and the hymen will luk intact,in essence,all am saying is that it's useless anyway cos it has no effect on a woman's suitability for marriage.Like I said b4,they re hardwork that always miscontrue any attempt to discuss sex.
@Poster,I don't know which men U re talking abt but most men I know don't give a hoot abt a gal's virginity,I personally don't like be the one to de-flower a gal,it's a fucking bond that I don't fink i Wanna go into,I would rather not ve her blood soil my bed and her sobbing and sulking like i just raped her,call me weird but I can't stand a woman moaning in pain and bleeding 4rm d yansh(lol,don't mind me) like am doing sth violent to her yansh(lol,again.Ignore Me jare).So virgins can take thier virginity to the priest ,real guyz don't see the big deal innit anyway!

Yeah for my kinds of person I don't want to even gert married to a virgin not to talk about showing so much empahsis about her viginity.

benzinho:

Yeah for my kinds of person I don't want to even gert married to a virgin not to talk about showing so much empahsis about her viginity.

stupid man

you can hook up with me via ojb_4luv@yahoo.co.in am always online.

benzinho:

you can hook up with me via ojb_4luv@yahoo.co.in am always online.

I am a virgin fool

get some1 to break it up is irritating

leave me alone, I have a boyfriend we both are waiting till marriage

that is plendous of him y not join me on yahoo messenger so we can better am on cam i dont know of u? ojb_4luv@yahoo.co.in

benzinho:

that is plendous of him y not join me on yahoo messenger so we can better am on cam i dont know of u? ojb_4luv@yahoo.co.in

you are a very useless human being, am not your type, leave me alone and jerk off on your cam

some of u guys are crazy on this site

so watch out and be careful who you play your games with.

Because men are bloody hypocrites thats why, they pressure their gfs to sex them up but tell their folks to find them a virgin. I was with some guys the other day and they had the nerve to say men cheating on their wives is amoral and normal but when a woman does it its wrong and she should be lynched. Bloody hypocritical scums of the earth.

Ebonyeyes:

Because men are bloody hypocrites thats why, they pressure their gfs to sex them up but tell their folks to find them a virgin. I was with some guys the other day and they had the nerve to say men cheating on their wives is amoral and normal but when a woman does it its wrong and she should be lynched. Bloody hypocritical scums of the earth.

does that include your father and brothers? 

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hmmm, let me use this analogy to explain why,
You go to a car showroom, see a car you like, take it for a test-drive, and drive it as hard as you like. After the test-drive you like the car and decide to buy it, question is
1) do you fork out the full price for the car you've just test-driven, or
2) You demand for a spanking new one?

it sucks but that's how some men see life, they test-drive any gal they find but prefer to settle down with a virgin if possible

Ebonyeyes:

Because men are bloody hypocrites thats why, they pressure their gfs to sex them up but tell their folks to find them a virgin. I was with some guys the other day and they had the nerve to say men cheating on their wives is amoral and normal but when a woman does it its wrong and she should be lynched. Bloody hypocritical scums of the earth.

damn dats a bit harsh

not me i dont like virgins