sexyLeamon: am sorry even I am tried of this virgin topics, but please bear with me and go through this one. why are men so obsessed with Virginity?there have been like countless topics on dis, and honestly I don't know whats the fuss is all about. and i don't mean it badly, i just want to hear from guys on why it's important. is it like a prize? or an ownership thing? please be completely honest. i just don't see what the big deal is. I mean it's not like i care if you are or not, so why does it matter if i am?

I am not bashing you guys for this, just curious at what the big deal is.

d light: It's something of great price and a thing of pride. A lady married intact as a virgin will easily earn our husband's trust even when her fidelity should be questioned. I think for men marrying a virgin gives the sense of a singular ownership on her, she also gets to feel more relaxed and confident in our matrimonial home knowing the fact that she was married as a virgin and I don't think any right thinking man will treat such meanly

d-baby:
I dont mean to sound rude,but abeg it pisses me off when some guys emphasize so much on a females virginity. After the guys have disvirgined other girls, then they start looking for virgins to marry.

Eshyy: Persönaly i tink any dude stil lukin 4 a virgin must b sick coz 2 me its a crime if u're stil a virgin by 18 or u must realy b síck.

d light: It's something of great price and a thing of pride. A lady married intact as a virgin will easily earn our husband's trust even when her fidelity should be questioned. I think for men marrying a virgin gives the sense of a singular ownership on her, she also gets to feel more relaxed and confident in our matrimonial home knowing the fact that she was married as a virgin and I don't think any right thinking man will treat such meanly

rhymz: I am a man and to me,Virgins re hardwork most of em can be very immature when it comes to the issue of sex.And besides marrying a virgin does't mean a man is shielded from the problems associated with marriage but that is not to say virgins do not make good wives,i would even love to have one for a wife but I aint waiting.

Donvilo:
So it appears that chic2pimp may not be a virgin Anyway sha, every man has a choice so has the women.
@sexyleamon. Noo! I do not I agree with that. Some guys might even use that kind of presumption as an excuse. Not all girls give up their virginities by choice.

sexyLeamon:
am sorry even I am tried of this virgin topics, but please bear with me and go through this one. why are men so obsessed with Virginity?there have been like countless topics on dis, and honestly I don't know whats the fuss is all about. and i don't mean it badly, i just want to hear from guys on why it's important. is it like a prize? or an ownership thing? please be completely honest. i just don't see what the big deal is. I mean it's not like i care if you are or not, so why does it matter if i am?

I am not bashing you guys for this, just curious at what the big deal is.

StellaN3:
am not a guy,
but to me as a girl it matters alot
it's  infact the biggest deal ever, there is nothing like trust and respect,
if u maintain urself till u marry ur husband have every right to respect and trust u
the diginity and respect  of a woman is her virginity am proud to say that, take it or lump it

sandee575:
Virginity at marriage sounds cool. But there have been many unhappy marriages
following such. Its no guarantee.

rubi:
It is always good to look out for a man who is well matured psychological, emotionally and spiritually that can treat a woman with love and respect

Men who are obsessed with women's virginity are still Immatured marriage license should not be given to them ( thank god I'm taken)

Virginity is not a guarantee to successful/happy marriage

dbaby3:
I dont mean to sound rude,but abeg it pisses me off when some guys emphasize so much on a females virginity. After the guys have disvirgined other girls, then they start looking for virgins to marry.

Ebonyeyes:
Because men are bloody hypocrites thats why, they pressure their gfs to sex them up but tell their folks to find them a virgin. I was with some guys the other day and they had the nerve to say men cheating on their wives is amoral and normal but when a woman does it its wrong and she should be lynched. Bloody hypocritical scums of the earth.

amebono1:


who's talking about men and women? so if the men jump into ocean or inside a fire a woman should do same ehn? its irritating





Now wait a minute, did they put a gun on the girls head? any excuse outside i was raped is not acceptable, a grown ass woman has the rule of choice, and should know the consequences of the choice that was chosen

Pardon me but women with this kind of mentality like yours are those that make mistakes in life and refuse to accept their mistake, the earlier you start accepting your mistake the better for you

So if a man pressurizes a woman to kill herself, she should, shouldnt she?afterall she was under pressure

Seriously what kind of excuse are you giving, why blame a girl that refused to be pressurized by a man and kept herself for her husband? why not blame the idiot that was so scared of loosing her man dat she opened up to him

I mean WTH are you on about?

amebono1:


No stop acting like all girls are stupid, i ask again, was a gun put on the head? does she think having sex will keep him? im not twisiting nothing, but i so hate it when women come here,after opening their legs for men and come put the blame on the man, like i said any excuse outside i was raped is not acceptable, if a woman cannot be sensible enough or have brains to cover the head,  then shes not worth being called a woman

Do the virgins have two heads?those gurls dat even after all the pressure kept themselves were they born with two nose? is it not the same thing they have with them non virgins? Alot of women are just plain stupid, if a woman engagies in an immoral life with a man and now wants to blame a man for it, then shes a BLOODY HYPOCRITE, and a GOD FORSAKEN CHEAP HOE