ryd3:
Women really shouldn't put themselves in questionable circumstances. He didnt rape her at her house, or in the street. They went out on dates together. Be careful of men, when the animal in us awakes, na u go suffer am. Ore, she has free will. You should chastise ur friend but let her go to the hospital and then the police herself. I would never support rape, but this is a case of greed and it's effects

SmartChoices:

turned his face and waited twenty minutes and came to nairaland to boast that his money must be accounted for! he's the rapist and as guilty as sin! his real moniker is numericalguy!

tee59:
In dis economy recession? Ur friend no do at all by raping her but dat serves d girl right. Next time she wil use her brain and hands 2 get wat she wants and not man.

cococandy:


That's the kind of boys being raised these days. I fear for my daughter:

tee59:
In dis economy recession? Ur friend no do at all by raping her but dat serves d girl right. Next time she wil use her brain and hands 2 get wat she wants and not man.

uyi26:
my friend shut up there. I have money. I don't need to rape a girl. I can have as many as I want.

tee59:
In dis economy recession? Ur friend no do at all by raping her but dat serves d girl right. Next time she wil use her brain and hands 2 get wat she wants and not man.

uyi26:
I'll do so. I'll even make some cash available to her.

uyi26:
look, I said I'm not interested. I'll tell him to compensate her monetarily. But to tell the police, sorry I'm no snitch.

uyi26:
My day has been so messed up. I went to see a friend of mine in his house. I was surprised the door wasn't locked and even the gate wasn't locked. I decided to help myself to a drink from his bar as soon as I entered the living room. As I was about serving myself, something told me to check on him in his room to see if he's there. As I approached his room I started hearing sounds. I decided to know what the noise was all about without making a sound.

Only for me to see a girl begging my friend to please have mercy on her and my friend was telling her to shut-up and comply. He was even beating the girl and have even torn her clothes. The girl was weeping bitterly and after about 20mins I decided to pretend I was just coming in by calling his name. He then told me to please wait for him in the living room. He joined me in the living room after about 10mins. I asked why he was breathing heavily and he told me that he just finished having sex with a girl. I confronted him with the truth and he opened up. He said he has been dating this girl for and that he has been spending money on her but she refused him sex. He said he used today's incident to recover all the money he has spent on her.

I'm really stuck between the devil and deep blue sea right now. The girl in question wants me to help report the issue to the police cos she's scared of being stigmatized. On the otherhand, the guy in question is my childhood friend. I can't imagine snitching on my homie and brother. I know it's wrong for him to have raped her but why would a girl be demanding for stuffs from a guy when she knows she's not willing to play ball.

byvan03:




Nne person tire. God will shield her always.

uyi26:
I'll do so. I'll even make some cash available to her.

cococandy:
did you type that so that one dude on this thread will like you and send you pm? Maybe marry you?

Because I've seen stupid women like you do and say stupid things to win male approval. But this is way up there.

You're a girl. Has no one ever given you a gift? Do you deserve to be raped for accepting something you thought was given in good spirit? One day your daughter or grand daughter will suffer for that your comment up there. It's not a curse or a bad wish. It's merely me stating the obvious. Your type contribute to this nightmare we are seeing now. Excusing, encouraging and praising rapists only makes them more daring and perpetuates the practice. One day one guy who was directly or indirectly influenced by that your comment will think it's okay to rape a female somewhere because he gave her gifts in the process of wooing her. Let's hope that girl is not yours or mine even.

Yes It could even be mine. That's why I'm concerned:

SmartChoices:


You just endorsed ra.pe sis.

drmikeadams:
...if ur not going to open ur legs ,,no follow man near house o ,whether u chop him money or u no chop iron pant with security lock and code don dey market and very affordable.

cococandy:


That's the kind of boys being raised these days. I fear for my daughter:

HornyTiwa:

Ma it will never be yours in Jesus name,the fact that you don't wish any evil to any body's Child,your child will never come across animals


Just leave the rapists,they will be gotten soon enough,have a nice night rest ma'am

schumastic:


I don't really comment on issues here except if i see one that strike my nerve..

so what kind of girls are being raised these day if I may ask?

the ones that depends on a guy for money, the ones that are prefer to eat a guys money n tag him a fool or maga, the ones that are still stupid enough to go visit the guy with the believe nothing will happen or even the ones that refuse to heed to the advice of theur parents about visiting male friends.

watch your words,learn not to deviate from any particular topic and most importantly learn not to generalize.

uyi26:
senior advocate of Nigeria I hear you. She claims she doesn't want premarital sex but she has premarital expenses.

uyi26:
she lost her bargaining rights the very day she started making monetary demands.

byvan03:
What goes around comes around. You have no business reporting but you are as evil as your friend. You could have stopped this crime from happening but you didn't. The world is cyclic, what you give is what you will get. Today it's a random girl, who knows who it will be tomorrow.

cococandy:
because you are all rapists? It's okay now that the guys are the ones saying it right? Because a woman saying this would be termed a man-hater.

Just what message are you passing across?

SmartChoices:

turned his face and waited twenty minutes and came to nairaland to boast that his money must be accounted for! he's the rapist and as guilty as sin! his real moniker is

cococandy:
more and more deranged things roaming the forum

uyi26:
Yes my nigga. The bitch wasn't willing to have premarital sex but had premarital expenses. These bitches will never learn.

reserved111:




You pple should stop defending dat gal she knew wat she was doing and I don't tink there is anytin like rape but nowadays girls use the painted word RAPE to take advantage of dining with the devil when they know wat to expect. Smone dat dines wit the devil can never be any tin close to a saint so no justice for both of them let them suit themselves

reserved111:




You pple should stop defending dat gal she knew wat she was doing and I don't tink there is anytin like rape but nowadays girls use the painted word RAPE to take advantage of dining with the devil when they know wat to expect. Smone dat dines wit the devil can never be any tin close to a saint so no justice for both of them let them suit themselves

uyi26:
you shut up as well. You won't advice your fellow girls to go out and work rather than depending on a guy for survival. I condemn rape in any form and even admonished my friend for his wrongdoing.