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Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by possibilita(m): 8:49am On Sep 15, 2016 |
bilulu:she have a child not a disease,@ least she is being honest. |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by ladypeenk: 9:16am On Sep 15, 2016 |
if her character is gud she is even a marriageable stuff, some ladies will neva tell u about their past out of desperation to get u in marrying dem but 4dis lady to have a bold step by informing u about her past I think u shud go ahead with d rship if truly u love her |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by quintybabe(f): 9:26am On Sep 15, 2016 |
AfroKnight:Most women loyalty is to their child/children first, whether your father the child/children or not |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by AfroKnight: 9:34am On Sep 15, 2016 |
quintybabe: Yeah. Thats true. 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by SucreB: 9:53am On Sep 15, 2016 |
theEYe21: just the way someone you owe explanations to will dump your ass*... silly thing you posted. i dont need your reply pls 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by TOSINSESI: 9:55am On Sep 15, 2016 |
There is nothing bad about it but should do this personal assignments . what happened in between the baby's dad and your wife? Don't bother asking her because she will tell you a sweet story for your hearing. Pray and becareful with the decision to be taken. |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by ahmedio: 10:03am On Sep 15, 2016 |
One question bro. Is the child in her custody or the father's custody? If in father's custody, can you stop her after marriage, from visiting her child? No Can you determine what will happen when she goes to visit the ex? No If in her custody, can you determine if the child will not demand to be his/her father when he/she comes of age after you have used your resources to train him/her? No But the decision is still yours. Love is no longer blind. Follow your heart but use your head. |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by SucreB: 10:06am On Sep 15, 2016 |
awww......really amazed reading positive responses to this. at least 98% of responses here shows that people are now wise and know that not all that glitters is gold...... not because a lady is single or being a virgin is the criteria for being a good wife, and also, not that it is advisable for ladies to get pregnant out of wedlock. most victims of such does not plan to be in such situation, and most times when i see ladies in such situations my heart bleeds, not because its gonna be difficult to settle down , but because of the stigma and emotional disorders that follows being a single mom. my prayer this day is that God Almighty will continue to protect them and keep opening guys eyes to see that they were actually innocent and wouldn't have wished for such to befell them. my advice for ladies is to always open up to guys that shows seriousness in settling down with them, do not for any reason hide your pas of such, because the truth is that, "what will be will be"! God Bless our guys of today, God Bless us all! 2 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by YorubaDemon(m): 10:16am On Sep 15, 2016 |
we demons only chop and clean mouth |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by spamgod: 10:29am On Sep 15, 2016 |
Money over B.tches |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by Tamakay(m): 10:30am On Sep 15, 2016 |
For ever telling u the truth before hand, I think she's one of the real deal.Girls truly love guys when they have made some indelible mistakes which in the real sense they don't dream of making. Guy go ahead because she learnt her lesson and u might be the lucky one. Why? because she's so tensed feeling that she might not get genuine love because she has given birth because a lot of guys detests this. |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by prof4harley: 10:38am On Sep 15, 2016 |
MY BROTHER, Its not about "wud u prefer a girl with several aborted babies? even at that, which gul can boast she never had an abortion, at least before 28? Except u dont have marriage in mind for her, if you do, as a guy like you, i wud advise u against it. The truth is, it will all seem rosy until you get in. The several never imagined oddities wud then pour out. The points above are my personal opinion sha. |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by chiwetel(f): 11:02am On Sep 15, 2016 |
Being a single mom is definitely a great feat ,irrespective of the circumstances surrounding the child's birth.if you really love her ,it's nothing to worry about.focus on building a thriving relationship with her am sure there are loads of lovable things about her,it all should be enough to make u stay. |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by enomakos(m): 11:08am On Sep 15, 2016 |
bilulu:send me her phone number let me marry her |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by joseph1832(m): 11:11am On Sep 15, 2016 |
bilulu:What should bother you is your happiness, not if the lady has a child or not. If you've been happy with her since you started dating her, then by all mean, continue, don't let such things be a distraction to you. |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by enomakos(m): 11:12am On Sep 15, 2016 |
vchykp:good advice but what if the father did't want the kid? |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by Nobody: 11:13am On Sep 15, 2016 |
be careful with the father cause he might not leave you guys in peace |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by josite: 11:32am On Sep 15, 2016 |
ITbomb:very wise man. Getting two puzzles for the price of one. Jus let the girl reach 18, o. |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by kennylawn(m): 11:37am On Sep 15, 2016 |
This is y I luv dis forum, very educating as we hv d best brain and sincere brotherhood/sisterhood relationship. As for the post, bro, love is wat matters. |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by Gracious10: 12:08pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
I have a quick question. A lady who has aborted several times or even once plus the one that had the child and flushed it down the toilet or left it in a trash bin AND The one who had the baby and raised the child through all hurdles . Please who is a single mother amongst these set of people? |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by Katier00(f): 12:23pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
vchykp:how can you ask a mother to give up her child |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by Nobody: 2:48pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
bilulu: These millennials are so funny . So, you need the approval of a random stranger to date a girl? Trust me you're gonna come up against tougher decision making scenarios as a man, and there's no hard and fast rule or a one-size-fits-all rule when it comes to matters of the heart. I mean only you can make this decision, and if it's the wrong one, take the positives from that experience & move on, never make the same mistake twice. |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by vchykp(m): 4:21pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
Katier00: its not by force oh, but the OP will u understand when the time comes |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by vchykp(m): 4:23pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
enomakos: thats am exceptional case, then she should comfortably keep the kid. |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by Olumaeme: 4:24pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
You have the decision to make Bro, but for me I will never in my life marry a single mother, I don't have anything against them ooo. Never!. |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by enomakos(m): 4:35pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
vchykp:good |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by neocortex: 5:42pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
bilulu: It depends on whether the father of the child still have heavy influence in her life. If that is the case run for your life! for you might lose your peace in the process, if not you can go ahead. 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by neocortex: 5:47pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
rosalieene: Young unmarried girls shouldn't get pregnant in the first place instead of killing babies, prevention is better than cure! |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by neocortex: 5:49pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
Jimi23: It is the truth, many baby mamas wish the child's father will come back, the father's know this and some irresponsible one do exploit their baby mamas emotion to get whatever they want. Mind you, I am speaking from experience. |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by Prestigenedu: 5:54pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
bilulu:...and her child, mind you. |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by neocortex: 6:21pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
SucreB: I won't blame the guys who are wary of baby mamas. It is not uncommon to find some baby mamas hoping and wishing that their "true love" will one day return. I am sure most guys won't be bothered about marrying a baby mama if they are sure they won't be competing with some "other guy" for the wife's attention. Competing for love while married is the worst nightmare any man will want to avoid. I am of the opinion that guys should see if the relationship can work rather than judging from afar. |
Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by Jimi23(m): 6:55pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
neocortex: Even if u are speaking from experience, u certainly cannot be speaking for all baby mamas because i know some who dont ever want to see even the shadows of their baby daddies out of resentment for them. |
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