Laveda:


Why keep a woman for four years when you know you won't marry her? I'm sure he's been giving her hopes and along the line he just walks out and pick her friend over her..

Don't even give me that crap of "she got faults" and the man, is he perfect?
He couldn't go out to pick another lady but decided to continue with her friend I'm sure he's been cheating under her nose.

TrapQueen77:



Oh... I had ex who got married to a rich woman... We broke up coz he need a paper so he can stay in tat country legally and tatz the only way he can have an easy access ..

So my point here, sometimes men marry coz of the status... Not coz they really love the girl..

JeffreyJamez:




Look that picture well. .....does that guy look hungry?



There are different meanings to the word "Status".
.....and status here might mean the present lady is more hardworking and independent.


Anyways, na them know..... We no kuku know the story.... Na assumptions we just dey do.

TrapQueen77:




Everything is possible sha... Isn't it the fiancé said she got the status and all?

eyeview:
I don't why am not feeling sympathy for the scorned Lady here. As much as I try,I don't.
First of all,birds of a feather flock together. If the lady was her friend,I can guess that she too had similar traits. She may have seen such traits in her friend but was okay with it as long as it wasn't used to snatch her man. I can bet that if this her friend snatched the man of an unknown girl,she would have hailed her friend and blamed the unknown girl for failing in keeping her man.

Also,she never bothered to ask herself why her man never proposed for the past 4years in a relationship. The truth which all ladies reading this should know is that a man knows within 6months if he should marry a lady or not. But the problem is that most times,he holds on hoping for the girl to change in some wrong characters and sadly,she will refuse to change,preferring to hold unto the wrong characters and hoping the man marries her with it. The implication is that when the man sees another without that character baggage,he proposes without delay.
And for four years,this Lady never bothered to know why he didn't propose.

Laveda:


Why keep a woman for four years when you know you won't marry her? I'm sure he's been giving her hopes and along the line he just walks out and pick her friend over her..

Don't even give me that crap of "she got faults" and the man, is he perfect?
He couldn't go out to pick another lady but decided to continue with her friend I'm sure he's been cheating under her nose.

Snowangel4:
all of u blaming the dumped girl are wicked just like that couple. k, the guy knows that he will not marry her and still wasted 4yrs of her life and even proposed to her friend while dating her.
both the guy and that her friend are very wicked, this is not right, let's call a spade a spade.

is like your best friend getting married to your fiancé at ur back without u knowing.

kenonze:
Sometimes we think we are in a relationship but
In reality we are not

soberdrunk:
See the bad guy face, if care is not taken he go still chop the new wife younger sister

Laveda:


Why keep a woman for four years when you know you won't marry her? I'm sure he's been giving her hopes and along the line he just walks out and pick her friend over her..

Don't even give me that crap of "she got faults" and the man, is he perfect?
He couldn't go out to pick another lady but decided to continue with her friend I'm sure he's been cheating under her nose.

naijaboiy:

[b]The bold does not even make sense at all!

Who does something when he/she knows that he/she won't get the required benefit? You are saying like if a man sees a woman he will know automatically that she's his wife.

I'm sure in all your relationships there have been times you thought you both could have a future bu at the end it didn't work. You can't go abou saying "if you know you won't marry me then don't date me".

That's why people court. To know and understand their partners and if they find themselves compatible they get married. You don't see a man or woman and then you automatically call her your wife.

So yes, there must be reasons why he left his girlfriend for the backstabbing friend. Whatever it could be is what I can't argue about but note now that the number of years you spend in a relationship does not guarantee marriage.

They both wasted four years of their lives getting committed to other. Now stop generalizing on men and face the person in question after all you'll still get married to one.[/b]

TrapQueen77:



Oh... I had ex who got married to a rich woman... We broke up coz he need a paper so he can stay in tat country legally and tatz the only way he can have an easy access ..

So my point here, sometimes men marry coz of the status... Not coz they really love the girl..

TrapQueen77:



Oh... I had ex who got married to a rich woman... We broke up coz he need a paper so he can stay in tat country legally and tatz the only way he can have an easy access ..

So my point here, sometimes men marry coz of the status... Not coz they really love the girl..

Debaddest:
That girl was rude, that's why the guy dumped her.

The way she chat alone, Gosh

TrapQueen77:



Oh... I had ex who got married to a rich woman... We broke up coz he need a paper so he can stay in tat country legally and tatz the only way he can have an easy access ..

So my point here, sometimes men marry coz of the status... Not coz they really love the girl..

metallisc:



so you've been in the trap?

Avalon316:


Is this the story you tell yourself to console yourself?

He married her cos he likes her . he will get to love her in no time.

TrapQueen77:




not to console myself here.. But we broke up in good terms.. He told me his reasons, we talked abt it... It was painful for me to give up that guy, but I respect his decisions and I supported him... All I want for him is to be happy.

Avalon316:


This is so " unnigerian". Naija babes don't give up with some dirty fights.

TrapQueen77:




I ain't local na...

Avalon316:


You live in Nigeria?

TrapQueen77:





Neva been to Naija either

TrapQueen77:



If they broke up before he met the second one, obviously this fiancé will tell the first gf in the text msg they exchanging ... She must know it abt them abt but she was juz lucky to get engaged to this man.


Ooh well, 4yrs got wasted. She must move on and find her own man.

jashar:
does the so called friend think the guy won't do same to her with another lady?

Some peeps ain't loyal. So sad.

No conscience sha...

TrapQueen77:




not to console myself here.. But we broke up in good terms.. He told me his reasons, we talked abt it... It was painful for me to give up that guy, but I respect his decisions and I supported him... All I want for him is to be happy.

stuffs4me:


I can't stop laughing..
See lie o! Even lie Muhammed sef go bow for you.