Actually my self-esteem is high....I'm not scared to break up, it's actually the other way around, I really don't care if my partner breaks up with me, after all it his choice and I have to respect that. And I'm not wasting my time on anybody, I know what I'm doing

uxdesigner:
thumbs up, this is one hell of an intersting thread. girls are no saints. i noticed one lady here is saying she can stay with a cheat no matter what, honey uve sold urself short. what happened to ur self worth and esteem to make u want to stick with someone who doesnt value u? are u scared if u breakup with the guy u myt not find a guy who may love u mayb cos of ur looks? come on av u heard of sean stephenson? beta don plan to waste ur time with one silly cheating bastarrd. @itsquinn

Why should a gal in a relationship keep more male friends then female friends, she will now say she is keeping dey for finacial purpose.

MORRYDIHEART:
u are so pathetic,not only d babes are guilty of dis,guys are worst at it.I had similar experience with my husband,seriously am not d type DAT search my man's phone or pick his calls coz I trust him a lot but as fate will have it his own daughter picked his phone and in d process of collecting it from her to keep it safe a msg he sent to his girlfriend was on d screen, I read it and I was tempted to go further which I did,I wished I haven't done DAT coz wat hit me was not something words can express, his dirty secrets was rite there on d screen,from their sex chat to how they meet etc.I was sweating and feeling cold at d same time,everything around me was against me,my hands could not move and my legs were forcing it's movement. within DAT week I lost so much weight coz food was my enemy,nothing interest me in fact I was in another planet entirely. abeg make una knw try search una partner phone o,just ignore everything so u can live long.

I'm curious to know how you guyz made up if you're still together

olurebiolusegun:
Experience they said is the best teacher. and if you have not been in a situation like this, u will never know how it feels to be in it. there is one gal in my church that time too. the gal go dey do as if na she born Jesus Christ. along the line, me and this gal hook up. we dey go out as boyfriend and gal friend oooo. anytime I just make mention of sex like this hen, the gal go shout Jesus christ! segun you need to be born again. she is referring to me as my name na segun. Even to the extent that if my hand mistakenly torch her breast like this hen, she go dey ask for forgiveness from God immediately that God should forgive me and her. The day I will realize say this gal I dey follow up and down as saint dey collect good fucking from our church organist hen, I nearly faint . I cried profusely and nobody to pet me. I stylishly quit the relationship then . at the end , that my church organist disappointed her and got married to another gal in that church. that my ex still be single now oooo as me too is planning for my marriage February next year. this same gal con dey beg me for forgiveness oooo say make I no marry my fiancee make I marry her doing everything humanly possible.

At the end of the day who come lose na? Serves her right...

99foxxy:
Snooping doesn't pay for both sexes.

It's not healthy but it's very necessary, not like it should be one's everyday primary biz though...

iyanigold:
d rate at which this shit is happening is becoming alarming. Those that look innocent are the worst. It has happened to me and virtually all my friends. Baby mama go plenty for this generation ooo

Lolz... You're right, me i just dey laff reading comments sef, if i share my experience here ehn, it could be scripted into a best selling #Nollywood movie oooooo, hehehehehehe.

Realhommie:
Lolz... You're right, me i just dey laff reading comments sef, if i share my experience here ehn, it could be scripted into a best selling #Nollywood movie oooooo, hehehehehehe.

We're all ears and eyes.

Fidelismaria:
how come na olosho dey bear cynthia dat name is cursed

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha, very funny line of thought. I know 2 by that name who are so promiscuous but i also have a good friend by same name who's every inch a good girl.

CorGier:


We're all ears and eyes.

My guy, make we leave tori for dem market women... No be everything wey hunter see for bush e dey talk oooooooo, lolz.

Realhommie:
My guy, make we leave tori for dem market women... No be everything wey hunter see for bush e dey talk oooooooo, lolz.

The hunter see wetin pass e eye abi.
Anyha sha, I hear you.

CorGier:

The hunter see wetin pass e eye abi. Anyha sha, I hear you.

CorGier:


The hunter see wetin pass e eye abi.
Anyha sha, I hear you.

*Modified....

Sorry bout this, network ish..

George22016:

how will the icon be hidden?how do I hide it

go to settings and block the app(sms tracker) notifications

rawpadgin:
I tried downloading it this afternoon but to no avail

can u help me with a link?

it's on playstore "smstracker"

Immorttal:
how did you know all these, am sure you were a victim before.

well..I actually used it for my husby..and what I saw was painful...I don't regret it ooo because it helped me alot..

Bukybabe:

it's on playstore "smstracker"

I have downloaded it
how does it work?
should i install it in her phone?

Bukybabe:



well..I actually used it for my husby..and what I saw was painful...I don't regret it ooo because it helped me alot..

Baddest wifey. Una type dey fear me, what is man without his secrets..

rawpadgin:
I have downloaded it

how does it work?

should i install it in her phone?

yes you will also download it on her phone..once you download it on your phone..you will register it on your own phone not hers...Hide the bird icon by going to settings on her phone and off the notification for the app smstracker..
Any time you want to check her messages you will check on your phone by entering the login details..lobatan

Part 2 of this story in a bit!

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Bukybabe:



yes you will also download it on her phone..once you download it on your phone..you will register it on your own phone not hers...Hide the bird icon by going to settings on her phone and off the notification for the app smstracker..
Any time you want to check her messages you will check on your phone by entering the login details..lobatan

thanks dear

will try it asap

Realhommie:
It's not healthy but it's very necessary, not like it should be one's everyday primary biz though...

Sorry I'm replying late cos wasn't free. Regarding the issue, I once scooped on my ex and i almost landed in orbit, so it's better been in the dark...

99foxxy:
Sorry I'm replying late cos wasn't free. Regarding the issue, I once scooped on my ex and i almost landed in orbit, so it's better been in the dark...

I have been there too, though i didn't set out to invade her privacy as the opportunity just presented itself on a platter, all i did was made use of it. What i discovered sha, and to think i trusted her completely, what i went through afterwards is better imagined.


But it helped me moving forward, now imagine there was no discovery of any sort... So in as much as i understand and respect ur reason, nothing is best left in the dark and no one is better being in the dark for the repercussions may just be too grave.. IMO

Realhommie:
I have been there too, though i didn't set out to invade her privacy as the opportunity just presented itself on a platter, all i did was made use of it. What i discovered sha, and to think i trusted her completely, what i went through afterwards is better imagined.


But it helped me moving forward, now imagine there was no discovery of any sort... So in as much as i understand and respect ur reason, nothing is best left in the dark and no one is better being in the dark for the repercussions may just be too grave.. IMO

hmmmn.................

Realhommie:
I'm curious to know how you guyz made up if you're still together

my dear it wasn't easy,I was really hurt and it took me weeks to be myself again but I finally let go for d sake of our daughter and because he didn't deny it neither was he proud of it,he helped me recover from d shock by being more caring, taking me to my favourite spots,he really tried his best to amend his mistake. sincerely I've forgiven him but it's still difficult to forget and also trust him again.I never left him and we are still togeda but wat I feel for him isn't d same again,however, I still make sure I try my best to be a good wife.

Realhommie:
I have been there too, though i didn't set out to invade her privacy as the opportunity just presented itself on a platter, all i did was made use of it. What i discovered sha, and to think i trusted her completely, what i went through afterwards is better imagined.


But it helped me moving forward, now imagine there was no discovery of any sort... So in as much as i understand and respect ur reason, nothing is best left in the dark and no one is better being in the dark for the repercussions may just be too grave.. IMO

you're so on point, but i still snoop once in a while

MORRYDIHEART:
u are so pathetic,not only d babes are guilty of dis,guys are worst at it.I had similar experience with my husband,seriously am not d type DAT search my man's phone or pick his calls coz I trust him a lot but as fate will have it his own daughter picked his phone and in d process of collecting it from her to keep it safe a msg he sent to his girlfriend was on d screen, I read it and I was tempted to go further which I did,I wished I haven't done DAT coz wat hit me was not something words can express, his dirty secrets was rite there on d screen,from their sex chat to how they meet etc.I was sweating and feeling cold at d same time,everything around me was against me,my hands could not move and my legs were forcing it's movement. within DAT week I lost so much weight coz food was my enemy,nothing interest me in fact I was in another planet entirely. abeg make una knw try search una partner phone o,just ignore everything so u can live long.

I can imagine how you felt, some of us are ranting about boyfriends and here you're talking about your own husband, gosh! How did you get over the whole mess your husband put you through? I guess the scar will ever be fresh in your heart. What a wicked and deceitful man he is.

Ikpewe:
If i click on that link make all my fingers break.

Take it easy.

Ikpewe:
If i click on that link make all my fingers break.

Take it easy.

Op, you no wan check again. Keep checking. ;DOp, you no wan check again. Keep checking.

MORRYDIHEART:
my dear it wasn't easy,I was really hurt and it took me weeks to be myself again but I finally let go for d sake of our daughter and because he didn't deny it neither was he proud of it,he helped me recover from d shock by being more caring, taking me to my favourite spots,he really tried his best to amend his mistake. sincerely I've forgiven him but it's still difficult to forget and also trust him again.I never left him and we are still togeda but wat I feel for him isn't d same again,however, I still make sure I try my best to be a good wife.

Hmmmmmmmmm... It's always difficult to forget and trust again, that's what cheating does and especially when you truly love and care for that person, it breeds distrust afterwards..

Good to know you didn't leave, divorce isn't always the solution. Just keep trying, hopefully someday soon you'll be able to forget bout everything completely. Best wishes

99foxxy:
you're so on point, but i still snoop once in a while

Lolz, it's normal.. Anything for love and interest , just try not to get heartbroken again .

99foxxy:
I can imagine how you felt, some of us are ranting about boyfriends and here you're talking about your own husband, gosh! How did you get over the whole mess your husband put you through? I guess the scar will ever be fresh in your heart. What a wicked and deceitful man he is.

yea,I can never forget it neither will I ever trust him again.d only reason am still with him is d fact DAT his family is wonderful they didn't take even his side and my daughter is too precious to me to be left in d hands of anoda woman whom I don't even know wat she's capable of.she's just 16months old.

Realhommie:
Hmmmmmmmmm... It's always difficult to forget and trust again, that's what cheating does and especially when you truly love and care for that person, it breeds distrust afterwards..

Good to know you didn't leave, divorce isn't always the solution. Just keep trying, hopefully someday soon you'll be able to forget bout everything completely. Best wishes

thanks dear