Monalisa185:
the kain brains wey people dey get these days ehhhhh!!! Ohhhh my!!!!

Who said being able to keep good conversations online has a race or a particular gender? My friend! It's an individual stuff, some people put it up while some can't help it.. Some keep good convos online but fail woefully offline while sometimes the above is the reverse..

Chaiii

yeah, you are right. But naija girls, una own too much jhoor. The way you respond to chats makes you look dumb, with no idea on socialised lifestyle.
But when it comes to begging of recharge cards, that's when you will discover they know other words apart from 'k'

Mimido2:
hu cares

till your hubby calls you boring

Alondra:
Sometimes ladies may be too tired to reply , Not in the mood to chat. That moment we all want to remain silent on everything.

I find asking me what I have done for 24hours boring, stupid and sometimes hard. My relationship with you will determine my reply . So guys are chat killers on arrival with nothing interesting to discuss.

Some guys are also dominant in conversations and that pisses me off too. When I give a reply or asked a question and it is overlooked.


You are not a lady.... I know better

ahan see yourself. Are you guys always tired. Even in the morning it takes the grace of God for some of you to ask how was you night. Even when we ask you guys just say fine. Like our girls are getting dumber everyday.

CorGier:

who doesn't?

lol we all do

Sexchatting is a no no for me, infact I won't bother replying d perv....

checkpoint:
till your hubby calls you boring

guys are also boring too especially d ones on whatsapp

Well...you're right to a large extent. Lotta Nigerians girls lack the drill to start or keep a conversation going smooth. Not many smart girls around really

Yuneehk:
You've not chatted with ALL of us so how did you come to that conclusion. Besides it's only a lady who doesn't like you that'll give you one word replies.

read the whole post not only the topic before you comment. Did you not read the part where the op said 'except for few'?

Ì think this is one of the reasons responsible for that behaviour. You girls like jumping to conclusion even before the guy finishes introducing himself. A guy says 'hi', you immediately conclude the guy wants sex

Mimido2:
guys are also boring too especially d ones on whatsapp

lol. You guys are the cause. When you reply you make it a dead end. Making us feel like that's a no go area for me. Then instead of the guy to quit and move on some of us will start spewing trash trying to make you talk.

checkpoint:
ahan see yourself. Are you guys always tired. Even in the morning it takes the grace of God for some of you to ask how was you night. Even when we ask you guys just say fine. Like our girls are getting dumber everyday.

if you gonna insult then I am not having this conversation with you

checkpoint:
nawa oh. Just because I said explicit. Guy go and think well then come back to reply

lool

its okay Sir, not your fault...i also do that albeit with subtlety. that's what makes us human (men).

Alondra:
if you gonna insult then I am not having this conversation with you

sorry I no mean am

VeeVeeMyLuv:

lool

its okay Sir, not your fault...i also do that albeit with subtlety. that's what makes us human (men).

yeah, sorry. Don't mean to be rude

Nma27:
Sexchatting is a no no for me, infact I won't bother replying d perv....

wasn't talking about sex chat oo. You guys should try to understand first

checkpoint:
corrupt minds.

Shhhhh....

Monalisa185:
the kain brains wey people dey get these days ehhhhh!!! Ohhhh my!!!!

Who said being able to keep good conversations online has a race or a particular gender? My friend! It's an individual stuff, some people put it up while some can't help it.. Some keep good convos online but fail woefully offline while sometimes the above is the reverse..

Chaiii

As much as i hate to agree with the op...he is almost correct in a way. Although not all naija girls but like a large percentage of them form unnecessarily even off line too i believe it has to do with inferiority complex...they be like if i too freestyle with this guy he might be getting the wrong ideas..and if u still check am out na she like u pass the way u like her oo..some of them are just dull and uninteresting and even some of the interesting and lively ones after u guys start chatting comfortably like u been pals for ages,the next time u see her online she starts acting up and giving u one word per 30min as if na pay as u go and when u bon them small they go call u up and say u disappeared..why i no go disappear when u dey dull urself ...its just the sad truth many naija girls don't know how to freely express themselves on and off line prolly due to the way they were brought up like its a sin to express the way u feel to a guy as a girl..but in the western world its no big deal..and that's how most of them dey form until u pipe them and when u no call again they call u all sort of names..from experience i know that an uninteresting girl be it in an online chat or offline convo is usually mostly uninteresting as well in bed..why? they are the ones that say in their shallow minds "its the first time na if i give this guy like this he will assume am slutty" mean while u expect mind blowing s3x from him..Op u correct joor but no be all our girls sha..some few enlightened ones dey

Nma27:
Sexchatting is a no no for me, infact I won't bother replying d perv....

Story

EnigmaticEnigma:

lmaoo

MBush:



Shhhhh....

tell me shhh again I'll squeeze ya mouth dia

checkpoint:
tell me shhh again I'll squeeze ya mouth dia

Shhhhhh ...

Hold your mouth... pimmmm!!

MBush:


Shhhhhh ...

Hold your mouth... pimmmm!!

lol
leave trouble make Im sleep jeje

Ok I think the op is on 50/50...
Inasmuch as most naija gurls fall into the of uninterested category, I expect the guy to understand that and stop pestering her for a chat..trust me there r other guys out there such gurls do have mind blowing chat with...so I guess its a matter of interest. Hey my guy seriously you just cant have it all.

My advice, get a reasonable number of contacts that you know can contribute one or two....not a large number that has nothing to contribute...

The few I have is very much ok..don't think I need to look for more because relationship for me is key and it takes me time and resources to build....dosnt buoyed down to just chat and dats all...

Alondra:
What do you talk about?l, How attractive is your manner of communication? Do you know what interests your audience? How do you interest your audience? How much do you know about your audience?. Communication is no gender thing either, I've met some boring guys but I learnt to deal with them.. You should do the same

The simple truth of the matter is that many ladies lack the wit to flow in conversations. How many novels have you read in your life? All most of you do is read religious/inspirational books, so when someone engages you in an intellectually stimulating conversation, all you can come up with is K and lol. You say we should center discussions around your interests, as in I should sit down and start discussing how Gum Jum Pyo is the cutest Korean to walk this earth, or how one Bollywood soap opera or the other changed your life? What fantastic interests do you have that could possibly fuel a lengthy conversation? That's how I made a typo one day and I told the girl I was greeting her in hieroglyphic and the airhead replied with K. The only conversations most ladies can keep up with are the ones that feature have you eaten, what did you eat, when did you eat it, how, with what, ws up, hw fr etc

went through some coments and i can feel how true OP is and hw pompous our ladies really are...85% of nigeria ladies av boring souls

Monalisa185:
the kain brains wey people dey get these days ehhhhh!!! Ohhhh my!!!!

Who said being able to keep good conversations online has a race or a particular gender? My friend! It's an individual stuff, some people put it up while some can't help it.. Some keep good convos online but fail woefully offline while sometimes the above is the reverse..

Chaiii

Forget all this your long Grammer..

Most Nigerian girls have a serious deficiency in terms of chatting or keeping up with a conversation online.
All the guys complaining here can't all be wrong...

Nobody talked about a whole Race or gender

Are Nigerian girls a Race or a gender

Eg of race - Black, Asian, Caucasian, Caribbean, Hispanic etc
Gender/Sex- Queer, transsexual, homosexual, gay, lesbian, male, female.

We said Nigerian girls not girls of the black race....

Sample

Me- hello, how are you doing?
Her- gud
Me- how was your day?
Her (after 24mins)- k
Me- So are you at home now
Her - hmm
Me- wat do u mean by hmmm
Her- nth, K
Me- 101480405078
Her - wow darling, what network is that credit?
Me- That's not a network or a credit , that's my Dstv smart card number. Thunder blast u

The churchy and mosque religious girls are the worst... so annoying...

Nigerian girls of nowadays are just the worst set of women on earth.. Fucking scumbags.. And most of em get bleeped for 2k or less!

Nma27:
Sexchatting is a no no for me, infact I won't bother replying d perv....

Imagine.. No be sey you fine sef.. Sometimes I blame our guys for making this Mary Kay agents feel fly always..

ib4real95:

Imagine.. No be sey you fine sef.. Sometimes I blame our guys for making this Mary Kay agents feel fly always..

My physical looks has nofin to do with my moral state. Better grow a brain if u don't have one... Ode

Milonis:
Well...you're right to a large extent. Lotta Nigerians girls lack the drill to start or keep a conversation going smooth. Not many smart girls around really

Ouch! Word! I had ds same convo wt a lady friend yesterday...It started this way...I said "How are u" and she responded "fine". I purposely kept mute to see what she will say next...I guess she was staring at her screen waiting for me to say somthing...when she got tired, she said "why are you not sayin nothin?", i chuckled and that's when I had to tell her that it is suppose to be a conversation not a boring interrogation! She started throwing up all the excuses her fellow ladies are throwing in here...

To all the girls sayin we haven't met you ALL, sample this question with your male friends both online and offline and I promise u 95% of guys will concur!

CreamyMoltenLar:
The simple truth of the matter is that many ladies lack the wit to flow in conversations. How many novels have you read in your life? All most of you do is read religious/inspirational books, so when someone engages you in an intellectually stimulating conversation, all you can come up with is K and lol. You say we should center discussions around your interests, as in I should sit down and start discussing how Gum Jum Pyo is the cutest Korean to walk this earth, or how one Bollywood soap opera or the other changed your life? What fantastic interests do you have that could possibly fuel a lengthy conversation? That's how I made a typo one day and I told the girl I was greeting her in hieroglyphic and the airhead replied with K. The only conversations most ladies can keep up with are the ones that feature have you eaten, what did you eat, when did you eat it, how, with what, ws up, hw fr etc

Hahahaahhahdhahaah...guy u bad!