your angst is misplaced, otukpo.

aysometin:

Because as an African man it is your responsibility to provide for the household while she does the chores. Why should she help you with yours when it's a taboo to you to help with hers??, pschewwww!!!

as an african woman it is ur duty to do the dishes, born pikin, what is all these noise about equal rights?

dem think say na europe dem dey

TheSeeker:

Una still dey here dey argue?

I tire

na2day?:

as an african woman it is your duty to do the dishes, born pikin, what is all these noise about equal rights?

As an African man, it is your duty to foot the bills 100%

aysometin:

As an African man, it is your duty to foot the bills 100%

na2day?:

as an african woman it is your duty to do the dishes, born pikin, what is all these noise about equal rights?

cool thing for us women is we can employ maids to reduce our chores

good thing you're not in niaja, ays. your eye for see wen!

you people are still discussing?
this thread shouldnt have gone any more than 4 pages. i feel guilty for adding to the length!
let this thread die, abeg.

snowdrops:

It is about time we call this a truce and close this topic. Its into its 24th page!!
Its being over flogged and biased along gender lines
Everybody carry on with your beliefs

i ssooooo agree.

George_D:

good thing you're not in niaja, ays. your eye for see wen!

Look at you, If I were in Naija.I'll be able to employ maids

But 4 you, you have to provide for your family 100%, no one can help you with that beacuse you are an 'african man'

ha, ha, ha! don't be too sure about that, ays!

aysometin:

As an African man, it is your duty to foot the bills 100%

then be the house slave 100% too then we will call it fair

GL:


cool thing for us women is we can employ maids to reduce our chores

then we can sleep with the maids, i like ur plan

but why? there is really nothing bad in doing dishes with ur girl, simply shows that u are not only caring, but that in case of any disagreement u can do without her and this ll let her not only appreciate u but also help in curbin her excesses. I think u had better have a rethink. not saying that it should be a regular routine but try as much as possible to help out with chores at home.

carry go, Luvlgenius!

this is still going? this should be at the max 6 pages by now.
GOSH!! over dishes?
thread, die, die, die.

hax:

Haba. Some of the opinions in this thread have made me laugh.

O boy, I obviously won't mind helping out once in a while, but I expect to have a wife who'll do most of the housework. Isn't that the 'womanly' thing to do? I thought most women didn't mind much. I've been enlightened now though. lol

I think most of the women here such as IgboGirl for example might end up falling head over heels and never ask the man to help in the kitchen. Women can be funny creatures. lol

U WISH

don't listen to these people!
what works for the geese may not necessarily work for the gander. there's no man's role or woman's role in 2009!
you both decide what works for you and what you're both comfortable with.

support her in domestics and she supports you financially.
moral support, i mean. or whatever you guys like,
enjoy!

was it any different in 2008 or 2007 for that matter?

na2day?:

then be the house slave 100% too then we will call it fair


then we can sleep with the maids, i like your plan

na2day just see how ur mouth is runing,  u are unromantic, don't u know that the two of u need to assist each other

sweetcoint:

na2day just see how your mouth is runing,  u are unromantic, don't u know that the two of u need to assist each other

i am very romantic ooo, the only difference is my love dey shine eye well well

mama_gee:

sign of a stingy, skinny, ugly asss looking broke niga

gold digger united

has it degenerated to this?

As an African man, it is your duty to foot the bills 100%

Lmao! We do. You graduated college believing your worth can only be validated in employment. You can be a graduate, a housewife and a mother. In that role, you are far worthier and more valuable to your family, your children and the community. When you work, your husband, your children and yourself all suffer a consequence far burdensome than you have the fortiude to bear.

When your boss tell you in the office to do something outside your job definition you dont rebel. Why rebel when your boss at home tell you he is not doing dishes or mopping your floor?

Stop the nonsense!

I don't like doing the dishes. I hate that house chore but when I see she's seriously tired, I can help her do the dishes so far it doesn't turn into a regular something.

Me @ the age of 24...If my girlfriend (not even wife) comes to my house....I will expect her to cook...Do the dishes...I cn assist here and there but it is her job....Me sef go school naaa...Forget all this civilisation...My papa no do dishes for my mama or cook for her....So why will I now do such? The only thing that cn make me do dishes is wen she ill or pregnant...Then I will even cook for her and spoon feed her...But I won't av no able bodies woman of mine disobeying me...Shikena.

Me @ the age of 24...If my girlfriend (not even wife) comes to my house....I will expect her to cook...Do the dishes...I cn assist here and there but it is her job....Me sef go school naaa...Forget all this civilisation...My papa no do dishes for my mama or cook for her....So why will I now do such? The only thing that cn make me do dishes is wen she ill or pregnant...Then I will even cook for her and spoon feed her...But I won't av no able bodies woman of mine disobeying me...If u don't like it pack out.....Shikena

Did u beat her before coming public

if she asks you to help do the dishes with her in the kitchen, get off ur ass and go do it.it ain't no biggie. its actually more intimate and romantic than than u think, then again, Naija guys ain't romantic.....

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