chika98:

I doubt that she "demanded". Perhaps she just asked??

It isn't right to demand to do the dishes. A man shouldn't go about with the mentality of a woman being confined to cooking and cleaning either. That mentality is somewhat "off". Generally, most women understand gender roles and would do what they taught by their parents to do. A man however shouldn't take the piss. Nothing is wrong with helping out every once in a while. You both live in the said house together and it takes two to keep it clean.

GBAM!! thats what im saying.
shior, na wa for the poster sef.
KOLOMENTAL!

chika98:

I doubt that she "demanded". Perhaps she just asked??

It isn't right to demand to do the dishes. A man shouldn't go about with the mentality of a woman being confined to cooking and cleaning either. That mentality is somewhat "off". Generally, most women understand gender roles and would do what they taught by their parents to do. A man however shouldn't take the piss. Nothing is wrong with helping out every once in a while. You both live in the said house together and it takes two to keep it clean.

Go and siddon somewhere.

Who was doing it when the woman was in her father's house?
These chics serve their male siblings(young/old) but when it's time to do the same to their partners, they bring this annoying western attitude.
Y'all are Africans. . . . . . .No matter what you say, you are still an African.

platinumnk:

Dont worry Ill send you a blowup doll and a mail order maid

The Customs won't let such through our borders.
We don't condone fetishism like you Yankees.

funkybaby:

come back jare.  
dont even waste your time
MEND stands no chance with a full-blooded ijebu guy  

Okay o. . . . . . .Hmmmmmm

THE-AMAKA:

she is stupid!!! tell her she needs to grow a di.ck and stand up for herself.
fuk her!
youre probably making it up, nonsense.  

make what up?? for what reason? she's the one that made me see ur crazy character.
and please dont insult her, abeg, abeg, nor just make me change am for u ooo?

chika98:

I doubt that she "demanded". Perhaps she just asked??

It isn't right to demand to do the dishes. A man shouldn't go about with the mentality of a woman being confined to cooking and cleaning either. That mentality is somewhat "off". Generally, most women understand gender roles and would do what they taught by their parents to do. A man however shouldn't take the piss. Nothing is wrong with helping out every once in a while. You both live in the said house together and it takes two to keep it clean.

full depth:

well plat's berra than u! she's trained !
but U, AMAKA, U sound like someone who passed thru the training of ANIMALS,
Nonsense,

insulting people isnt helping your case

funkybaby:



include your return address, so he can send it back to you unopened !  

naaaa he will take it, I shaped it personally, with 34DD's and a huge applebottom,
you're welcome Sauron

@Platinumnk,
I thank God naija is different. When i see the way western women treat their husbands all in the name of love, i weep.
They are never satisfied(oliver twist)
They always want some more even when you have nothing else to offer. They expect their relationship/marriage to be the exact way it was when it started. But the truth is, there'll be changes from both sides.
You and Amaka should never marry a Naija man home or abroad cos your marriage won't last.

sauron
nor mind this one, i nor no where im come from?

cantell:

@Platinumnk,
I thank God naija is different. When i see the way western women treat their husbands all in the name of love, i weep.
They are never satisfied(oliver twist)
They always want some more even when you have nothing else to offer. They expect their relationship/marriage to be the exact way it was when it started. But the truth is, there'll be changes from both sides.
You and Amaka should never marry a Naija man home or abroad cos your marriage won't last.

You are a Real man indeed, Bless u my broda !
more blessing upon u my guy,

cantell:

@Platinumnk,
I thank God naija is different. When i see the way western women treat their husbands all in the name of love, i weep.
They are never satisfied(oliver twist)
They always want some more even when you have nothing else to offer. They expect their relationship/marriage to be the exact way it was when it started. But the truth is, there'll be changes from both sides.
You and Amaka should never marry a Naija man home or abroad cos your marriage won't last.

lolol!!!
i just wont marry a naija guy with this kind of backwards mentality.

~Sauron~:

Go and siddon somewhere.

Who was doing it when the woman was in her father's house?
These chics serve their male siblings(young/old) but when it's time to do the same to their partners, they bring this annoying western attitude.
Y'all are Africans. . . . . . .No matter what you say, you are still an African.

Who was doing it before the woman arrived? Weren't you the one cleaning your house before she came forth? No one is trying to be "western" here . I haven't condoned her demanding attitude BUT you cannot live in a house with a spouse who you claim to love and NOT help her out every once in a while. She cannot possibly cook, clean, look after the kids if you have one and then be this big cat in bed all at once. It pays to change our attitude towards house chores and helping out. A happy wife makes a happy home. Surely she doesn't "demand" things to get done but simply reaching out and doing the dishes or hovering the floor goes a long way. Some men here understand that.

~Sauron~:

Go and siddon somewhere.

Who was doing it when the woman was in her father's house?
These chics serve their male siblings(young/old) but when it's time to do the same to their partners, they bring this annoying western attitude.
Y'all are Africans. . . . . . .No matter what you say, you are still an African.


The Customs won't let such through our borders.
We don't condone fetishism like you Yankees.

Sauron, my brother washes dishes and helps clean around the house.
And you need to allow it through customs,  maybe you Londeners wont be so stiff-necked

THE-AMAKA:

lolol!!!
i just wont marry a naija guy with this kind of backwards mentality.

U just one FAT-LAZY-WOMAN.
thats it, laziness runs in your blood.
just pray u dont go thru 6 or 7 divorce b4 u are 38yrs

chika98:

Who was doing it before the woman arrived? Weren't you the one cleaning your house before she came forth? No one is trying to be "western" here . I haven't condoned her demanding attitude BUT you cannot live in a house with a spouse who you claim to love and NOT help her out every once in a while. She cannot possibly cook, clean, look after the kids if you have one and then be this big cat in bed all at once.

No one is saying a man should not help out. . . . .But there are certain chores i will not do.
Washing, cleaning are chores known to women. There other stuffs that are more energy-sapping reserved for me.
Installation of huge gadgets in the house is men's speciality not knowing the brand of fairies that washes well.

It pays to change our attitude towards house chores and helping out. A happy wife makes a happy home. Surely she doesn't "demand" things to get done but simply reaching out and doing the dishes or hovering the floor goes a long way. Some men here understand that.

Personally, i cannot tolerate a dirty environment so my partner has her work cut out.
I just don't see how a woman should DEMAND her partner must wash used plates. Did she skip "home training" lessons in her father's house.
God knows i will be calling her parents ASAP to straighten her out.

full depth:

sauron
nor mind this one,  i nor no where im come from?

Nor mind am. . . . . .
After completing her house-chores which includes washing her partner's socks, she comes here to GLOAT and form Lara Croft.

youre an idiot.
there is a difference between being lazy and someone expecting you to be their maid.
yeah ill do what i do, but there has to be a partnership. it cant just be me, me, me, all the time. is that what you call love? someone to wait on you hand and foot? thats not love. if you love your woman youll be happy to help out once in a while.
im not marrying him to become his housewife to only cook, clean, have sex, and have children.
thats rubbish.
what woman wants that?

cantell:

@Platinumnk,
I thank God naija is different. When i see the way western women treat their husbands all in the name of love, i weep.
They are never satisfied(oliver twist)
They always want some more even when you have nothing else to offer. They expect their relationship/marriage to be the exact way it was when it started. But the truth is, there'll be changes from both sides.
You and Amaka should never marry a Naija man home or abroad cos your marriage won't last.

Thank God? Well I guess you better marry and STAY in 9ja because once you travel abroad its over. You still havent explained the high occurance of divorcees in Newly Traveled Married Nigerians. Or can u can explain the prevalence of cheating in marriages, on both men and women sides?

Funny is my man is from home, and love me the way I am!.
Never Satisfied, All I ask for respect. Recognize that i do things for us, not for you or because you married me.
I am bad by myself

The 9ja men born abroad are better in tune.  

AMAKA  ooooooo

i pray u find a jobless maga as a husband ! AMEN !!

full depth:

AMAKA  ooooooo

i pray u find a jobless maga as a husband ! AMEN !!

Needless to say needfully so

@The Amaka,
That means 95% of Nigerian men have backwards mentality because very few would be in favour of ur arguement.
I believe you're still young, you still have a lot to learn.

~Sauron~:

No one is saying a man should not help out. . . . .But there are certain chores i will not do.
Washing, cleaning are chores known to women. There other stuffs that are more energy-sapping reserved for me.
Installation of huge gadgets in the house is men's speciality not knowing the brand of fairies that washes well.


Personally, i cannot tolerate a dirty environment so my partner has her work cut out.
I just don't see how a woman should DEMAND her partner must wash used plates. Did she skip "home training" lessons in her father's house.
God knows i will be calling her parents ASAP to straighten her out.

Nor mind am. . . . . .
After completing her house-chores which includes washing her partner's socks, she comes here to GLOAT and form Lara Croft.

LMAO! We are on the same page then.

let me find my oyibo husband.

chika98:

LMAO! We are on the same page then.

Are you sure?
Are you reaffirming you will hand-wash me boxers?

platinumnk:

Sauron, my brother washes dishes and helps clean around the house.

He doesn't know his rights yet. He will come back demanding some sorta compensation when he realises you have brain-washed him.

And you need to allow it through customs,  maybe you Londeners wont be so stiff-necked

We have got better sex-lives than y'all sexual deviants in America.
Rape rate wouldn't be so high in America if y'all are doing it the London way.

platinumnk:

Thank God? Well I guess you better marry and STAY in 9ja because once you travel abroad its over. You still havent explained the high occurance of divorcees in Newly Traveled Married Nigerians. Or can u can explain the prevalence of cheating in marriages, on both men and women sides?

Funny is my man is from home, and love me the way I am!.
Never Satisfied, All I ask for respect. Recognize that i do things for us, not for you or because you married me.
I am bad by myself

The 9ja men born abroad are better in tune.  

I will marry her and take her over there,  one who will respect me and i will respect her in return!! and not act like those whit-ass idiots that go about divorcing their husbands bc of WASHING PLATE,

full depth:

AMAKA  ooooooo

i pray u find a jobless maga as a husband ! AMEN !!

back to sender

@ Sauron- So a man fixes electronics ehh?

What if I told you I fix ALL the electronics in my house!!
I wire the cables, fix the computers, printers when they mess it up,
Fix the routers, change the sky light lightbulbs
Hammer Nails and all that? What is the role of a man then?

cantell:

@The Amaka,
That means 95% of Nigerian men have backwards mentality because very few would be in favour of your arguement.
I believe you're still young, you still have a lot to learn.

And Nigeria has a lot to learn.

platinum, i believe you joo, u are a well trained woman.
not like that other girl called AMAKA who wants an idiot she can always push around,
Nonsense!

THE-AMAKA:

let me find my oyibo husband.  

They are no better as they are devils in disguise. An oyibo man will "worship" the ground you walk on but kill you in your sleep over insurance money. Don't even dare.  

Sauron: Hand wash your boxers because I am Maytag abi?

chika98:

Sauron: Hand wash your boxers because I am Maytag abi?

It's all for LOVE.

platinumnk:

@ Sauron- So a man fixes electronics ehh?

What if I told you I fix ALL the electronics in my house!!
I wire the cables, fix the computers, printers when they mess it up,
Fix the routers, change the sky light lightbulbs
Hammer Nails and all that? What is the role of a man then?

U also mount Plasma screens on your wall by yourself, fix blown fuses, move heavy equipments?? etc
Check between your legs, i am sure you have a 3rd leg.

full depth:

platinum, i believe you joo, u are a well trained woman.
not like that other girl called AMAKA who wants an idiot she can always push around,
Nonsense!

who said that? dont put words in my mouth oooo.
nonsense.

chika98:

They are no better as they are devils in disguise. An oyibo man will "worship" the ground you walk on but kill you in your sleep over insurance money. Don't even dare.  

Sauron: Hand wash your boxers because I am Maytag abi?

LMAO!!! TRUE.
over insurance, good one.

AMAKA, nor be white maga u want?? idiot wey u fit dey use ur flat breast dey push around abi??
U go Find that ur Idiotic Maga !! AMEN !!
i don vex for u, just know that one!
u dey form whitie for here, for here again??
Mcchheeeeeeeeeeeewww, Nonsense!

Calm down. AMaka is just a child( no pun intended)
There is nothing to get blood pressure from. She is still growing.

lol whatever.
its not even about that.
someone to show respect, and not treat you like a doormat that is expected to cook and clean all the time.
what kind of relationship is that? i call that arrant nonsense!

chika98:

Calm down. AMaka is just a child( no pun intended)
There is nothing to get blood pressure from. She is still growing.

na wa oooooo 
when you say child you make it seem as if im 10 years old or something.
say something like she is younger, or something, not child.
abeg, what is child?

chika98:

Calm down. AMaka is just a child( no pun intended)
There is nothing to get blood pressure from. She is still growing.

Buwaahhhhaahahhahahahaaaaaaa
i thot as much !

~Sauron~:

It's all for LOVE.

U also mount Plasma screens on your wall by yourself, fix blown fuses, move heavy equipments?? etc
Check between your legs, i am sure you have a 3rd leg.

I checked, nothing
hhahah I have mowed our lawns since i was 12. When my mates were painting their nails. Whats wrong with plasma screens? Not hard, just might need another hand.
lol Why should you have to rely on someone when you can do it yourself?