Amaka go soon run now !!
see as baton dey change?? dem don open her black yansh for here,
platinum and funkybabe receives all the praises, while amaka runs off wif her tail in-between her yanshn !

@Sauron,
Did she skip home training lessons in her father's house?
Bros i bow for you. You pass me!

@platinumnk,
The naija women who travel abroad and divorce their husbands are just greedy and senseless. Why won't they divorce their husbands when they know that he'll be somewhere working and paying his hard earned money to her, all in the name of alimony?
Who wouldn't want that? A care-free life with nobody to tell you what to do.

full depth:

Amaka go soon run now !!
see as baton dey change?? dem don open her black yansh for here,
platinum and funkybabe receives all the praises, while amaka runs off wif her tail in-between her yanshn !

cause this has become boring.
it still doesnt change my opinion.
now kill yourself!

See my problem is I want someone that would acknowlege me for me,
and respect me and no hold some "gender" roles that I am supposed to play.


He might be better at making okro soup and I might be better at Setting up the surrond sound.  
But mine would understand that if I ask him something, its not to belittle him or order him , but its because
we are in this together, whatever we do.  

THE-AMAKA:

cause this has become boring.
it still doesnt change my opinion.
now kill yourself!

hehheeheheeeee, the babe don provoke ooo,
oya, nor vex abeg, i don gree for ur opinion.

cantell:

@Sauron,
Did she skip home training lessons in her father's house?
Bros i bow for you. You pass me!

@platinumnk,
The naija women who travel abroad and divorce their husbands are just greedy and senseless. Why won't they divorce their husbands when they know that he'll be somewhere working and paying his hard earned money to her, all in the name of alimony?
Who wouldn't want that? A care-free life with nobody to tell you what to do.

If I loved my husband, I wouldnt want to be without him.
Dont twist it as something everybody would want.
Nobody likes ordered around? it happens If my father say do this, I do it. Its not something to "like or not"
Nobody wants to be seen as a doormat, working 14 hours to maintain the mortage, and then coming home to cook and clean and then satisfy the men in bed.

u not serious.  

Marriage should be a blissfull union not a confinement.

These arguements are not realy rational,at all.Without fear of being labled as misogynist,I can't stand a woman with feminist Ideas or this so-called independent woman crap.This is one of the main reasons there are baby mamas and broken homes in the West.They call it freedom,who doesn't know that extreme freedom is a recipe for chaos,I know a lot of feminist will like to argue that Men And women are equal,however,we all know that's a hypocritical myth,men and women are not & can never be equal in any real sense.The reason why most marriages break up in the west is becoz most of the times the women live their traditional duty and waste their time competing with thier husbands,they spend the better part of their time arguing and defending their feminist stance,at the end they seek for a divorce in the name of 'incompatibility' only to move to the next r/ship and suffer thesame fate.This days,to the people in the west,there's nothing sacred about the institution of marriage,U find a woman saying I do to more than 3 different men only to still end up a baby mama,the results are half baked adults,overgrown kids with all the worst vices on earth.A feminist can continue to compete with any man she meets but a time will come she will ve to agree we re not equal,it doesn't matter what the white romantic,gentle man says or think,Fact is women and men are not equal neither is it natural to switch what's traditionally our responsibilities in any r/ship.

Please stop believing that Nigeria is better. as scary as its rape rates , please, our sins are just hidden.

platinumnk:

I checked, nothing
hhahah I have mowed our lawns since i was 12. When my mates were painting their nails.   Whats wrong with plasma screens? Not hard, just might need another hand.
lol Why should you have to rely on someone when you can do it yourself?  

Bonus points!!!

Not every woman is a tom-boy like you.

~Sauron~:

Bonus points!!!

Not every woman is a tom-boy like you.

Tom-boy? hahah i am very prissy! I just dont wait for help tis all

@Rhymz,
You're too much. You said it all!

@Platiunumnk,
You don hear?

some ladies here said that they want to mary a man that is in the same level with them. in that case the family will be a headless family if u mary a man that is in the same level with u as a woman. dos it mean that God who said from the beginning that man is made to be the head makes mistake or what? since every thing have changed in this new world now i think is now time man to sit down at home for woman to come and pay for there bride price and mary them and take them to there own house as well. so that ladies can be the head of the family. and i will like to be one of those lucky men that ladies will come and mary from my father house.

@Nwabuking5
Haha. In your dreams.

so you think paying bride price is buying a wife?  

my brother since every think has changed let woman come and mary me now.

nwabuking5:

my brother since every think has changed let woman come and mary me now.

funny.

look there is nothing in washing ur plates in ur own house but every thing have to go with respect not as if is how things is been done. woman dont have to tell there husband to do it as if is there duty to do them. but any man in his right sence will know when is time to help his wife at home when the time comes.

cantell:

@Rhymz,
You're too much. You said it all!

@Platiunumnk,
You don hear?

Hear what? Have u not read what I wrote? Nigerian Marriages are not better than United states one. There are very high cases of infidelity in nigeria and abroad.
Dont think because the figures are not there, doesnt mean it doesnt happen.
"Gender roles" doesnt guarantee a happy home, love and a deep understanding of each other does.
I respect my man and give him authority in as much as he respects me.

If it wasnt for him I wouldnt even worry about marriage!  

nwabuking5:

look there is nothing in washing your plates in your own house but every thing have to go with respect not as if is how things is been done. woman dont have to tell there husband to do it as if is there duty to do them. but any man in his right sence will know when is time to help his wife at home when the time comes.

Nobody is telling anyone anything, no one has a "ruling" right over me except my parents. Yes I give my husband respect and heed what he asks of me and if I'm not comfortable with it we will discuss it over.
Going one way doesnt mean its the right way.

every time we will keep talking about other countrys. do u know that the way we see the wite is not the way they are. for 8years now i have been in abroad i have been with many of them and worked with them as well there lives is not what we think they are. some of them know how to respect poeple more bether don we blacks

nwabuking5:

every time we will keep talking about other countrys. do u know that the way we see the wite is not the way they are. for 8years now i have been in abroad i have been with many of them and worked with them as well there lives is not what we think they are. some of them know how to respect poeple more bether don we blacks

can u rephrase that, I didnt quite understand. .

i dont have time for this tread anymore i want to go to sleep is very late here see u tomorrow.

the guy isnt making sense, he is tired ooooo.

nwabuking5:

i dont have time for this tread anymore i want to go to sleep is very late here see u tomorrow.

lol na by force to post? Go to bed

platinumnk from ur post all this while i see u dont have respect for anybody at all that is why u said u want a man u can be in the same level with so that when it is time for fite u willl forth him. when is time to wash both will wash. because both of u are in the same level now. good luck God will grant u ur RQ.

nwabuking5:

platinumnk from your post all this while i see u dont have respect for anybody at all that is why u said u want a man u can be in the same level with so that when it is time for fite u willl forth him. when is time to wash both will wash. because both of u are in the same level now. good luck God will grant u your RQ.

I never thought I would have to quote myself. but. . .

platinumnk:

Hear what? Have u not read what I wrote? Nigerian Marriages are not better than United states one. There are very high cases of infidelity in nigeria and abroad.
Dont think because the figures are not there, doesnt mean it doesnt happen.
"Gender roles" doesnt guarantee a happy home, love and a deep understanding of each other does.
I respect my man and give him authority in as much as he respects me.
If it wasnt for him I wouldnt even worry about marriage!
Nobody is telling anyone anything, no one has a "ruling" right over me except my parents. Yes I give my husband respect and heed what he asks of me and if I'm not comfortable with it we will discuss it over.
Going one way doesnt mean its the right way.

Please read the bolded parts very throughly. There is no special recipe for a good marriage.

ok, im back !!
AMAKA & PLATI, what have i missed??

THE-AMAKA:

the guy isnt making sense, he is tired ooooo.

Amaka, please i beg of u, Try to have some respect for Men,
it will really help u a whole lot ! Both in ur spiritual life and ur relationship.

youre so full of bullshit now.
so because i said he isnt making sense? how is that showing no respect for men?
if a woman said it i would have said the same exact thing.
so youre telling me men can say anyhow to women, but i cant even tell this guy he isnt making sense?
WE ARE PAST THE ENGLIGHTMENT, ITS TIME YOU WAKE UP!!!

@Platinumnk,
I don't seem to understand you anymore. You should get some rest. All this fighting and bickering is not good for ur system. Allow amaka to take over. She knows best(I mean she's got the strength to fight!)

THE-AMAKA:

youre so full of bullshit now.

Here u go again !!!
Amaka!! Amaka!! Amaka !! how many times i call u??
whats ur problem? i think u need to see a shrink

cantell:

Allow amaka to take over. She knows best(I mean she's got the strength to fight!)

Thats just what im talking about here,
people are seeing the kind of character this kid(AMAKA) is showing,
what kind of upbringing does this girl have sef?? eh?
Mcheeeeeeeeewww,

cantell:

@Platinumnk,
I don't seem to understand you anymore. You should get some rest. All this fighting and bickering is not good for your system. Allow amaka to take over. She knows best(I mean she's got the strength to fight!)

what is so hard to understand?