January 5, 2007
Culled from Nanka.Org

http://www.nanka.org/Bunmi.html

sorry but this topic is full of misconceptions, mis information, stereotypes etc

I disagree with many point but can't be bothered to go into it, no doubt our resident racists will soon come and change the topic. Till then i will say not all Nigerian men treat foreign women better, not all white or foreign women are agreeable and so loving. Ppl have different traits simple. what would you say about the many Nigerian men who treat their Nigerian women as queens? well many do contrary to the misconceptions you have laid out.

when will people start taking ppl on an individual basis instead of this collective bullshyte

U actually read that?

had to give him a chance Radiant to see before commenting lol, plus i dont know the fella. Just incase of next time, if he churns out more stuff like this then i wont be reading no more, atleast after reading it once i get a feel . Lmao i dont even know what the fuk i am on about any more, NL this plcae is fantastic

People are loosing it at a very fast pace, I tell u

yep , come on Rad jump in the queue right behind me lol pls lets leave this thread

Bye to y'all in advance. . . _{*Jumps the train to another thread*}

Ultimately its their choice of who they want to be and i pretty much could care less if a Nigerian man wants a white woman.

Now men treat women depending on the way they behave, white women would not take crap from any man, she could walk out of her marriage anytime she is not happy, but Nigerian women who were brought up to value marriage stay in a loveless marriage which makes the man treat her worse. i mean forgive us for trying to give you your respect.

Nigerian women were brought up to think the husband is always right and controls the marriage, but from what i have seen over here white women control their marriages, the guy cannot do anything without his wife's consent. Nigerian women are just too submisive, i think if they could stand up for themselves one in a while, the man is gonna respect them. we don't need to take shit from him just because he is the man, we are women, we need to be treated better especially by our men.

another point i will through out there is the CONTROL issue, Nigerian men are use to being in control, so when they meet a white woman who also wants to exercise some control too, they no doubt even up the stakes claiming they are equal partners, but with a Nigerian woman all they do is try to control her just because she understand or whatever.

Do we really? I thought i treat all women the same regardless of race or color?

I'm an equal opportunity lover. I don't discriminate against any woman based on her race, religion, color, creed, age or national origin.

There is a God-- i thought sensible men were extinct on Nairaland . Hallelujay

lol david you are so full of shit

ima1:

Now men treat women depending on the way they behave, white women would not take crap from any man, she could walk out of her marriage anytime she is not happy, but Nigerian women who were brought up to value marriage stay in a loveless marriage which makes the man treat her worse. i mean forgive us for trying to give you your respect.

Nigerian women were brought up to think the husband is always right and controls the marriage, but from what i have seen over here white women control their marriages, the guy cannot do anything without his wife's consent. Nigerian women are just too submisive, i think if they could stand up for themselves one in a while, the man is going to respect them. we don't need to take shit from him just because he is the man, we are women, we need to be treated better especially by our men.

another point i will through out there is the CONTROL issue, Nigerian men are use to being in control, so when they meet a white woman who also wants to exercise some control too, they no doubt even up the stakes claiming they are equal partners, but with a Nigerian woman all they do is try to control her just because she understand or whatever.

and I completely agree with this statement. Good thing Im not into being controlled.

ThiefOfHearts:

lol david you are so full of shit

not all of them do

funny.

na mumu mango do like dat
na naija women i dey treat well. foreign women na for yanshing

Hmm . . . .speechless for a while,but i try! help i really-really tried. let me try to sing,yes i can sing-§ingin but can you hear me? listen carefully you might here me la-la do-do is like you can hear me now but don't hate just concentrate,is your name kate? eat the food but dont lick the plate, dont suffocate,just contemplate.

While i won't agree all nigerian men treat foriegn women better. I do know that local nigerian guys who happen to date white women (young or aged) and can't believe their luck, treat them better. Few weeks ago i saw this white lady, yelling at her black boyfriend (he looked nigerian), even hitting him with her bag on the street, and all he could do was look sheepish and try to explain. If na naija babe, he for woz her.

that's cos most Nigerian girls are stupid.

Wish he would have tried hitting the white girl

Why don't you visit them when the guy get all him papers! Nigerian guys don't take shit from nobody! they simply chill to get their stuff together after that, one slap from the woman he's on his way to court for divorce!

Topics like this make me think some of our 9ja girls have chicken brain! Have you ask yourself why these guys still go back to naija woman at the end if the foreign women are that better? Some of you can't simply be pleased no matter what! shame! big shame!!

@Topic

Yes they do--because that religious and cultural hog wash used on Nigerian woman will not fly.  They gatz no choice but to come up with other strategies!

ThiefOfHearts:

that's because most Nigerian girls are stupid.

Wish he would have tried hitting the white girl

You are so right! Most Nigerian girls are so timid and stupid. Not to mention DESPARATE as hell to hook up with any loser that moves around town in the almighty name of marriage!

@offtopic

almondjoy Are you an EDO GIRL ?
just curious

niceuzor:

@offtopic

almondjoy Are you an EDO GIRL ?
just curious

Of course, a very strong one--not one ot those timid ones with low self-esteem at all. But you can add a little Igbo and Yoruba tinge in the cocktail. Any problem?

No problem oh, is just that i admire your style in this forum!

niceuzor:

No problem oh, is just that i admire your style in this forum!

she has her share of lovers and haters
almond how those fine pikins them?

I Ask you ?

nwando:

she has her share of lovers and haters
almond how those fine pikins them?

My dear sister nwando, we are fine oh. Having a swell vacation.  2008 will be better by God's grace--less work.

No let cold catch our little guy oh!


@niceuzor

awwwwwwwwwwwwwww! thanks!  Happy Holidays.

niceuzor:

I Ask you ?

Haba?  Na fight?

sorry i no even know say na your friend, abi dey think say na some NL tatafo, "Akproko Associate"

BTW:
Woye ?

nwando pass friend sef.  Na ma sister oh.

niceuzor:

sorry i no even know say na your friend, abi dey think say na some Nairaland tatafo, "Akproko Associate"

BTW:
Woye ?

Oyeseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!