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Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 9:43am On Mar 25, 2017 |
cyril700:Hided? hhehehehahahajajaaaahhahahahhahahahaaaaa 3 Likes |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by MansaMoussa: 9:43am On Mar 25, 2017 |
As a Doctor, I would rather marry an "After 1" than the Infanticidal Murderers who parade themselves as Marriageable materials out there....Prove yourself and I will not only take care of you, but also the child..Wetin dey this world? 2 Likes |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Cutehector(m): 9:44am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Nma27:lmao.. Marry one na |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by delishpot: 9:46am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Tell them as soon as they ask for a romantic date. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by golddust6000(m): 9:46am On Mar 25, 2017 |
motherfucker:bro their is nothing about discrimination here, alot of men are running from responsibility especially if the single mother has nothing doing. Guy nobody wan carry another person cross. Asuming or if she is a rich girl, marriege na one hand for her, even me i live in abroad for almost 1 decade single mothers wey dey my area fit reach population of local government, i cant even sleep with them not to talk of getting married to them. Its all about personal thing bro. Dont blame ppl on what they cannot do. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 9:46am On Mar 25, 2017 |
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Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by chukagates(m): 9:47am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Dyt:they way u ladies rant emotionally can be very annoying...so because some guys cant marry a baby mama they are "cheap and silly"?? EVERY BODY HAS TASTE AND CHOICE THE SAME WAY YOU CANT MARRY A BROKE GUY BECOS OF YOUR TASTE AND CHOICE IS THE SAME WAY SOME MEN CANT MARRY A BABY MAMA...Y'ALL SHOULD DEAL WITH IT!!EVERYBODY GOT TASTE!!!! |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:48am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Nma27:Nobody is above mistake... I'm sure he meant "hid". What is expected of you is to correct and not mock him because nobody is infallible! 1 Like |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Laredojohn(m): 9:49am On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22:You having a child shouldn't be a problem an you don't have to deny your child all because of a man...the person that will love you with your child and stay with you will definitely come, o thing you need to do more even if your are doing it is is to develop yourself, and never deny your child for any reason, I soo much appreciate single mum's than, soo called slay queens who have done multiple abortions...the mere fact you kept the child shows you value the importance of a child. Also never feel shy to discuss circumstances that lead to your child bearing with a man who shows seriousness to have you...all the best, you slay and you are celebrated 1 Like |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by EBBari(m): 9:49am On Mar 25, 2017 |
At first i realise time is not on ur side but for a situation that require a high level of patience for happiness to be sustained i think you take it slow with the men who comes around you for a relationship. Already having a kid is inevitably a thing of joy but most men won't find it convenient fathering a child not diaz so i will advise when you go into any relationship henceforth; 1. You ensure that you totally honest about your story to him even if other boys(not men) have disappointed u despite doin so, as most men(not boys) c it as virteous and loyalty 2. You ascertain that the relationship will end up so serious, to the point of marriage i mean by maybe being confident his not jxt after sex alone buh the care is obvious or don't go further or you risk anoda series of hrt brk. 3. You study his attitude around your child and ensure your child loves him and gives him that respect that will make the man reciprocate his love wtawt any objection. 4. Realize you not prefect and he is not either. 5. Make him realise you want more commitment than bf and gf by discussing tns lik his family with him and how ud want to meet dm probably hvn contact with them and of course highlightn how you will love to carry his own baby and after the wedding what you fo to him during d honey moon . In life challenges are inevitable hence dont stop tryn to overcome them to achieve ur goal or u as good as not breathn anymore. 1 Like |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Dexema(m): 9:49am On Mar 25, 2017 |
JustinSlayer69:it can be very discouraging for a man still seeking love and romance to start having to gain a child's permission to love his wife, I hope she brought up that child well cos that could be a serious source of problem. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by chukagates(m): 9:51am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Dyt:they way u ladies rant emotionally can be very annoying...so because some guys cant marry a baby mama they are "cheap and silly"?? EVERY BODY HAS TASTE AND CHOICE THE SAME WAY YOU CANT MARRY A BROKE GUY BECOS OF YOUR TASTE AND CHOICE IS THE SAME WAY SOME MEN CANT MARRY A BABY MAMA...Y'ALL SHOULD DEAL WITH IT!!EVERYBODY GOT TASTE and Standard!!!! |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Collins0609(m): 9:51am On Mar 25, 2017 |
It has noting to b been a boy or man.i dont like this,is dat i dont like dis,some men marry single mothers,others dont.she must have now or in d past been with a guy who is ready to marry her with her baby daughter but d guy does not measure up to her or she simply dont like him nor d guy do not make her light up with butterflies.marriage is not a compromise.marry a single mother can help one have a better home than marrying an abortionist.dat others does not put up with something does not make them a child.after all she is at fault by getting pregnant.y dont she simply marry her baby daddy or choose to wait for a man dat will accept her.women will like a man to marry her with her flaw and must put up with her attitude,while no lady want to marry a struggling guy or date a guy that other lady dont feel attractive,later dey claim dat men cheat on them TundeHashim: |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by cyril700(m): 9:51am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Nma27:my sister I was confused at that juncture , Is it hid or hide. past tense of hide is what biko? |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by roeb1987(m): 9:51am On Mar 25, 2017 |
No, don't try denying ur daughter because of guys! i believe they're leaving u because they're not the right guy/man u need. ur honesty will surely get u the kind of man u need. remember God's time is the best!! |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 9:52am On Mar 25, 2017 |
enshi:What of your dp addicted gf? anyway the op has enough friends. She needs a good husband. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by golddust6000(m): 9:53am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Nma27:she entagle me o. As i type she is even chatting with me now, but i'm fourty thousand km away from her. When i came to nigeria she came to visit me in my hotel room, she very beautiful, she is a cabonecopy of stephanie okereke, but her beauty no move me at all. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Donjazzy12(m): 9:53am On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22:OK a quick one. No Morden guy will leave because of your baby. They probably left because if other things. Maybe your attitude. Be honest, what is wrong with your attitude? |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 9:54am On Mar 25, 2017 |
TonyeBarcanista:Lol I'm sure he knows. The mistake cracked me up though |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Akinaukwa: 9:55am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Ops, why break your head over hit and runs. A responsible and true loving man is never measured by his marriage to a virgin. You worry over men who denied pregnancies, suggested and aided abortions and dont possess the ability to sustain future love and shoulder responsibilities. You have nothing to worry about my dear. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Jerrypolo(m): 9:55am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Lying about your Child or Spouse is not the best option. It didn't work for TTT of Big Brother Naija. Stay true to yourself, let love come to you, do not go in search of it. Only then will u find true love. Happy weekend y'all. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 9:56am On Mar 25, 2017 |
cyril700:Lol... u cute |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by mamatwiny(f): 9:56am On Mar 25, 2017 |
I had a cousin/close friend with almost same issue. Hers is worse cos she married, gave birth to a son, then left the marriage. She said she was deceived. When she had similar issue cos she was married and even wedded+ after one, she sent the baby boy back to the fathers family. She fell in love with another guy and didn't tell the guy.When the guy proposed, she told the guy part of the story, but not full. D guy told her he is already in love and can't go back. Immediately the guy came for introduction, the girl took in for him sharp sharp. By the time d guy got the indept jist, he couldn't go back cos she was already carrying the baby. They are happily married with 3 kids. The babe also checks on the first son from time to time. Nb- she also wedded the 2nd guy in church....so I attended both her first and 2nd wedding... 1 Like |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 9:57am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Cutehector:Naaaa... |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Cutehector(m): 9:57am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Nma27:why? |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by cyril700(m): 9:57am On Mar 25, 2017 |
golddust6000:my brother we r in this together mine even moved into my apartment , it took wisdom for me to be able to send her out. I don't Want her to feel bad too and think m leaving coz of d child. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by dapsoneh: 9:58am On Mar 25, 2017 |
modelmike7:she neither said 'daughter or Son' so. Why did u say she shouldn't deny her? Or do u knoow her |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Iyowuski: 9:58am On Mar 25, 2017 |
How old are you? |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Koleman(m): 9:58am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Nutase:hahaha u are wicked! kai. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by abescom: 9:58am On Mar 25, 2017 |
You don't need guys who can't cope with the thought that you are a single mother. A real man does judge others based on their past. The day my wife told me her past I was shocked but we are married, our second year and have a child. Wait till a real man comes around. And don't blame yourself for what has happened, it is their problem not yours. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by enshi(m): 9:59am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Nma27: Sexy... I thought had each other 's handle.. You should have asked in private thou... Well we have been having issues caused by that addiction and it is lingering.... But sincerely Nma27, you and i should be ashamed of our selves that we aint Friends yet on whatsapp or fb... We are too friendly to be meeting just here.. My thought sha |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:00am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Nma27:I know but subjecting him to ridicule is off it 1 Like |
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