Kenny_G:

r u just being deliberately argumentative? where did it say i hold such views? whether u like it or not, the woman does not marry the man its the other way round. so even if u convince urselves that most men r ugly that is scant consolation becos the ugly man has better chance of pulling than the "ugly" woman

Kenny_G:

r u just being deliberately argumentative? where did it say i hold such views? whether u like it or not, the woman does not marry the man its the other way round. so even if u convince urselves that most men r ugly that is scant consolation becos the ugly man has better chance of pulling than the "ugly" woman

lovemoi2:

THATS THE VIEW SHE WAS TALKING ABOUT
generalization, we(men or women from africa) are already victims of it

Kenny_G:

this unfortunately is an age long view that has nothing to do with africa/black race,

lovemoi2:

keep deceiving yourself

lovemoi2:

when u guys say  9ja women are ugly, u guys are also see as ugly too to other races

davidylan:

the difference however is that the nigerian woman is doubly disadvantaged . . . female and ugly (read black).

A nigerian man (considered ugly or not) will still have his pick of whichever woman catches his fancy.

lovemoi2:

r u kidding, pick whichever

davidylan:

you may not like it . . . but its the fact. There are literarily billions of women to choose from. You on the other hand are basically limited to whoever decides to approach you. Sucks but true.

davidylan:

you may not like it . . . but its the fact. There are literarily billions of women to choose from. You on the other hand are basically limited to whoever decides to approach you. Sucks but true.

4 Play:

These girls don't get it, looks matter less to men than to women.

Besides, it's men that make most of the approaches, not women, certainly not Naija women. The woman is only as good as the men that approach her. If Naija women are deemed ugly, they would be bottom of the list for preferred choices of women. That's a f*cked up position to be in.

lovemoi2:

which women are u talking about
what are u talking about, this is really sad,  i am only quarter african, but even though pple dont see me as african i always say i am nigerian, it is really pathetic that u would say something like this on a public forum

u should be ashamed really, all the insults to women,
and men in nigeria saying they can have any woman is just really funny sometimes
am still wondering which women

lovemoi2:

i am so sick of some naija men opening thier big mouths and insulting naija women on NL

its not like u guys are all that either so buger off

iyapo_ny:

@ lovemoi2

i can totally understand where you are coming from (even though im a nigerian man who is not ugly lol). it is sickening to see just how comfortable my fellow nigerian men are with putting down our own women. some will gladly go out of their way to brag about some oyinbo woman they banged after going to a club, but when you ask about the naija chicks, they say they are frigid, or not polished, or plainly not as attractive. sometimes i wonder to myself, how many of these so called men will say these things in front of their nigerian mothers, grandmothers, aunts, and sisters? it is really a shame. go to a white american forum, or an indian forum and you will be hard pressed to see them degrade their women as much as some guys here do.

iyapo_ny:

@ lovemoi2

i can totally understand where you are coming from (even though im a nigerian man who is not ugly lol). it is sickening to see just how comfortable my fellow nigerian men are with putting down our own women. some will gladly go out of their way to brag about some oyinbo woman they banged after going to a club, but when you ask about the naija chicks, they say they are frigid, or not polished, or plainly not as attractive. sometimes i wonder to myself, how many of these so called men will say these things in front of their nigerian mothers, grandmothers, aunts, and sisters? it is really a shame. go to a white american forum, or an indian forum and you will be hard pressed to see them degrade their women as much as some guys here do.

I have seen cases of worwor naija women committing suicide out of desperation for having no man to approach them. Tough luck for women. Even Seal, as he worwor reach, still has the best of the best of pretty women flocking around him.

oyinda.:

not another one of these topics again!?!?

why are u making things up?lol even the ugliest black woman always have pigsmen approach them. upon that, where have u heard a case of a naija woman commiting suicide over a man. your a fraud i must say 
you mention Seal but the same applies to women. look at Grace Jones, Alek Wek or Serena Williams. these are "ugly" to most black men too but they have successful rich american/european men around them.

FL Gators:

rotflmao @ Naija women committing suicide because of Naija men

hahahhaha rotflmao, Never heard that one before.

ravenzord:

@ Chi: How far,how was our Xmas? Where them gifts at?

ravenzord:

@ Chi: U sent it thru UPS? Nna mehn U bleep up O! UPS doesn't get 2 my part of the slums. Wasn't there anybody U knew coming 2 Naija,that woulda been safer (as long as it wasn't a bomb that sounds like a balloon.
BTW what are U doing at home on a Boxing day nyt? Shouldn't U be out partying,seeing as U're now a big almost-legal chick?