Mznaett:


I hate blame games.

Well the boss made an offer , she accepted, so it's easy to blame, if she were forced with a gun now that's something but it's not a big deal anyway most marriages aren't meant to last

bilulu:

pls wats samsu? apart from trams which oda drugs pls n how do dey work

LOL you don't know Samsu? Wtf, if you are on Instagram or snapchat.. Go follow tbklac or search on Google.. Samsu oil is not drug..

Mznaett:


Nonsense?
I doubt. I thought the boss in question was a MAN? Who should have known better?
Why do guys chosed to crucify the woman and not the man? Why not crucify both of them same way?

A lion stays quietly in his den and you went to touch him. If he eats you up, who should we blame? The lion or the idiotic fool of a woman that made herself a willing prey?

If you aren't careful ma'am, your feminism stances may make you look unreasonable with your comments

Max24:

You are recommending another Viagra. Only yesterday someone died from Viagra induced foursome sex. We will hold u responsible if anything happens due to ur advice.

LOL bro this is not foursome Sex.. It's between spouses.. You can use Samsu moderately and get fantastic result.. Google it and thank me later

Ab025:
A married woman who would offer sex to her boss for money is not worth keeping.

God bless you richly boss.

my brother you are not meeting your wife needs that why she is fcking outside just for money

Noblepreneur:
I am wondering, seems I am the only one who saw the part "My wife was begging her boss for money". Op,are you presently broke? For your wife to have gone that far in her begging paints a picture that she has been managing for a long while (Don't forget, I am not in support of infidelity).

Make more money OP and avoid discussing family matter in a Forum.

And did you also miss the part that says she is a Federal Government staff? The woman lacks contentment and she is also an adultress....unfortunately, that's the cross of the OP. For a flirting married woman with children and a living husband....hia....only Jesus o!

burticious:

LOL you don't know Samsu? Wtf, if you are on Instagram or snapchat.. Go follow tbklac or search on Google.. Samsu oil is not drug..

can u enlighten me more....

Mznaett:
@Vislabraye,read @Freewoman's comment and tell me what you think.
Morning.

Every damn d!ck crucifying the op's wife while the boss is seen as a saint?
I pity women

no 1 is seeing the man as a saint. and didnt u see the part where the woman was begging the boss for money

1. Has your wife asked you for money, and what were the reasons she asked for money?
2. If she asked you for money, what was your response?
3. Did you feel that the reasons she asked for the money, was serious or trivial?
4. No matter the answers to 1-3. Call her and ask her to tell you the truth, promise to forgive her, regardless but that you just need to know her own side of the story.
5. Don't have sex with her till a month later, take her to the hospital - for HIV/AIDS test and Pregnancy test.
6. If she slept with her boss, ask her to resign the job, as part of the conditions for forgiveness.

Ogoh123:
Dear NLs,
Good day all. I need your immediate advise on an issue. I have been suspecting my wife lately. This is someone I have never suspected since we got married since 2010. We have 2 kids. My wife actually works in one of the government agencies.

I have never suspected my wife but in recent times I'm beginning to doubt my wife. I called to have a conversation with her which she took personal and led to serious fight between us.

The main issue is this. I recently saw a screenmunched picture of whatsapp conversation between my wife and her boss in which my wife was asking for money from her boss and that if he gave her the money she would have sex with him. Just to corroborate this point, I had a laptop that I was not using, recently I logged on to it and I saw my wife's google search on the following: " My regrets after having sex with my boss", "how to relate with my boss after slepping with him"

Fellow Nairalanders, I'm very devastated but I need your advise on how to handle this with her.

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Jagabanmonerry:
Bros, seriously dat one tin I know in life I can't live with a cheating wife because am sure I can't never b happy with her for d rest of my life.

Just same with me... I won't ever be happy with her again.... I just pray we get the one for us... I can't bear it

Go and pray brother, you will get instructions. Don't act from outside influence. Act from within you. It's a stage you should overcome.







Overcome evil with good

Mznaett:
@Vislabraye,read @Freewoman's comment and tell me what you think.
Morning.

Every damn d!ck crucifying the op's wife while the boss is seen as a saint?
I pity women

. I'm just reading this comment and I don't know whether to laugh, cry, shout or smh ! NL breeds so many garbages. Can you imagine that nonsense

I would send her away if I were you

Angeleyez0811:

no 1 is seeing the man as a saint. and didnt u see the part where the woman was begging the boss for money

But that lady's advice is disastrous..

nicko28:
I have no answer for u and I don't know what u mean by justifies a cheating wife, just because she/he cheated doesn't mean she/he have no respect or love feeling for each other. Marriage is tough and is not for......

are u serious ? So u can cheat on a Man u love ? Hmm

The best way to handle this is to call both your so called wife and her boss together. Pray for them and bless their union. It sound odd but that is the only way to forgive, forget and give your soul an everlasting peace.

[Yes with a resonlable reason. What do u know about love? Cheating doesn't mean u don't love ur man or woman

are u serious ? So u can cheat on a Man u love ? Hmm[/quote]

Too bad. Sex for money? Doesn't she earn enough or the Op lags in his duties to provide for her? Or just plain greed... I think the Op should confront her with his suspicions.

Guy either stay in the marriage or leave be a man and handle your sh.it stop acting like a woman and settle this issue yourself

Ogoh123:
Dear NLs,
Good day all. I need your immediate advise on an issue. I have been suspecting my wife lately. This is someone I have never suspected since we got married since 2010. We have 2 kids. My wife actually works in one of the government agencies.

I have never suspected my wife but in recent times I'm beginning to doubt my wife. I called to have a conversation with her which she took personal and led to serious fight between us.

The main issue is this. I recently saw a screenmunched picture of whatsapp conversation between my wife and her boss in which my wife was asking for money from her boss and that if he gave her the money she would have sex with him. Just to corroborate this point, I had a laptop that I was not using, recently I logged on to it and I saw my wife's google search on the following: " My regrets after having sex with my boss", "how to relate with my boss after slepping with him"

Fellow Nairalanders, I'm very devastated but I need your advise on how to handle this with her.

..painful

There are moments an individual spirit comes down that he/she can do anything which might be regretted later or even carry on with it and become champion in the game, but now YOU still have the opportunity to talk her out of it, cos YOU guys are supposed to be there for each other in times like this,pls you have to be strong at this moment and get her out of it, good luck!!

Why worry? You can't vigilante a woman. Overlook what you saw and lookout for the hardcore evidence, the apply the knife to your association with her. If you confront her, you immediately alert her of her errors and women learn pretty fast. You may never have a privileged oppurtunity to grasp her by the wrist, so chill up and do what's important. Else, she'll take you for a long ride, as long or even longer than the president's overseas trip

Divorce her.. If you have not done a thing like that before.

Check if you are the real father of your kids

hmmm...some men are to pathetic sha..sorry to say but obviously i dont think its possible to live with a woman you dont trust.infact to cut the long story short...confirm she has done what you saifd and if so, just send her packing ..

which advise do you needs again mumu.which advise do you needs again mumu.which advise do you needs again mumu.

Ab025:
A married woman who would offer sex to her boss for money is not worth keeping.

Finally, someone with a lot of sense.

Tocy self don get babe