wisepluto:
Nice comment, but after all these...I must divorce. I can't tolerate a cheating partner. NEVER!!!! Even God stands against such shameful act.

Your kids will be the one to suffer for it then

You either Continue sharing her with her boss and the other People you might not know and hope she eventually change (they hardly change though) or End what is left of the Marriage and save your self from what ever she might end up infecting you with.

Ogoh123:
Dear NLs,
Good day all. I need your immediate advise on an issue. I have been suspecting my wife lately. This is someone I have never suspected since we got married since 2010. We have 2 kids. My wife actually works in one of the government agencies.

I have never suspected my wife but in recent times I'm beginning to doubt my wife. I called to have a conversation with her which she took personal and led to serious fight between us.

The main issue is this. I recently saw a screenmunched picture of whatsapp conversation between my wife and her boss in which my wife was asking for money from her boss and that if he gave her the money she would have sex with him. Just to corroborate this point, I had a laptop that I was not using, recently I logged on to it and I saw my wife's google search on the following: " My regrets after having sex with my boss", "how to relate with my boss after slepping with him"

Fellow Nairalanders, I'm very devastated but I need your advise on how to handle this with her.

Charly68:
Na waa for you ooo,why offering a piece of advise that you yourself aren't ready to take ?

I should advise him to leave his wife?
Why not help me do that bruh

Try to call her attention on what she is doing if she refuses to change, issue her a certificate of divorce .

Guy no hope for u oh cos she has been in d game and she will win u with pretence..

So many ladies married are into the game its before men were champions now if u c d number of married ladies playing did game u will not even want to marry again..

I know a guy DAT Bleep 2married ladies deaconess in church...

The same guy bleeps 3married ladies in his neighborhood

Some come just for sucking complaining husband no dey try..

I have personal met many whose legs are constantly itching for dick..

Unfortunately you will hardly catch dem as a busy man.

The only option u have us if u are 100% convinced she is into d game....

1. Don't sleep with here again.

2. Don't eat her food again.

3. Start filing for divorce...

I understand how it feels wen u know ur wife is cheating on u cos of reason like money.,..It can make u die slowly..

The ball is in ur court.......

NubiLove:
she has already gotten f*cked by her boss.

Chai! Igodomigodo.

I will end the marriage, FAST.

Adultery is a valid ground for divorce even in Christianity. And worse when the motive is greed and the action deliberate.

You may be different though, but personally as a husband, I CANNOT see eye to eye with a KNOWN cheating wife.

I'm of the view that the life of the husband and the future of the children are BOTH at risk if they all continue to live togethet with a cheating wife and mother. Thus NO AMOUNT OF REMORSE will remedy the situation for a guy like me.

But it's your call.

Ogoh123:
Dear NLs,
Good day all. I need your immediate advise on an issue. I have been suspecting my wife lately. This is someone I have never suspected since we got married since 2010. We have 2 kids. My wife actually works in one of the government agencies.

I have never suspected my wife but in recent times I'm beginning to doubt my wife. I called to have a conversation with her which she took personal and led to serious fight between us.

The main issue is this. I recently saw a screenmunched picture of whatsapp conversation between my wife and her boss in which my wife was asking for money from her boss and that if he gave her the money she would have sex with him. Just to corroborate this point, I had a laptop that I was not using, recently I logged on to it and I saw my wife's google search on the following: " My regrets after having sex with my boss", "how to relate with my boss after slepping with him"

Fellow Nairalanders, I'm very devastated but I need your advise on how to handle this with her.

Heavance:
Don't seek marital advice from people who can't keep ordinary girlfriend.
There are bunch of immature people here

you are soo right

achieverme:


freewoman was saying nonsense, like she has comprehension problem. See the way she was putting the blame on the boss as of it wasn't the woman who asked for money in exchange for sex.

Nonsense?
I doubt. I thought the boss in question was a MAN? Who should have known better?
Why do guys chosed to crucify the woman and not the man? Why not crucify both of them same way?

It is unfortunate her punany has been bastardized on the utter of financial sacrifice, take heart and move on because in as much they still remain in the same office the sexual escapade will continue.. .ndo!

browniex:
a virtuous woman does not cheat on her husband when he is broke,she hustles hard to support the husband, a bad wife will still sleep with another man even when the husband is wealthy, she will even use his money to pay another man for sex.
L

i have said time without number that Love,Money,careing WILL NEVER keep a woman calm weather Married or not in THE LIfE of a man.
The only thing that will ever keep a woman Calm is
:
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
THE GRACE Of GOD.
Slay queens who later gets married will live with them the spirit of PROMISCUITY.

The woman was not RAPED. And the boss was not responsible for the foolish woman's DISLOYALTY to her name, husband, children and nuclear family.

Mznaett:


Nonsense?
I doubt. I thought the boss in question was a MAN? Who should have known better?
Why do guys chosed to crucify the woman and not the man? Why not crucify both of them same way?

Women are never to be trusted.
U might see a text or mssg
But dsnt mean she done it.
But she askin bout money.
Meaning u aint giving her enuf.
Women love money.
I love money too.
But for women sexaul favors in exchange for money.
Try to geh more money
Divorce her and move ahead.
Fuc dat i got kids shit.
Take them kids and zoom off.
Make she nor come gif u disease.
All women are dogs.
While i was madly inlove wit my ex of dah year.
She took my love 4 granted
And was fucking 2 diff guys.
I knew .
I read texs.
Whatsapp.
I developed high heart beat rate.
Confusion
Humiliation.
I ended it asap.
Blocked her al changed all lines.
Till tomorrow i regret ever fuckin her.
Men women are just biches.
Even if u got 30billion 3d acct o.
Give them heaven and earth.
Theyd still go oit cheating
Doin opo runs
Dubai things
I got a cousin who sucks dic for 5m
6m
10m.
Buh if u see her.she be like saint but na ugbu for the matter.
Abegi.
Divorce her and move ahead.
Never make a ho a house wife.
Never make woman pusi deceive u into marriage.
Or u live to regret thah ish 4d rest of your marriage pr married lifes bro.
Think ahead.
She has shared your secret
Your pusi
Her unclothedness
Her sweetness in pusi touching has been shared with somebody else. U better run niggi
Run.
Or someone gonna be dead in a week.
Its either u kill her out of frustration or anger.

Sincere4u:

Sorry this one in error.
i had wanted to draw your attention to what a Lady did to her husband.
I also felt most women experience such temptations and wanted to know what you could've done if it were you.
That's all oo. Sorry My Queen.

it's OK

apology accepted

Mznaett:


Nonsense?
I doubt. I thought the boss in question was a MAN? Who should have known better?
Why do guys chosed to crucify the woman and not the man? Why not crucify both of them same way?

Idiotic!
Is the boss married to the op?
The woman is pure olosho and she's to blame in this case. Or op should go for the boss while his betrayer is sleeping on the same bed with him?

paschu:
The woman was not RAPED. And the boss was not responsible for the foolish woman's DISLOYALTY to her name, husband, children and nuclear family.

I hate blame games.

Noblepreneur:
I am wondering, seems I am the only one who saw the part "My wife was begging her boss for money". Op,are you presently broke? For your wife to have gone that far in her begging paints a picture that she has been managing for a long while (Don't forget, I am not in support of infidelity).

Make more money OP and avoid discussing family matter in a Forum.

Which middle and lower class family in Nigeria are not managing? Managing or not managing, any woman who wants to have extramarital affair will have it. Every other thing is just an excuse.

athorello:

Idiotic!
Is the boss married to the op?
The woman is pure olosho and she's to blame in this case. Or op should go for the boss while his betrayer is sleeping on the same bed with him?

What's left to say again?
Tell op to kill her at once now since she was the only one caught in the act.

adecz:
She needs money & you appear broke.

Are you up to date on your bills & financial

obligations & responsibilities??

Are these your conditions to justify a cheating spouse?

Handsomecutepie:



Can you imagine this rubbish coming from a shameless lady! Pathetic!!!

Shut that mouth and condemn your likes before addressing the issue at hand.

Turn the table around and see these hoes insulting and calling men all sort of names.

What an audacity! Advising the husband to call his promiscuous wife... For what? A cheater or adulterer will always remain an adulterer/cheater.

What about others clandestined relationship that remained unknown to this helpless man?

Do you know how many ex or colleagues she has slept with behind this man?

Don't patronise this guy by telling him to handle this horrible situation with maturity or wisdom.

Why can't that hoe called wife thought about the consequence of her action before fuvkin her boss

Mr man, you better forget that hoe... You know why, she ll never stop. If your wife really dig you, trust me, she won't even think about fuckkin her boss

If you think this is the end of your mystery by listening to all these hoes and over matured(suffering and smiling guy in marriages), you ll be miserable for a long time.

You better wake up and spend your life with a woman that will cherish and adore you by being honest and loyal to you.

bro u nailed it...Infact this is the best advice so far..S lay queen will continue slaying anything with Penis even if na Gateman or cripple Man.....Believe me,the Man Knew the wife was a slay queen but Believed she will Changed...

bezimo:
Once a hoe always a hoe.

She most likely did it before marriage to you but I guess you didn't know, nothing stops her from replicating that shameful feat again and again without fear.

9ja girls, bunch of hoes with zero dignity...

believe me,the Man knew the wife was slay queen..he was hoping she will change,forgtting a Hoe will never change

Nweike1:
My brother, na intense prayer and fasting before you enter

money,Love and caring does not keep a woman in the life of any man..99% of women this days are too Promisicious and will never stop...What keeps a woman in the life of a woman is THE GRACE OF GOD!!!!!!!

I have no answer for u and I don't know what u mean by justifies a cheating wife, just because she/he cheated doesn't mean she/he have no respect or love feeling for each other. Marriage is tough and is not for......uote author=arosunshine post=55254769]

so that justifies the cheating wife ?[/quote]

BioTeck:


Are these your conditions to justify a cheating spouse?

infidelity is a mortal sin,
but there is an untold story behind every cheating spouse.

Handsomecutepie:


Why would she address the issue at hand when she is equally an Olosho/hoe ?

Imagine that gibberish

Have this lady as a friend, your marriage is over

money,Love and caring does not keep a woman in the life of any man..99% of women this days are too Promisicious and will never stop...What keeps a woman in the life of a woman is THE GRACE OF GOD!!!!!!!

SorftWerk:
she is doing it already bro... It's really surprising to hear your wife give such conditions to her boss, I'm very sure the man won't decline, bro your wife is being shared,you ain't digging her alone.. Take action now!

So what do you want him to do?,please,you need matured people to council you on this,i can see a lot of teenagers here and adolescents who do not know what marriage its all about,look for a reliable person around you,it could be your Pastor or trusted elder around you and seek for counseling else the immature words you will get on this platform can make you do what you will regret.

Handsomecutepie:



Can you imagine this rubbish coming from a shameless lady! Pathetic!!!

Shut that mouth and condemn your likes before addressing the issue at hand.

Turn the table around and see these hoes insulting and calling men all sort of names.

What an audacity! Advising the husband to call his promiscuous wife... For what? A cheater or adulterer will always remain an adulterer/cheater.

What about others clandestined relationship that remained unknown to this helpless man?

Do you know how many ex or colleagues she has slept with behind this man?

Don't patronise this guy by telling him to handle this horrible situation with maturity or wisdom.

Why can't that hoe called wife thought about the consequence of her action before fuvkin her boss

Mr man, you better forget that hoe... You know why, she ll never stop. If your wife really dig you, trust me, she won't even think about fuckkin her boss

If you think this is the end of your mystery by listening to all these hoes and over matured(suffering and smiling guy in marriages), you ll be miserable for a long time.

You better wake up and spend your life with a woman that will cherish and adore you by being honest and loyal to you.

Good angle to look at the issue but you haven't done justice to the issue...kindly tell the OP and the rest of us HOW WILL THE OP GET A WOMAN WHO WILL GIVE HER REST OF MIND...It's not as if these ladies have a stamp of promiscuity to their foreheads...some are so discrete that you won't suspect for a split seconds that she is actually olosho.

The only hope men have is relying on the grace of God...if it exist anyway.

I won't ask the OP to divorce his wife...let him take the best decision for himself. However, a cheating wife is a potential husband killer and this is 99.9% real.

OP, if you love your life, you know exactly what to do.

TrapQueen717:



Hi boo

oh ... There you are

burticious:
All these evidence, please keep them.. Then one night.. Get samsu or any Sex enhancement pill that can make you last ( that is if you are weak in bed) then fork her till she cum and cum again.. After that.. Then ask her, letting her know her boss already called you... I swear, she will confess remorsefully.. Forgive her and let it end there...

pls wats samsu? apart from trams which oda drugs pls n how do dey work

OP.
Truth is the marriage can never remain the same again. Go get a quite moment. Convince yourself if she has really cheated. Then plan exit strategy. Many men resort to forgiving believing she will change, subconsciously because of their children or the fear of divorce. They do not change, rather becoming more blazing with the cheating attitude. Many times, the man dies in the process of enduring. The very reason you don't want your children to have a broken home now happens. You die and leave them. Would have been better with 2 separate parents still alive. Just try the most stress free exit from the marriage. My candid advice. You will not be able to stand it.

Lilyqueeny:




it's OK

apology accepted

Thanks