omemero:
Dont fight over it.....

cos you cant force her to talk....

dont tell her the evidence you have...she will defend her self...

interrogate her intelligently....base on the your evidence

and be very calm.....

rephrase your questions....she will get confused....

make her understand you still love...and you dont want the kids to know about it...

dont scream at her....

if she is creamiing at you, she trying to avoid your questions..

trace cause of her actions...

ASK GOD FOR WISDOM TO HANDLE IT...

I WAS IN YOUR SHOES SOMETIME AGO...

we came out of it till quietly date no one heard about it...

Handsomecutepie:


Why would she address the issue at hand when she is equally an Olosho/hoe ?

Imagine that gibberish

Have this lady as a friend, your marriage is over

NLsince2010:


It is not my dear. That lady typed from experience. It's only the married and those that experienced and scaled thru it, can give very good advice.

Now to my point. Even if she had slept with him, the man will still come back for more. Men's crave for sex never ends! If the sex was good, as long as he sees her in the office, he'll always want more.
The best is for her to set him up like that lady advised.

Adecks01:
Hi..my dear pls kindly take your time to read this carefully as I also dedicate my own time in writing it.

Though I am not married yet, but I have taken my time to study some marital issues within my immediate neighbourhood and from the writings of great scholars(especially the holy bible and other books related to marital saga).
1.I will first of all remind you that love is powerful.that means you need to increase your love for your wife,dedicate some moments Just for two of you guyz and always be romantic,caring and soft-heart.
2.Prayer is inevitable in every situation.Don't forget that prayers rises the dead.cure the blind etc. After love always dedicate your family to God irrespective of religion.
3.each morning the first thing you should do to your wife is waking her with a kiss and tell her you love her,As she match out to work kiss her and tell her you love her,before sleeping kiss her and tell her how you love her and me sure you never seize to profess your love for her.
4.Always make sure you play your role as the father and husband of the house.make provision of your family need including that of your wife without minding what she does with her own salary.
5.it is part of must African women's life to hide their sexual feelings being mindful of some so called tradition but such feelings cannot be hidden from her face so you have to satisfy her when she need you on bed.
5.Do not cheat on her but continue to be caring, You know your wife more than anybody (especially nairalanders) so you should be able to know what and how to approach her on the said issue without generating any crises.And if she denied,pls bury the matter and continue loving her.
I wish to continue but have no enough time but I do assure you that if you carry out the steps above,your wife will not cheat on you any more.

nicko28:
I have no advice to give you, marriage is harder than any other things that i can mention, what I know and am sure of it is that before any marry women or men cheat on their partner there most be a reason. Before you confront her, ask yourself, are u giving her the important need like sex, money, attention.....

maclatunji:
It is obvious the OP is a devastated husband. It is bad enough with the Whatsapp message.

Freewoman:


You need not to put up fight with your wife, you are not alone, so many women faces so many challenges with randy bosses, they don't care or don't mind if the woman working with them is married or not, they do think with their penis rather than their God gifted brain, The do take unnecessary undue advantage of the opposite sex . Amicably discuss this with your wife, try to find out if she has that suspected challenges in her work place, show her that you are ready to work with her to put off that randy boss off the business by setting him up, She must find a way of getting his nude videos, speeches secretly, she will pass it to you, that enough, will threaten his job forever, get that video across to the boss after a month with another number that he will never suspect your wife , the rest will be a story, do not threaten him rather advise him to stay off girls/women that is not his wife or he will find that video in the internet, he will be surprise where the whole thing is coming from and have a change of attitude, but if he refused, try to get his boss number and transfer the video to his boss for an escalation, with that , the rest will be bigger story this time

Freewoman:


You need not to put up fight with your wife, you are not alone, so many women faces so many challenges with randy bosses, they don't care or don't mind if the woman working with them is married or not, they do think with their penis rather than their God gifted brain, The do take unnecessary undue advantage of the opposite sex . Amicably discuss this with your wife, try to find out if she has that suspected challenges in her work place, show her that you are ready to work with her to put off that randy boss off the business by setting him up, She must find a way of getting his nude videos, speeches secretly, she will pass it to you, that enough, will threaten his job forever, get that video across to the boss after a month with another number that he will never suspect your wife , the rest will be a story, do not threaten him rather advise him to stay off girls/women that is not his wife or he will find that video in the internet, he will be surprise where the whole thing is coming from and have a change of attitude, but if he refused, try to get his boss number and transfer the video to his boss for an escalation, with that , the rest will be bigger story this time

AdisaOwala:


With all due respect, this is rather dumb!!

Noblepreneur:
I am wondering, seems I am the only one who saw the part "My wife was begging her boss for money". Op,are you presently broke? For your wife to have gone that far in her begging paints a picture that she has been managing for a long while (Don't forget, I am not in support of infidelity).

Make more money OP and avoid discussing family matter in a Forum.

arosunshine:


do u have comprehension problem ?

Noblepreneur:
I am wondering, seems I am the only one who saw the part "My wife was begging her boss for money". Op,are you presently broke? For your wife to have gone that far in her begging paints a picture that she has been managing for a long while (Don't forget, I am not in support of infidelity).

Make more money OP and avoid discussing family matter in a Forum.

Heavance:
Don't seek marital advice from people who can't keep ordinary girlfriend.
There are bunch of immature people here

EWAagoyin:
ashawo no dey ever fit repent ... Dey will always go back

Judasjudas:
0p maybe u should try this simple trick
..
tell her ur boss called u ..and he told u everything ..that u just want to hear her own version (keep a straight face) ..
that you just want to hear why she did it ..if breaks down in tears *bingo u got her ..if she still insists on "did what"..den just spill it .ehn just.go ahead and tell her ur boss told u .. put it on the man

adecz:
She needs money & you appear broke.

Are you up to date on your bills & financial

obligations & responsibilities??

BiafranBushBoy:
Set her up!

Make the children know the kind of mother they have subtly

Kick her out and gain custody of the children!!

Stupid women!!

lelvin:
Most times, when you think she has done it, she already has. Always trust your instinct!

wacoj:


Fantastic advise I must say BUT what if the wife is enjoying it? What if she is the type that wears revealing cloths to work?
What if she is the type that purposely comes to the boss's office with her boobs open and she claims that her nipples are not open/
What this simply means is that even if this door closes, she will look for another window. The problem is with the wife before the boss.

Was she coerced? was she under any pressure to do it? I don't think so cos she willingly say ''GIVE ME MONEY AND SEX IS SERVED'' This lines are commonly used by runs girls.... Oga your wife is a runs babe. Deal with it.

Sincere4u:

Me and Stanluv have reconciled.
See yourself as the common enemy.

comos:


pray and forgive her, you say

i pity for men like you

Adecks01:
Hi..my dear pls kindly take your time to read this carefully as I also dedicate my own time in writing it.

Though I am not married yet, but I have taken my time to study some marital issues within my immediate neighbourhood and from the writings of great scholars(especially the holy bible and other books related to marital saga).
Before any other thing know the reason behind her cheating on you and address it.
1.I will first of all remind you that love is powerful.that means you need to increase your love for your wife,dedicate some moments Just for two of you guyz and always be romantic,caring and soft-heart.
2.Prayer is inevitable in every situation.Don't forget that prayers rises the dead.cure the blind etc. After love always dedicate your family to God irrespective of religion.
3.each morning the first thing you should do to your wife is waking her with a kiss and tell her you love her,As she match out to work kiss her and tell her you love her,before sleeping kiss her and tell her how you love her and me sure you never seize to profess your love for her.
4.Always make sure you play your role as the father and husband of the house.make provision of your family need including that of your wife without minding what she does with her own salary.
5.it is part of must African women's life to hide their sexual feelings being mindful of some so called tradition but such feelings cannot be hidden from her face so you have to satisfy her when she need you on bed.
6.Do not cheat on her but continue to be caring, You know your wife more than anybody (especially nairalanders) so you should be able to know what and how to approach her on the said issue without generating any crises.And if she denied,pls bury the matter and continue loving her.
NB;pls keep the children off the picture and never let them see their mum as a bad woman.
NOTE:if you follow the steps above I am confident that with the help God ,Your wife will even confess before you ask her.

alfajohn:
Stories that touch the heart but manufactured to drive traffic. Some people are busy wasting their MB giving advise to a non existent situation. It is well.

achieverme:



Please ma, were you blind while reading the post? He said it was his wife that initiated sex with the boss and not as if the boss asked for it. THE WOMAN APPROACHED THE BOSS FOR MONEY IN EXCHANGE FOR SEX!

how come you couldn't see that part?

Charly68:
Na waa for you ooo,why offering a piece of advise that you yourself aren't ready to take ?