I made it known to my wife, the day i got hold of an evidence not to talk of catch her fvcking another man, be he who is the day she will visit her parents not to come back again.

@Op.... Better advice from me, i believe your wife is formal olosho and she just get back to her formal job...be careful for your life at this stage bros ....if a woman born for it does not guarantee she cant kill you..



Modified: If nah man now all those idiot will be shouting he is cheating her and started calling names..... With that little evidence you have if nah me i for don use slap reset her brain password why she married if she cant control her money ego.

Dont fight over it.....

cos you cant force her to talk....

dont tell her the evidence you have...she will defend her self...

interrogate her intelligently....base on the your evidence

and be very calm.....

rephrase your questions....she will get confused....

make her understand you still love...and you dont want the kids to know about it...

dont scream at her....

if she is creamiing at you, she trying to avoid your questions..

trace cause of her actions...

ASK GOD FOR WISDOM TO HANDLE IT...

I WAS IN YOUR SHOES SOMETIME AGO...

we came out of it till quietly date no one heard about it...

kushme:
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What are you saying?

You sentimental gash.... Is understanding your problem or are you just being silly and programmed not to address the issue based on the content.... All

Why would she address the issue at hand when she is equally an Olosho/hoe ?

Imagine that gibberish

Have this lady as a friend, your marriage is over

Mznaett:
@Vislabraye,read @Freewoman's comment and tell me what you think.
Morning.

freewoman was saying nonsense, like she has comprehension problem. See the way she was putting the blame on the boss as of it wasn't the woman who asked for money in exchange for sex.

Handsomecutepie:


Another Mumuni/Ode

Having read that gibberish, I can authoritatively tell you that the lady who wrote it has no virtue

must you display your low level of understanding everywhere.
must you passed insults on everyone you came across in your life?.

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Confront her ooooo and make her explain herself. If she like make she vex but you better get the true story for your own sanity sake.

Well, be prepared to forgive and let go cause from what you have said, her boss has laid her and maybe without protects sef.... grief, forgive and move on.

Benita27:
Na wa o!, if she slept with the man already all this is balderdash. I think her conscious is pricking her so the need for all the Google search.

It is not my dear. That lady typed from experience. It's only the married and those that experienced and scaled thru it, can give very good advice.

Now to my point. Even if she had slept with him, the man will still come back for more. Men's crave for sex never ends! If the sex was good, as long as he sees her in the office, he'll always want more.
The best is for her to set him up like that lady advised.

This is why people refuse to marry until dey make it big, my advice for you is be a man and handle dis issue wit maturity, you got kids already, I knw its very painful, but you have to win your wife back, wit dis steps......,

1. Communication is d back bone of every healthy relationship, tell her how u feel, remember she's a woman, mind wat you say and how you interprete ur emotions, dis wud make her feel guilty and remorseful if she had really slept wit her boss

2. Unlike men, women hardly forget the beautiful moments shared...., remind her of how it all started, how you saw oda women and chose her instead bcus she's special, remind her of all d beautiful moment u hav spent wit her, how she had ur babies, this would strengthen the love she already has for you,

3. And finally, tell her you can't stand sharing her wit anoda man, mind you!, don't accuse her....., remind her always how much you love her...... There are sum tyns women prefer to money,


Note: this wouldn't be complete if you don't have sex wit her after everything, sex has its own spiritual implications, it strengthens a relationship

When you are on your way home from work, look for ludacris's album "word of mouf" and buy one or alternatively, purchase it from iTunes. When you get home, buy enough fuel and fuel your gen just incase phcn takes the light. Skip to track 10(move bit.ch),put it on constant replay all day and make it loud. When she comes in, don't say anything. Just keep playing it. If she doesn't use her brain, start playing Eamon's " don't want you back" and put it on constant replay. If she still doesn't say anything, call her parents and tell them you are bringing their child back and explain everything. Make sure you really do return her to them even if it's for a few months. Focus on your work and try to increase your earnings. If on the long run, you guys settle, no problem. But God forbid that I have a woman(wife) who allows another man climb her. I doubt if I'd be able to ever sleep with her again.

Lilyqueeny:


Explain yourself before I get cross with you

I beg get crossed with him oooo
Break his head once and for all.
I'm enjoying this.

Bro! U should knw wat to do naw. Enter street straight away and let it be obvious to her,life is all about tit for tat!. Dazzol!!

achieverme:


freewoman was saying nonsense, like she has comprehension problem. See the way she was putting the blame on the boss as of it wasn't the woman who asked for money in exchange for sex.

I thought I was the only one who saw that. Women, always good at twisting and changing the narrative.

burticious:
All these evidence, please keep them.. Then one night.. Get samsu or any Sex enhancement pill that can make you last ( that is if you are weak in bed) then fork her till she cum and cum again.. After that.. Then ask her, letting her know her boss already called you... I swear, she will confess remorsefully.. Forgive her and let it end there...

Does samsu work

MarshRiley:
She's sleeping with him
Now on What not to do....
1. Don't fight her,it won't change anything.
2. Don't allow your kids know,they don't deserve the trauma .
What to do
1. Let her know you know what she did.
2. Find out what led to the whole thing(she'll lie anyway).
3. Try to forgive her (I can't even forgive a cheating gf).
4. Pray for strength cos this period ain't. Gon be easy.
Ehen.....once again,keep your kid's out of this pls.

pray and forgive her, you say

i pity for men like you

plessis:
God.... Wetin women dey do these days, Shey I go marry like this so?

ya bro i dont think there is any excuse for her actions, she made that choice and she was not forced or threatened bro, cheating is a NO NO for me once that happens not even jesus can save our marriage

burticious:
All these evidence, please keep them.. Then one night.. Get samsu or any Sex enhancement pill that can make you last ( that is if you are weak in bed) then fork her till she cum and cum again.. After that.. Then ask her, letting her know her boss already called you... I swear, she will confess remorsefully.. Forgive her and let it end there...

You are recommending another Viagra. Only yesterday someone died from Viagra induced foursome sex. We will hold u responsible if anything happens due to ur advice.

Ogoh123:
Dear NLs,
Good day all. I need your immediate advise on an issue. I have been suspecting my wife lately. This is someone I have never suspected since we got married since 2010. We have 2 kids. My wife actually works in one of the government agencies.

I have never suspected my wife but in recent times I'm beginning to doubt my wife. I called to have a conversation with her which she took personal and led to serious fight between us.

The main issue is this. I recently saw a screenmunched picture of whatsapp conversation between my wife and her boss in which my wife was asking for money from her boss and that if he gave her the money she would have sex with him. Just to corroborate this point, I had a laptop that I was not using, recently I logged on to it and I saw my wife's google search on the following: " My regrets after having sex with my boss", "how to relate with my boss after slepping with him"

Fellow Nairalanders, I'm very devastated but I need your advise on how to handle this with her.

Connect her Whatsapp to your computer. You will be shocked what you will see while she's chatting.

You need to be strong tho.

Stanluv come and catch sincere4u here.

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Hmm, omode o mo Ogun o n pe Lego (small pikin no know Juju he dey call am vegetable)

Let her fvck any1 she likes, it's a FREE world.

I have no advice to give you, marriage is harder than any other things that i can mention, what I know and am sure of it is that before any marry women or men cheat on their partner there most be a reason. Before you confront her, ask yourself, are u giving her the important need like sex, money, attention.....

..bro I tink u ve got al d ans...ur wife is 70%cheating from al u ve said.jst try nd lay traps nd get more info b4 u interrogate her.dnt tink I can stand a cheating gf nt too tlk of a wife.

karacta1:
Stanluv come and catch sincere4u here.

Me and Stanluv have reconciled.
See yourself as the common enemy.

Jagabanmonerry:
Then nobody force you to comment if u don't have anything to render... I pity 4 ur life because assuming u know what he is going through now, you wouldn't have open dat ur gullible buval cavity n spilling trashes. Vaseline crew.

Eeeyeah! Dis tin really pain u o,

Sorry ooo

U don take am personal, abi na u b d boss ni?

Hi..my dear pls kindly take your time to read this carefully as I also dedicate my own time in writing it.

Though I am not married yet, but I have taken my time to study some marital issues within my immediate neighbourhood and from the writings of great scholars(especially the holy bible and other books related to marital saga).
Before any other thing know the reason behind her cheating on you and address it.
1.I will first of all remind you that love is powerful.that means you need to increase your love for your wife,dedicate some moments Just for two of you guyz and always be romantic,caring and soft-heart.
2.Prayer is inevitable in every situation.Don't forget that prayers rises the dead.cure the blind etc. After love always dedicate your family to God irrespective of religion.
3.each morning the first thing you should do to your wife is waking her with a kiss and tell her you love her,As she match out to work kiss her and tell her you love her,before sleeping kiss her and tell her how you love her and me sure you never seize to profess your love for her.
4.Always make sure you play your role as the father and husband of the house.make provision of your family need including that of your wife without minding what she does with her own salary.
5.it is part of must African women's life to hide their sexual feelings being mindful of some so called tradition but such feelings cannot be hidden from her face so you have to satisfy her when she need you on bed.
6.Do not cheat on her but continue to be caring, You know your wife more than anybody (especially nairalanders) so you should be able to know what and how to approach her on the said issue without generating any crises.And if she denied,pls bury the matter and continue loving her.
NB;pls keep the children off the picture and never let them see their mum as a bad woman.
NOTE:if you follow the steps above I am confident that with the help God ,Your wife will even confess before you ask her.

pepigeorge:
Chase the dat dog away from ur house before she give the kids prostitution rabies

Lol.

It is obvious the OP is a devastated husband. It is bad enough with the Whatsapp message.

Lilyqueeny:


Explain yourself before I get cross with you

Sorry this one in error.
i had wanted to draw your attention to what a Lady did to her husband.
I also felt most women experience such temptations and wanted to know what you could've done if it were you.
That's all oo. Sorry My Queen.

arosunshine:
I made it known to my wife, the day i got hold of an evidence not to talk of catch her fvcking another man, be he who is the day she will visit her parents not to come back again.

I honestly support this position.