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Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by bitcoinvin(m): 8:02am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Ifakiland: pure talk bro!!!.God bless u. Most of them,Them Papa Broke die before them marry their mama. |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by loswhite(m): 8:03am On Jun 08, 2017 |
RapportNaija:woman wrappering...why can't u leave the women to comment...abi u be female? 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by sekem: 8:03am On Jun 08, 2017 |
borntoR35: If you are a potential yourself, there will no much need for looking for someone who will COMPLETE you. Encourage women to have and work on their own dreams too and not to look for a man working on his own dream It's that simple nobleblood: I'm not about women liberation I'm about HUMAN liberation You and I know that task becomes easier when all hands are on deck Not when someone sits down and says she's waiting or hunting for someone with potential to do the job That's stupid If eventually I have female children, I will definitely teach them how to be independent on their own Most of these useless girls who are looking for someone to leech on were not given the right orientation and you can now see where that has got us now If we should be teaching girls to hunt for men with the so called potentials rather than working on their own potentials; then we might as well tell the girls to stop going to school because the money that is being wasted in training them could be used in developing a man with potential somewhere. Like I said earlier, I'm all about HUMAN liberation. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by od501: 8:03am On Jun 08, 2017 |
nikkypearl: ma friend no lie to ur sef! be specific Wich one be "struggling ready made guy " it's either struggling or already made. Na so una wan dance fall for moni u no even kw how it was made. last last u claim d man doesn't respect u! Wen u have finally made ur sef a cheaply purchased commodity. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by creepsyme(f): 8:21am On Jun 08, 2017 |
uyiekpenn:Correct! But u need a wife that can support this odawise the house go small for una. Ladies of nowadays 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by marvin902(m): 8:23am On Jun 08, 2017 |
the money am making aint for any bloody lady.. i hustle for me and peeps finished #Gold-diggers everywhere 1 Like |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by uyiekpenn(m): 8:28am On Jun 08, 2017 |
creepsyme:you're very correct. Bro for the time being I'm not interested in any relationship. I spend all my money on my family, those who have been there from the struggle and myself. If I don't take care of myself and family who would? 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by uyiekpenn(m): 8:30am On Jun 08, 2017 |
VcStunner:respect king. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by uyiekpenn(m): 8:31am On Jun 08, 2017 |
favoured78:kids would surely have the best of things I couldn't have when i was their age. |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by uyiekpenn(m): 8:35am On Jun 08, 2017 |
anigbajumo:Bros if my children no chop my money who else wan chop am? |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by Dasgoro: 8:43am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Wrong question ! |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by ivolt: 9:03am On Jun 08, 2017 |
CreamyMoltenLar: Women going for men of higher status is also a symptom of our ultra-patriachal society. It is not just about the "gain", it is also about being fairly judged by society. For a man with equal or lower financial status, almost every disagreement in their union is seen in the light of wealth or fame, where the woman will be accused of trying to wear the trousers in the home just because she is wealthy. There was a thread about Omotola's husband going to get foodstuff in the market, if only you see the vituperations poured on her for turning her husband to "houseboy", some vowed never to have anything to do with independent women, some even suggested that the husband is a disgrace and is not man enough to be married. Such comments will never have come up if the man was of higher status, in that case, people will tag him as being romantic. So women hedging there bet with a man of higher status is a smart strategy since majority of men aren't too comfortable with equal or higher status women, as Nigerian men change their views of marriage from a "Master-servant" relationship to a cooperative partnership, the rate of independent women going for "senior men" will decrease. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by Aisien11(m): 9:07am On Jun 08, 2017 |
loswhite:,nor be lie Blooda |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by holluphemydavid(m): 9:35am On Jun 08, 2017 |
ladies over to u |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by cristianisraeli: 9:41am On Jun 08, 2017 |
nigerian ladies can tell lies..none of them want a struggling man i swear...they will frustrate ur life..only 5% of nigerian women can stay with a struggling man...one lady said something and shes right..every rich man today struggled..unless silver spoon boys ...eg..davido..lol |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by ReneeNuttall(f): 9:48am On Jun 08, 2017 |
chijokz:Amen,and God bless u too. |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by ReneeNuttall(f): 9:49am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Gotze1: Lol,Dats wat u get for snooping. |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by ReneeNuttall(f): 9:52am On Jun 08, 2017 |
hollywater: If I fail the exam nko? Is it ur fail? |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by ReneeNuttall(f): 9:56am On Jun 08, 2017 |
basty: If I fail the exam nko? How is dat ur headache? Mr sabinus.U r calling me Olodo yet, ur country is been ruled by a dullard who can't even pronounce the name of his VP. |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by ReneeNuttall(f): 9:58am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Emilord: Nice one. |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by judgedredd22(m): 9:58am On Jun 08, 2017 |
nikkypearl: 1 Like
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Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by ReneeNuttall(f): 10:00am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Johnsown1:. |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by Nobody: 10:08am On Jun 08, 2017 |
RapportNaija:Lol. Bro your rationale is hilarious. I don't have a head for business, so I'm not looking for a business partner or investor. When I talk about my wife complementing me financially, I mean her being capable of pulling her weight. By God's grace I can live in relative comfort for the rest of my life if I remain single, so its not like I want to chop her money. By the time you factor in kids, family expenses (hospital bills etc), upkeep for the wife (and possibly her family members) you'll see that my salary would hardly be enough for us to live a comfortable life. If I remain single and spend my money wisely, I should be able to build a house and possibly invest in one business or the other in the near future. Are you saying I should marry a housewife so I can divert all the funds for my future plans to maintain my wife? Women talk about wanting 'made men', what they don't seem to realise is that more often than not, these men acquired their cars, houses and businesses through self discipline and by marrying industrious women that did not only help them save their money, but also contributed to their 'success'. It would take me a few years to achieve the status of being made and I'd rather not get married in my late 30s or early 40s. That's why I said I want to marry someone financially independent, not so I can eat her money, but so that I won't have to give up my plans to acquire the things that most ladies insist a man should have. Its not that I won't contribute to the family's welfare, it'd just take a little longer for my plans to come to fruition, as opposed to if I'd been single and dedicated all my resources to those plans. How many young men are 'made'? If a lady wants to marry a young made man, she'd probably have to either go for an armed robber/yahoo boy, anybody that has access to looted public funds (including politicians, their family members/associates and 'lucky' contractors that are given bogus contracts etc) or they settle for old (possibly married) rich men like directors, general managers, business tycoons etc. The point is, how many young (say under or early 30s) made men are there that earned their money through honest means or inheritance? They exist, but are they enough for majority of ladies to insist on marrying them? Remember the issue here isn't women marrying men that can take care of them, its them wanting to marry made men. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by Johnsown1(m): 10:09am On Jun 08, 2017 |
ReneeNuttall: Yes na, cos ur good material, i swear |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by ReneeNuttall(f): 10:11am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Johnsown1:Wow! thank u very seriously. |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by Gkemz: 10:17am On Jun 08, 2017 |
The first lady hit the hammer at the head. I like her explanation. |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by babapressy(m): 10:18am On Jun 08, 2017 |
My wife Maried me while I was struggling but today we are ok but the well to do guy she initially wanted to marry later got married to another lady but they are divorced now |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by Gotze1: 10:28am On Jun 08, 2017 |
ReneeNuttall:, you go good for kitchen n d oza loom. |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by Teegelop(f): 10:42am On Jun 08, 2017 |
whitebeard:No way no how, a lady will still have a sense of what you are up to from your look/ dressing |
Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by johnnyloroun: 10:58am On Jun 08, 2017 |
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Re: Ladies! Do You Prefer A Struggling Man Or An Already-made Man? See Replies by alexis007(m): 11:10am On Jun 08, 2017 |
EFX001:I personally liked this post because of the last two sentences. It takes a lady to tell you what another lady actually is. If a mother is vigilant and vibrant, a leeching h0e is never going to have a field day. Ladies, abeg...una no come dis world to just make up, marry and born pikin. Abi una go nursery, primary, secondary and university for nothing? 1 Like |
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