guy take responsibility.
DO not opt for abortion.

It will turn out well and someday you will be proud of the kid.

hi guy, you are not serious, you can not control yourself then you are going to bear the burnt.

Are we still on this topic

i tout he must av agreed to marry d babe and keep d pregnancy


poster: where are you?/

SHALOM

Let me see.

By September, she will deliver,

Fix the engagement in April

Don't invite Nlanders

Just few family members will do

Cheers.

In the first place,its a sin to go bed with a girl you are not yet married to.
What you are seeing now is the consequence of your disobedience to God.Dont just think about committing abortion.My best advice for is to make up your mind to marry her,that child is bringing blessing to both of you.Then when money comes,you fuffil the marital right.
Thanks.

[size=16pt]@poster,

so u think dat u are too young to settle down but u never thought of that when u wanted to `enter the place`.[/size]

You want my 'sincere contribution'?

The only thing worse than an absent father is a father that is present and useless.

At 27 years old I would have expected more maturity from someone in a relationship having unprotected sex with his FIANCE. Did you just expect a shake and go?

You need to think long and hard. If you are willing to accept your duties as a father than you stand by your woman and child and dedicated yourself to being a good father and partner/husband.

If you know that you're not brave enough (afterall you're thinking of running away) then you are better off telling your fiance that you won't stand by her and leaving. It sounds harsh but she and the baby are better off not having you around if you are going to be uncommitted. Being a parent is no 9 - 5 with morning break; it's a life. If your heart's not in it you'll just be a hinderance to them.

So think long and hard

I agree that y'all should not be sleeping together when you're not yet married and this situation was created for you to realize that, Didn't you think of such a possibility when you were doing ur thing, anyways I don't think a baby would stop you from becoming what you want to become, in fact I think they will be an incentive for you to work hard to provide and eventually achieve your dream. Since you said your mother would accept the baby you should talk to both ur parents and hers and let them know about your concerns and you never know, they may be willing to help out until you have enough. And I certainly hope you learn your lesson. P.S you can't run away or ask her to abort, she hate you forever if you run and was probably insulted when you asked her to abort, don't.

You re bein so Nigerian.Dude you re old!If u re old enough to have sex but young enough to let her get pregnant then she should keep the baby.

@ poster, why have sex, unprotected sex at that if you are not ready to face the consequences, man up and take care of your responsibilities! SMH at you!

Was it a Boy , Girl or Both?







Don't tell me you made her evacuate it oooo

idmoore:
am trying to avoid her from my mother cos if she knows she wil accept it cos am the only one of my dad. Should I run away or what? Because I can't imagine having a baby in my 27.

You sound very foolish to me..... Youre not ready to be a father @ 27 and you had sex





I hope she has delivered ....cos I'd prefer you keep baby and start a family ... You can do it ....

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27yrs old guy nt man....cnt blv u can even seek 4 advice in dis issue...common...u shud b very hapi 4 God sake or mayb u dnt kw u r even lucky...many couples r out der lookin 4 dis n u r here seeking on hw u r gonna gt rid of a babe comin....it's a mighty sin b4 God anyway....if u try doin dat..it means u r notn buh an hire killer