NA SHAKARA Fela Anikulapo of blessed memory called it.

But after all the shakara, the babe gives in and the guy go bang am wel well back and front and go dey smirk behind her back.

I see it happening everyday.

Real players do not take note. They just move on to the next babe

OP its because many naija babes are bush girls

op

9ja ladies insult u, when u dont have money & cars

The tonzo mugu thing to the point of insult can only happen when a guy wastes his time and resources chasing only 1 girl.
For the sake of mental health, a guy should always have a few fall-back plans when it comes to women. Otherwise desperation might kick-in, which won't help his matter.

Of course when you have finalized things with one, let the others know and end runs with them, make sure your girl sees them and knows who they are and have your peace.
This is when the others who were taking too long usually start crying and begging.

cheers.