Benita27:
I would have said you should talk to her but the embolden caught my attention. You invaded her privacy by checking up on the drugs she was using while she was outside. By so doing, she might be adamant to listen to you if you put up a conversation about abortions to her, 'cause she didn't seek for your counsel. Now, if you feel the urge to help her out of her predicament you could simple get her a book on contraceptive measures and dangers of abortions in one. Just tell her you read, and learnt a lot from it, she'll read it at her space and time. There're things you don't try talking to people about else "What's your business?" will follow suit.

Read and learnt?
any idiot would know that is sarcasm

StrawberryGloss:
Read and learnt?
any idiot would know that is sarcasm

It isn't. Personally I have, and believe other girls should. Your parents won't tell you all about puberty. You dig the rest yourself. Unfortunately, some girls aren't inclined to learning things about womanhood beside what they know.

Benita27:
It isn't. Personally I have, and believe other girls should. Your parents won't tell you all about puberty. You dig the rest yourself. Unfortunately, some girls aren't inclined to learning things about womanhood beside what they know.

The point is her friend might think she is mocking her by giving her that book on abortion.
So buying her a book on abortion is a wrong move

pocohantas:
You should talk to her. Minding our business got us to this point of high sexual immorality. Sounds like you both are young, she probably doesn't know the long-term effect of her actions or she thinks she is far gone to make a turn.

For you to talk her out of future abortions, you have to care genuinely and she has to know you care. Don't be all judgemental like the average Nigerian, don't use shaming languages. Let her know you're glad you both can talk about this...

Please, make your research and tell her the dangerous effect of abortions. It's also a sin. Since she has already done this one, avoiding future occurrence should be your aim...teach her abstinence, safe sex... Accompany her to a doctor for professional counselling and to be sure there are no debris causing those pains .

She is a strong young girl with a whole lot ahead of her, she is supposed to do things for her well being. That guy doesn't love her. No guy that loves her would have unprotected sex with her, get her pregnant over and over, while she aborts it! Would he be happy if his sister is doing same? No! He is only taking advantage of her naivety.

In future, I see him leaving her to go marry someone he considers has a womb. The next abortion could be death and he would move on...she should use her senses, niggas ain't loyal.

Ladies should work on themselves and date guys with functional brains, not all these slay kings who offer only sex.

I like u so much because u get sense.

julimartins:
Good morning y'all.....a friend of mine has had series of abortion and she is still having one right now.....she claims it is menstrual pain but I know it's not,a lot of things gave me the conviction that it is not and she keeps coming up with excuses.....more like she is trying to fool me,thinking I don't know what's going on.

while she was washing clothes outside, I decided to check the drugs she was using and I browsed about it and there it was!

I really feel like talking to her about it because of the serious pains she is going through and i am scared that the next one might be her womb or even death......Buh another part of me is telling me to mind my business.

and the most annoying part is that the guy she is doing it for is going about telling his friends about it and it is spreading....... please what do I do?

Her life...none of your business! Shoboloyoke!

Nigerian girls will never learn! I honestly feel sorry for her or is it you now? !

Unfortunately for her, the chances of this guy who she is busy tampering her generational destiny for to marry her is about 10%

Which guy wants to marry 3rd-grade Second-hand? Even when people cannot afford brand new wears, still actually want the best and still look for 1st-grade Second-Hand wears!

Hmm... do your best to advise her, that's actually your duty. Its actually in her best interest to turn a new leaf, delete that guy now and start afresh!

Nice

julimartins:
Good morning y'all.....a friend of mine has had series of abortion and she is still having one right now.....she claims it is menstrual pain but I know it's not,a lot of things gave me the conviction that it is not and she keeps coming up with excuses.....more like she is trying to fool me,thinking I don't know what's going on.

while she was washing clothes outside, I decided to check the drugs she was using and I browsed about it and there it was!

I really feel like talking to her about it because of the serious pains she is going through and i am scared that the next one might be her womb or even death......Buh another part of me is telling me to mind my business.

and the most annoying part is that the guy she is doing it for is going about telling his friends about it and it is spreading....... please what do I do?

forget abortion. why is she having sex without condom. why that is the most foolish thing to do!

StrawberryGloss:
The point is her friend might think she is mocking her by giving her that book on abortion.
So buying her a book on abortion is a wrong move

A book on contraceptive measures which includes dangers of abortion. Giving her unsolicited advice about abortion I'm sure she wouldn't stand that in order not to bruise her ego before her friend. Btw, she needn't do that now. It's easier said than done when faced with someone who needs counsel.

wat is ur bizness?bloody africanssssssssssssssssssss with holy as thou atitudes....hypocrites everywhere!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!mind ur bizness...if she gives birth now...u will say she has a bastard,if she gives birth and sell it u will say she is barbaric and insensitive,if she dumps it at the bus stop u will say she is not worthy of being a mother...if she doesnt allow guys come close to her u will say u suspect she is gay,if she allows guys to come close but she toys with them after collecting cash gifts and dont give sex in return ,u will condemn her and there and even snatch the men without coming to gossip her here..i just despise all diz nonsense..morals in theory but no practical.

julimartins:
Good morning y'all.....a friend of mine has had series of abortion and she is still having one right now.....she claims it is menstrual pain but I know it's not,a lot of things gave me the conviction that it is not and she keeps coming up with excuses.....more like she is trying to fool me,thinking I don't know what's going on.

while she was washing clothes outside, I decided to check the drugs she was using and I browsed about it and there it was!

I really feel like talking to her about it because of the serious pains she is going through and i am scared that the next one might be her womb or even death......Buh another part of me is telling me to mind my business.

and the most annoying part is that the guy she is doing it for is going about telling his friends about it and it is spreading....... please what do I do?

pocohantas:
You should talk to her. Minding our business got us to this point of high sexual immorality. Sounds like you both are young, she probably doesn't know the long-term effect of her actions or she thinks she is far gone to make a turn.

For you to talk her out of future abortions, you have to care genuinely and she has to know you care. Don't be all judgemental like the average Nigerian, don't use shaming languages. Let her know you're glad you both can talk about this...

Please, make your research and tell her the dangerous effect of abortions. It's also a sin. Since she has already done this one, avoiding future occurrence should be your aim...teach her abstinence, safe sex... Accompany her to a doctor for professional counselling and to be sure there are no debris causing those pains .

She is a strong young girl with a whole lot ahead of her, she is supposed to do things for her well being. That guy doesn't love her. No guy that loves her would have unprotected sex with her, get her pregnant over and over, while she aborts it! Would he be happy if his sister is doing same? No! He is only taking advantage of her naivety.

In future, I see him leaving her to go marry someone he considers has a womb. The next abortion could be death and he would move on...she should use her senses, niggas ain't loyal.

Ladies should work on themselves and date guys with functional brains, not all these slay kings who offer only sex.

Not all niggas i beg ur pardon. Only that bitches ain't loyal which could push niggas to the wall to go extreme. But every other thing u pointed out is correct.

Tell her so that heaven will know that you have washed her blood off your hands.

julimartins:
Good morning y'all.....a friend of mine has had series of abortion and she is still having one right now.....she claims it is menstrual pain but I know it's not,a lot of things gave me the conviction that it is not and she keeps coming up with excuses.....more like she is trying to fool me,thinking I don't know what's going on.

while she was washing clothes outside, I decided to check the drugs she was using and I browsed about it and there it was!

I really feel like talking to her about it because of the serious pains she is going through and i am scared that the next one might be her womb or even death......Buh another part of me is telling me to mind my business.

and the most annoying part is that the guy she is doing it for is going about telling his friends about it and it is spreading....... please what do I do?

are you a virgin? Is it ur abortion? Are those kind of friends u keep, mind ur bizz

op it's a lie. u are the victim

julimartins:
Good morning y'all.....a friend of mine has had series of abortion and she is still having one right now.....she claims it is menstrual pain but I know it's not,a lot of things gave me the conviction that it is not and she keeps coming up with excuses.....more like she is trying to fool me,thinking I don't know what's going on.

while she was washing clothes outside, I decided to check the drugs she was using and I browsed about it and there it was!

I really feel like talking to her about it because of the serious pains she is going through and i am scared that the next one might be her womb or even death......Buh another part of me is telling me to mind my business.

and the most annoying part is that the guy she is doing it for is going about telling his friends about it and it is spreading....... please what do I do?

...see dis

@OP
Mind your own business.

80% of ladies des days love raw sex. Thy dont like condoms.

#why?

What business is it of yours?

If she isn't in a position to have a child then why should be forced to carry the pregnancy through to term?

funny thing is cant jus say talk to her even if u save a fool today u cant go saving him errday d holy book say a fool will b consumed by his or her own foolishness for if u reprimand him he will insult you she's been in n out of abortion like a three course meal she blieve she undastnds lord help me i knw what i want n you wud give me dat i desire amen.

80% of women has committed abortion and they will be calling their mother in-law witch & b disturbing pastors for d fruits of the womb. Guys pray vividly before u get married. Ladies, any man u aborted for cannot and will never Marry you..

Na one guy go marry this girl too o....who knows wat my future wife is doing presently now

Ucheosefoh:
The way people have sex these days without protection surprises me, they are not scared of infection let alone pregnancy I tire oh. Condom cheap yet people still de f*uck raw

Da condom na dulling jare......but protect urselves still. Be safe

@op, is it your abortion?

Young03:
God save me from that kind girl

My grandma calls girls like that "Agbako"

An age long adage goes thus,Falana gb'otie ti ara eni lan'gbo.....I know my brother from the p*t*p*to side will be wondering what this means ;DAn age long adage goes thus,Falana gb'otie ti ara eni lan'gbo.....I know my brother from the p*t*p*to side will be wondering what this means

eezeribe:
Since she knows what she is doing... Allow the Olosho to kill herself.

abi ooo tell her to try again

People no dey fear HIV o