Omolulu:

Big Time Ode (B.T.O) you just dey start, u will still marry a naija man wey go scam u pass all dis wan u dey talk

follypimpi:

@ayetty

U sound so bitter  

Aswerigad, you don't know how hard i'm laughing here.
The woman is truly hurting.

Omolulu:

Big Time Ode (B.T.O) you just dey start, u will still marry a naija man wey go scam u pass all dis wan u dey talk

HAhahahahahahahaahhahahaah
O boy, you don kolo

follypimpi:

@ayetty

U sound so bitter  

i thot so too. Is her father white? Just asking . . .

stillwater:

You better go and marry and stop blowing grammar.

Not yet . . .   Still much sampling to be had.

davidylan:

the major problem is Nigerian men (and a lot of men in general) dont want to be committed. I unfortunately fall in to that category . . . its tough ceding your life out to one woman forever especially when you're not 110% sure she is the one.

Very well said,u knw esp. if the demand is really high,the likes of ayetty will feel will be sampled.

instead of asking me that question

why dont u asses urself and all ur friends

and then honestly tell me most of u dont fit my description

ayettymama:

thats one of the problems with nigerian women here

you go lookin in the wrong places

you go to the razz nigerian clubs instead of attending the high society balls

you attend the worst universities instead of goin for ivy league

you date the monkeys instead of dating the prince charmings!!

you go straight to peckham and make monkey friends!!

need to switch up nigeria isnt the only country in the world!!

atty dear, you need not to be so bitter, you cant change people, so just move on to better places.
Matter of fact just ignore them for the time being and focus on other things.
Its not a perogattive to have a nigerian man.
Go outside and do what You like to do, soon enough there will be someone who shares the same interests as you, whether black or white.

Learn to say No.


Avoid Pitfalls before u cry for help  

follypimpi:


Very well said,u knw esp. if the demand is really high,the likes of ayetty will feel will be sampled.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

see lovedoctor giving woman advice on not picking husbands in peckham, last last na oshodi she go end dey find husband @ 40.

Why would anyone in their right mind "lend" money to a man whom they barely even know. As a friend yes but as a potential BF then NO!

platinumnk:

atty dear, you need not to be so bitter, you cant change people, so just move on to better places.
Matter of fact just ignore them for the time being and focus on other things.
Its not a perogattive to have a nigerian man.
Go outside and do what You like to do, soon enough there will be someone who shares the same interests as you, whether black or white.

Learn to say No.


Avoid Pitfalls before u cry for help  

Abag take dis  

Wat platinumnk said is true, Dont be bitter ok just be ur self.

ayettymama:

instead of asking me that question

why dont u asses urself and all your friends

and then honestly tell me most of u dont fit my description

talk true, how many Nigerian men have u sampled? make up ur mind before u turn 45 as younger girls are coming up

Complex who? when? where?

tbaba83:

see lovedoctor giving woman advice on not picking husbands in peckham, last last na oshodi she go end dey find husband @ 40.

Omolulu:

talk true, how many Nigerian men have u sampled? make up your mind before u turn 45 as younger girls are coming up

ROTFLMAO

O boy, una don crase.

tbaba83:

see lovedoctor giving woman advice on not picking husbands in peckham, last last na oshodi she go end dey find husband @ 40.

so she should bend at your feet to get married? Its when you focus on yourself and NOT  marriage when things fall into place.

she should just ignore the men . . .focus on being the best chick there is and there would be men lining up  

jenibayo:


Abag take dis  

Wat platinumnk said is true, Dont be bitter ok just be your self.

Thank u my sister, we should enlighten and uplift  our sisters  

I think the OP is picking up men in the wrong places. There are over 100million Nigerian men out there . . . i refuse to believe most are no good. At least those in my circle of friends count as among the best Nigerian guys you can ever find. Professionals, responsible and family-oriented . . . where is the OP looking and what sort of men is she attracted to? I think that is the question she shld be asking herself.

Most women dont understand this but YOU are the type of men you attract.

ayettymama:

thats one of the problems with nigerian women here

you go lookin in the wrong places

you go to the razz nigerian clubs instead of attending the high society balls

you attend the worst universities instead of goin for ivy league

you date the monkeys instead of dating the prince charmings!!

you go straight to peckham and make monkey friends!!

need to switch up nigeria isnt the only country in the world!!

Na wa o.

follypimpi:


My Jamrock sistah,feel free to speak your mind.how r ya?

What is Jamrock?

feel free to speak my mind I LAUGH IN JAMAICAN

davidylan:


Most women dont understand this but YOU are the type of men you attract.

I think a lot of them understand this perfectly. Hence the not so worthy men they keep meeting. This is not to say that once in a while one won't meet someone who isn't worth your time.

lol i highly doubt i sound bitter!

if u knew me personally ull know that!!

im just passionate!

what do u take me for?? dumbass!

its not just what ive been thru its observing my frinds as well

and readin alot from nairaland

its the same, most naija men down here have that problem!!

im sorry but its the bitter truth

i understand ur reactions but its gotta be told!

dont get me wrong there are good ones;

most of my guy relatives for example

though they were brought up here;

they are very good men

im just tellin the ladies wat works for me

u look in the trash you find trash

u broaden ur horizons ur better off!

davidylan:

I think the OP is picking up men in the wrong places. There are over 100million Nigerian men out there . . . i refuse to believe most are no good. At least those in my circle of friends count as among the best Nigerian guys you can ever find. Professionals, responsible and family-oriented . . . where is the OP looking and what sort of men is she attracted to? I think that is the question she shld be asking herself.

Most women dont understand this but YOU are the type of men you attract.

Its not that only. .  it the choice they made in that attraction .  . a girl can attract good guys and bad guys . .
and is supposed to know the difference.

But the problem falls when bad guys pretend to be good.  . but usually patience will weed them out. .  

I would rather remain single till 40 lol   waiting for a good person than to continually date bad guys

olugirl:

Do relationships really work?  I cant believe it's me ALWAYS meeting the wrong men.

I am not a bad person, not ugly (not necessarily miss world), not a bad girl (tho not an angel). I go to church,

like all d usual things girls like, but still homely, well brought up but being very unlucky with men, especially Nigerian men.

the last one just told me that he thought he would prefer a casual relationship, cos i said he never picks my calls. Yet kept begging me after i broke it off, obvious;y wnats to eat his cake and have it!

I have tried dating outside Nigerian men and while it was a great relationship, didnt think there was that click btwn us.

I am not one to generalise but just find Nigerian men (the ones ve met in London) to usually be liars, cheats and not truthful to what they say at the start.

At my wits end, dying of boredom, feel very sad and sorry for myself, maybe become a lesbian (lol)

Naija men in London are liars, cheats and dishonest?
Cheese n Rice. . . . . . .I musta heard this cliche 4000 times.

i aint got no problems with women but those who see themselves like they all that, talking down on peckham people like u are better. d-ivy school my ass. coming to faceless forum to do chick. see ur mouth.  nonsense

~Sauron~:

Naija men in London are liars, cheats and dishonest?
Cheese n Rice. . . . . . .I musta heard this cliche 4000 times.

Then there must be some truth to this "cliche"

ayettymama:

lol i highly doubt i sound bitter!

if u knew me personally ull know that!!

im just passionate!

what do u take me for?? dumbass!

its not just what ive been thru its observing my frinds as well

and readin alot from nairaland

its the same, most naija men down here have that problem!!

im sorry but its the bitter truth

i understand your reactions but its gotta be told!

dont get me wrong there are good ones;

most of my guy relatives for example

though they were brought up here;

they are very good men

im just tellin the ladies wat works for me

u look in the trash you find trash

u broaden your horizons your better off!

LOL. . . .
I guess that explains your rant