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Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by habdulafeez(m): 11:10am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Just pondering though... Good guys aren't overly flirtatious. They are usually found deeply engaged in activities of passion, they are hardworking and goal oriented... its totally difficult for them not achieving a set goal or target. But one thing baffles me.... Finding a good companion is really very challenging! Why is this a common trend? .... the real issue here is that where are the good girls that could easily be lucky enough to get such men. they are obviously enchanted with the societal trends of forming slay queens baselessly when Mr. Right is somewhere lurking around hoping to see them in their natural self. There are humble girls though....but they put on a shield (slayer shield) that won't allow them accept the offers and advances of the good guys. #Godhelpthegoodguys 67 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by olayinks007(m): 11:18am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Lord knows why my broda... In fact me self dey always ask dat same question. Imagine retired Olosho falling into d hands of a good guy nd a good lady falling in2 d hands of a very bad guy. 42 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by habdulafeez(m): 11:20am On Jun 28, 2017 |
that's the irony of life. it baffles me a lot actually. 23 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by eezeribe(m): 11:21am On Jun 28, 2017 |
habdulafeez:Because opposites attract and similar poles repel. 58 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by ikeepitreal(m): 11:24am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Bad guys are more attractive and mysterious.They bear a charisma of manly attributes that most females conform to, mentally and physically. 54 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by habdulafeez(m): 11:26am On Jun 28, 2017 |
eezeribe:that sounds more scientific bro. 4 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by habdulafeez(m): 11:28am On Jun 28, 2017 |
ikeepitreal:that's very true....the strength and charisma that the bad guys exudes leaves the good guys with no good girls....as she's charmed by the swagger of the bad guy... that's true. 25 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by harlos: 11:28am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Good boy wasn't patient enough to make good friend before rushing into relationship... Marry ur best friend. 14 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by habdulafeez(m): 11:32am On Jun 28, 2017 |
harlos:....sounds philosophical 8 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by ikp120(m): 11:33am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Good guys like me can't find a good lady. ***Sobs*** 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by asahnwaKC: 11:34am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Because he is not guy man enough to differentiate bad Girls from good girls. 2 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by habdulafeez(m): 11:34am On Jun 28, 2017 |
ikp120:never give up is the spirit bro. 1 Like |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by habdulafeez(m): 11:37am On Jun 28, 2017 |
asahnwaKC:hmmmmm.....that may not always be true because the good guy may just be unlucky to find the good girl who may also be somewhere seeking him. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by Stevengerd(m): 11:50am On Jun 28, 2017 |
eezeribe:Lol. U Don Carry Physics Enta Dis Matter. *Magnectic Pole 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by ikeepitreal(m): 11:56am On Jun 28, 2017 |
habdulafeez:And good guys don't approach girls with enough confidence. They are either nervous or twitchy and girls can smell nervousness a mile off. 27 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by habdulafeez(m): 1:39pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
ikeepitreal:....could be true though 2 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by Vivipop(f): 7:08pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
habdulafeez:Mother nature must be balanced Though that law must break when my time comes. 3 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by dewalcod(m): 7:11pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
The 'other' guys say the things good girls and any girl for that matter wants to hear.. not necessarily lies though.. 4 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by addictiv(m): 7:31pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Truth is most good guys are lacking the necessary skills et requires to get a good girl. They can't ask a girl out. They can begin and maintain a conversation with a woman without running out of topics. It's either the girls they date re referrals or the girl asked them out and which girl has the liver to ask a guy out than a girl who has seen it all. To get a good girl u have to step up ur game. Doesn't mean u should become a player but you should know your wits. 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
vice versa... it is also difficult for the good ladies to get the good guys and not all are forming slay queens! 5 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by irewoleola(m): 7:50pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Good attracts good so they say. Just be calm, someone good will surely come around. 4 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by Cleopatra4(f): 10:39pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
habdulafeez:Gbam... U just nailed it.. D good girl is out there wondering if she will ever find that good guy too.. 3 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by dapyd1(m): 10:42pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
I've been looking for myself. The higher I go, the harder it's becoming for me. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by NwaAmaikpe: 10:42pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by auntysimbiat(f): 10:43pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Hmmm |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by MrMcJay(m): 10:44pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
The basic Law of Magnetism states that like magnetic poles repel each other where as unlike magnetic poles attract each other. Good girls are taught not to be cheap. But not being cheap, they misinterpret it as playing hard to get. Unfortunately, girls who play hard to get always get the worst guys. They always attract playboys, gold diggers and fvckboys. It's simply nature. Opposites attract, likes repel. That's the law of magnetism and it would always be like that. If you doubt me, let me ask u something: What's the most crazily romantic thing a guy/girl can do for you? Do U think a guy/girl who is a good church person who loves you can do that? For instance, after a date, when going home, you're supposed to be kissed at the door. Do u think a good guy knows to do that? Every lady loves mind blowing sex but you all deny it as usual. Do u think a good guy can give u the sort of raunchy sex you dream of? Every lady loves a spontaneous guy. Good guys are damn boring and not spontaneous. The truth is a bad guy knows what a good girl wants and he gives her. That makes her go crazy for him. Conversely, a bad b!tch knows what a good guy wants and gives him, that makes him go crazy over her. That is life. However, the problem girls have is that a bad boy sees you as a goal. Once he has conquered you, he moves on to the next goal. However, they're thinking of changing him to become a good guy without knowing his hidden plans. In relationships, you don't need someone like you, you need someone to compliment you. When you have someone like you, that's the no. 1 recipe for disaster. You'll always fight. This exactly is why people who marry others with similar attributes and temperaments always divorce. 72 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by sukkot: 10:44pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
cuz ladies are confused mahfukaz it is what it is. if the cap fits wear it. if not discard 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by Babysho(m): 10:44pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
The thing tire me. Some girls mistake a Good Guy As A Boring Guy. Once you introduce yourself like you're in the 80's and compliment their beauty with good vocabulary, believe me, those girls have already started keeping their distance.. but that guy that used his car to hit theirs and started shouting at them and even slept with their friends is the guy they want o. You Can Find Bad Guys In Different Stages Of Life : Primary School - The Boy That Gets Flogged Daily. Secondary School - That Loud Bully That Fights Teachers. University - That Guy That Makes The Most Noise and His Jokes Are Boring To You. Work - The Extrovert That Chats With The Boss(that you fear) Like His Childhood Friend. 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by IMASTEX: 10:44pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Okay |
Re: Why It Is Difficult For The Good Guy To Get The Good Lady? by bsideboii(m): 10:46pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
How do you determine a good guy or a bad guy? trust me the ones that have that bad guy persona most. times are the good guys. ( loyal to His Lady,has a large heart,loving to everyone around etc.) ....but the so called good guys, snitches,perverted...masters of deceit etc. 5 Likes |
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