David is that why you're always here
looking for cooks
girls beware.
are they sending you these things by FEDEX abi them dey deliver am personally

0hsisi:

4.

He has you playing house already
doing his cooking, laundry, errands but no one in his immediate family knows who you are.
You've never been to his family functions,hmm time to think.
If indeed you want marriage and all you are is a maid service with bed privileges, that may be all you're worth to him.

Story. . . . . . . .
A man can take his babe to his family and nothing will happen.
There's no rule that governs men when it comes to relationships.

googles:

[size=13pt]yes marriage is sooo overrated do you check the statistics of divorce cases we have all over the world now ??
hmm hmm i dont think so,pple dont take their time they just rush into the institution just to join the mr and mrs bandwagon
and as for you attacking my personality that was uncalled for just to set your crooked record straight am not ready for marriage
so am not talking outta bitterness orprejudice am just stating the obvious in the society
the last line of your post was just totally uncalled for   [/size]

I apologize for the earlier comment, it wasnt intended to offend and has been retracted.  
Back to the issue, i dont think we can use divorce statistics to say marriage is over-rated. those who are unmarried are not any happier than those who married and got divorced. the skyrocketing divorce rate has more to do with the fact that many marry for the wrong reasons today. those who have made a success of their marriages are a strong testimony to the fact that we were designed not to be alone.

0hsisi:

David is that why you're always here
looking for cooks
girls beware.
are they sending you these things by FEDEX abi them dey deliver am personally

there are enough real life cooks here.

0hsisi:

Please who is the girl
is she into women
I need her for myself
I need the new google nexus phone

Sorry, this one is "taken".

women have really suffered
chai

~Sauron~:

Story. . . . . . . .
A man can take his babe to his family and nothing will happen.
There's no rule that governs men when it comes to relationships.

Hannibal,have you taken any of these your YIM gals to your mommy?
obviously not
but I bet you,the day you meet the one,you can't wait to show her to mommy.

0hsisi:

Hannibal,have you taken any of these your YIM gals to your mommy?
obviously not
but I bet you,the day you meet the one,you can't wait to show her to mommy.

I have taken all of em to ma momma, of course.

~Sauron~:

I have taken all of em to ma momma, of course.

I don't mean to mama Calabar

0hsisi:

women have really suffered
chai

they are not complaining abi. biko dont spoil market for us.

0hsisi:

I don't mean to mama Calabar

I thunk u meant Mamaput.

LMao. There are always words written on the wall but most women tend to ignore. Like david said a man that really cares abt u will rtn your calls or txt within an hr no matter how busy he might be. Altho i am fussy abt meeting his family esp if they live in naija but atleast he must be willing to introduce you to few of his friends. I think us women need to smarten up when it comes to these men. I also agree with what chika said if a man really loves n wants to be with he wud excited and even tell all his friends abt u. His friends will knw abt u even before u meet them. Yea, i have been stupid too in the past but trust me something will open ur eyes n if your eyes do open pls do not ignore it. Its good to talk to ppl abt ur relationship esp if u dont understand it urself, other ppl will see what u refuse to see. Infact this is why i dont blame some women that dont put all their eggs in one basket. Lol. Life is a biatch.

TOPE2000!:

LMao. There are always words written on the wall but most women tend to ignore. Like david said a man that really cares abt u will rtn your calls or txt within an hr no matter how busy he might be. Altho i am fussy abt meeting his family esp if they live in naija but atleast he must be willing to introduce you to few of his friends. I think us women need to smarten up when it comes to these men. I also agree with what chika said if a man really loves n wants to be with he wud excited and even tell all his friends abt u. His friends will knw abt u even before u meet them. Yea, i have been silly too in the past but trust me something will open your eyes n if your eyes do open pls do not ignore it. Its good to talk to ppl abt your relationship esp if u dont understand it urself, other ppl will see what u refuse to see. Infact this is why i dont blame some women that dont put all their eggs in one basket. Lol. Life is a biatch.

So very true.

With experience one learns.

@Ohsis
Where are you getting this lists sef
sebi you don dey marry.

But thanks sha. . . . All these sweettalking men on my campus

i'm around. . .*majestically walking to the first page to see what this thread is all abt*

I like how the topic is specific on the Nigerian man.

If a man truly loves love and wants to marry, as a lady i guess u will know. The way a man treats u says alot. i broke up with my ex bf because he asked me to marry him but actually wanted to get married because he wanted his papers sorted and i almost fell for it, so even when a nigerian asked you to marry him, make sure its for the rite reasons, now i just lie to guys that ask me out that my paper isnt out yet, if he truly want me, he would stay. My friends have also found themselves in same position, these will start with questions like lets travel and ofcos your answer will determine your status. Women have to be careful nowadays. shine ur eyes wella.

stillwater:

I like how the topic is specific on the Nigerian man.

enu e bi specific!

ebonyz:

If a man truly loves love and wants to marry, as a lady i guess u will know. The way a man treats u says alot. i broke up with my ex bf because he asked me to marry him but actually wanted to get married because he wanted his papers sorted and i almost fell for it, so even when a nigerian asked you to marry him, make sure its for the rite reasons, now i just lie to guys that ask me out that my paper isnt out yet, if he truly want me, he would stay. My friends have also found themselves in same position, these will start with questions like lets travel and ofcos your answer will determine your status. Women have to be careful nowadays. shine your eyes wella.

As if things are not already complicated. God help the sisters in diaspora.

Ebonyeyes:

As if things are not already complicated. God help the sisters in diaspora.

Are you telling me. not all marriage proposals are REAL nowadays. Only God can help us women.

netotse:

enu e bi specific

Enu e bi opolo.

Ebonyeyes:

As if things are not already complicated. God help the sisters in diaspora.

see ur mouth. . . u ppl shld just waka pass when u see naija men jo. . .shior


on sisters in dia, there's a really cool article by this ghanian chick amma-somthing titled 'letter to african men in the diaspora' have u read it?

ebonyz:

Are you telling me. not all marriage proposals are REAL nowadays. Only God can help us women.

My dear God is in control o!!

netotse:

see your mouth. . . u ppl shld just waka pass when u see naija men jo. . .shior


on sisters in dia, there's a really cool article by this ghanian chick amma-somthing titled 'letter to african men in the diaspora' have u read it?

I think I have read it, quite a depressing read A damn shame.

i feel sorry for women.

davidylan:

i feel sorry for women.

You will one day have a daughter, rather than smirk about and feel superior because you are a man, try and support or help. Im sure you will not like goons doing all this to your precious daughter.

Ebonyeyes:

You will one day have a daughter, rather than smirk about and feel superior because you are a man, try and support or help. Im sure you will not like goons doing all this to your precious daughter.

I pray to one day have 2 daughters. But by God's grace i hope to teach them well . . . they will learn that opening their legs does not buy a man's love especially one that doesnt deserve it. They will learn that sometimes having no bf is more honorable than falling into the arms of an idiot just because everyone is doing it, i will let them know that most men in their teenage yrs (including urs truly) are selfish, wicked and insensitive people out to gratify our own flesh at the expense of her own emotions.

Hopefully when they are old enough, they will learn to be patient and wait for the right guy.

Most of all, they will live with me till they marry!

davidylan:

I pray to one day have 2 daughters. But by God's grace i hope to teach them well . . . they will learn that opening their legs does not buy a man's love especially one that doesnt deserve it. They will learn that sometimes having no bf is more honorable than falling into the arms of an idiot just because everyone is doing it, i will let them know that most men in their teenage yrs (including urs truly) are selfish, wicked and insensitive people out to gratify our own flesh at the expense of her own emotions.

Hopefully when they are old enough, they will learn to be patient and wait for the right guy.

Most of all, they will live with me till they marry!

Hahah, why?

davidylan:

i feel sorry for women.  

Bah. . .leave them to their pity-parties jo. . .besides if u were really sorry, u'd discharge your cooks

Ebonyeyes:

I think I have read it, quite a depressing read A damn shame.

its by N. amma twum-baah there was also one written to the men, i didnt find it depressing. . .lol

stillwater:

Enu e bi opolo.

so i now have to find a princess that'll be willing to kiss me in exchange for me asking her to marry me

netotse:

Bah. . .leave them to their pity-parties jo. . .besides if u were really sorry, u'd discharge your cooks

Will you replace them?

stillwater:

Hahah, why?

For protection.

I am loving this topic. I think other women shud talk abt their experiences too. Its a real eye opener to us women.

netotse:

so i now have to find a princess that'll be willing to kiss me in exchange for me asking her to marry me

A mumu princess.

davidylan:


For protection.

Which protection? What really matters is what you have instilled in her, not the unnecessary caging.

@ topic

I guess any man who wants to get married shouldn't waste his time with me then.

davidylan:

Will you replace them?

For protection.

sebi u were the one feeling sorry for them now. . .

ebonyz:

I am loving this topic. I think other women shud talk abt their experiences too. Its a real eye opener to us women.

i'm tired of girls acting like it's only men that know how to play dirty. . .why on sat i was literally trying to convince a colleague(former) that is supposedly engaged that me and she doing the nasty wouldn't help her get over me. . .i'm still insulting myself for taking the high road then some ppl will now come and be taccing us about us being shady. . .ta!

stillwater:

A mumu princess.

player hater(can u say that in yoruba?)