From the dates provided what do u think her cycle length should be assuming her period is regular?
Ayotemide: Surprisingly those without a uterus to their name can calculate that she is 'imposing' a child on him.
Let me educate you, Menstruatuon is a not a function of calendar dates but Cycles; which is also not cast in stone to be 28days (this is for the ones with pathetic biology knowledge up there).
I have a 20day cycle and if this girl has a month 20-21 day cycle like me she was ovulating when they had unprotected sex.
I want to wish You Op and your 'friend' an amazing fatherhood experience ahead.
You reading, save yourself the wahala of calculating menstrual cycles and use contraceptives.
assuming there is no gynaecological deficits, and her period is regular her cycle length should be approx 29days, meaning ur friend slept with her wen she was supposed to expect her menses.
Rafidi: You have se x without marriage, whether permanent or temporary (mutah) marriage. You may actually be fornicating while making the above post. How this is your problem among the ills facing Nigerian societies and the north particularly is beyond me. The codeine addiction, the teenage pregnancy, pros titution and child marriage, the fornication and almajiri problems are all not an issue the north is facing for you. You're picking on mutah (temporary marriage or concubinage) out of sectarian prejudice and to misinform, as if the society is so perfect and no se x outside marriage takes place and the only problem it has is mutah. While in reality mutah is a way and a procedural manner to avoid illicit s ex. To the acknowledgement of Sunni Muslims, mutah was practiced and was permitted in the very days of Prophet Muhammad and it is the equivalence of concubinage in the Old Testament Bible. The only difference is that Sunnis believe the Prophet later discontinued the practice and forbade it, while the Shi'ites believe the Prophet never discontinued it but the second Sunni caliph (Umar) was the one who did. Therefore Shi'ites still practice it under certain rules, conditions and guidelines, especially with widows and divorced while Sunnis do not. Yet, Sunnis engage in other newly fabricated forms of temporary se xual contracts including what is referred to as "Misyar". Most people who engage in sexual acts do not even care about following any procedural contract or form of marriage. They just strip and and have s ex. It is not the existence or absence of mutah that makes youths have or not to have s ex.
Most likely endometrial cancer or cancer of the cervix, may have advanced, prognosis is bad.. Any woman who has attained menopause but currently experiencing bleeding per vagina associated with offensive watery discharge +weight loss should visit a gynecologist.
Konji na real bastard,.. As for the pieces of meat +blood stain, she is likely to have rpoc(retained products of conception, she is at risk of suffering from sepsis + anaemia due to incomplete abortion. 1.pls take her to a gynecologist for further review, 2based on her lifestyle she is @risk of contracting std's not just hiv, hbv and hcv could be more deadly, 3.screen for hepatitis B&C, if -ve get immunized against these deadly infections. 4,let her also get screened for hbsag and hcv+vdrl. and manage accordingly 5.condoms sure pass!.. But op u still get mind do 13times let's just hope she is not in the "window" period.
Oga sule flex � Jare, its not easy Abeg,na ur sweat be DAT, if u can make it 50 Abeg fire down.I will rather work harder than envy another's success
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What happened to" dirty and unkempt environment as breeding sites, what about poor waste management as it affects hospital disposables. Nay he rather not see it this way he prefers to tell the story of mosquitoes found in airports and markets.. What a response!
Op pls refrain from this line of thought, As extracted from your story! " it’s like there’s a spiritual force that is holding me back, infact I’ve lost all hope there is, my situation has deteriorated into extreme". After which look "within" and "discipline" ur self accordingly,.. Its very practical and has helped me too.
phlamesG: My name is Martin (not real name), I graduated from the university in the year 2009, that’s some 10 years ago. I’m an introvert, like the worst kind you can ever think of. I think this has also contributed to majority of my problems.
At 35, one would think that I’d have a nice paying job, nice little house with wife and beautiful kids, but the rude awakening is that I still live with my parents, I have two younger siblings, the youngest just got a job with a multinational company, somewhere in VI, while the other one is a medical doctor based in the states.
My parents, most especially my father don’t miss the opportunity to remind me of what a failure I am or I have become. He once threatened to send me out of his house, if I don’t sit up and lead by example. My mum at the initial stage used to encourage me and give me words of advice, but recently she told me that she has lost her patience, that I’m trying to sow the seed of stagnation and regression in our family.
I know you all would be wondering how I got here, but from a very young age, I’ve always been known to be brilliant and academic inclined, the funny part is that I graduated with a first class(most people, especially my immediate family seems to have forgotten) from one of the top federal universities in the country, where I studied architecture.
Like I said previously, I have poor social skills, I tend to bottle up my emotions instead of opening up to people, I’ve never had a girlfriend, not because I’m not good looking but because I can’t summon the courage to approach a lady. People say I’m timid and scared to face the world.
I had a job once immediately after I finished school at a construction firm, I worked there for two good years and I saved every penny I earned, hoping to invest in real estate, but I was swindled by some persons who claimed the sold landed properties, that was close to N8 million. All my life’s savings gone, I took a huge amount of loan from my company, when I couldn’t pay back I was sacked and humiliated.
Well ever since, all my efforts at getting another job has proven futile, it’s like there’s a spiritual force that is holding me back, infact I’ve lost all hope there is, my situation has deteriorated into extreme depression as I type this, suicide thoughts keep flooding into my head, I need help please, I’d be reading the comments below, please no negative comment, like I said I’m a very emotional person.
Most likely hypoxic ischaemic encephalopathy, antenatal and birth history very important here, pls don't go to any church, don't visit traditional medical practitioners, see a pediatric neurologist, that's the only person that can help u.
Nice � one op! But I think this calculation is limited to women of "child bearing age"whose cycle length=approx 30days! It must be fairly regular as well, I stand to be corrected . A doc friend who helped me somewhile ago, put me thru some stuff may be u may trash it or find it useful.. He said "if u know ur cycle, it implies u should be having a regular cycle, but if u don't know ur cycle then to a large extent, Ur cycle is irregular. If u know ur cycle length pls ÷by 2. 3days before and 3daysafter the Value derived serves as ur fertile days.mid cycle spans between 10.5----17.5 days from the onset of menses.
Don't confess yet!!! 3 miscarriage @about 16weeks could be as a result of "incompetent "cervix", has ur wife had a surgical procedure performed "cerclage" on her @about 13weeks of any of the 3 terminated pregnancies?
He didn't force her to wear skimpy clothes, sit on his lap & dry hump him until his preeq gasped for air. He was on his own all of a sudden he saw himself being dragged to a room, his pants removed, a condom worn on his preeq before he blacked out only to be woken with series of slaps & kicks.