Bro don't feel bad you still have all it takes to be successful,try and mix-up with the right people,especially in the church,also make good friends it helps in life.

VoltageDivida:


Bro how do you do it?
Am 25 and it worries me a times that I've never dated, though I feel good been single.

He is gay.. lol... don't even envy him

Date a girl now at your age and watch as someone else marry her in less than two years. Date when you are ready to marry

It's possible, it is the way you're raised, you living location and environment. no friend/ brother to teach you .


but my advice is this.....

start making female friend from your school / church


move with some guys but not notorious guys

a responsible one can teach you what you don't know ...


not your fault, you don't just know how

makky555:


Makky

am Godwin..cud u send ur watsapp number to me..??

U don have any problem jare....u are only experienci g change just like nigeria government....as time goes on change will change again......

Vibesking:

Throughout my teenage years I never indulged in anything that is remotely considered as youthful exuberances. No parties.. No hangouts.. No rebellion.. No fun.. No girls.

I'm what you'll consider as a pretty decent kid. Been always studious and devote. I felt those stuff were distractions and a waste of time. so I was always buried in books and church activities.

I thought being uptight and serious would make me "successful" . Unfortunately.... It appears I might have been wrong. I see my friends who practically live in orgies and revelries enjoy life and still have things work fine for them. So I guess screw seriousness!

Recently I've been having a strange feeling of emptiness. I read up some books and most suggested that lack of love/companionship can be a major reason for feelings of emptiness.

It then dawned on me that I've never asked a girl out in my entire life. I've never dated. I never thought it was a big deal and I pretty enjoy my company alone. I assumed I'll get a girl when am ready for marriage. But hey... I don't even know if I'll be alive that long (tomorrow isn't guaranteed).

I've recently been feeling very lonely .. do you think it's a problem I've never experienced relationship with a girl at my age? I'll be 23 next year.

I don't care about intimacy cus you can easily get that without dating no body.

Constructive suggestions please

Nothing is wrong with you

Hmmm.... Not compulsory and necessary..
Keep ur E-cards coming... Just tap the link on my signature

U seem like a nice guy, I think u need that female companion, even if u don't date her, I think u need to have a close female friend and also improve on ur activities like hanging out with ur friends more. Just improve ur social life. But don't abandon ur studies too.

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Throughout my teenage years I never indulged in anything that is remotely considered as youthful exuberances. No parties.. No hangouts.. No rebellion.. No fun.. No girls.

I'm what you'll consider as a pretty decent kid. Been always studious and devote. I felt those stuff were distractions and a waste of time. so I was always buried in books and church activities.

I thought being uptight and serious would make me "successful" . Unfortunately.... It appears I might have been wrong. I see my friends who practically live in orgies and revelries enjoy life and still have things work fine for them. So I guess screw seriousness!

Recently I've been having a strange feeling of emptiness. I read up some books and most suggested that lack of love/companionship can be a major reason for feelings of emptiness.

It then dawned on me that I've never asked a girl out in my entire life. I've never dated. I never thought it was a big deal and I pretty enjoy my company alone. I assumed I'll get a girl when am ready for marriage. But hey... I don't even know if I'll be alive that long (tomorrow isn't guaranteed).

Well you need to look deep and ask yourself the question: who are you and what do you want. In the end when you look back and have regrets or not you will only have yourself to blame or praise not others, whatever the case may be

I'm just like you,but I don't feel lonely,being serious and focusing on the most important things in life pays in the long run,you may not necessarily see it too soon but it's very much rewarding.

I can't say I haven't had a crush before,but at a certain point in my life I discovered it was just a big waste of time.Put all your energy in improving yourself,and stop prioritizing having the so-called "healthy" social life.

As long as I'm not up to the marriage age,I don't give a damn about relationships.I find happiness in being successful and achieving great feats,not something so irrelevant to me at this age.

[quote author=Vibesking post=63551105]
Throughout my teenage years I never indulged in anything that is remotely considered as youthful exuberances. No parties.. No hangouts.. No rebellion.. No fun.. No girls.

I'm what you'll consider as a pretty decent kid. Been always studious and devote. I felt those stuff were distractions and a waste of time. so I was always buried in books and church activities.

I thought being uptight and serious would make me "successful" . Unfortunately.... It appears I might have been wrong. I see my friends who practically live in orgies and revelries enjoy life and still have things work fine for them. So I guess screw seriousness!

Recently I've been having a strange feeling of emptiness. I read up some books and most suggested that lack of love/companionship can be a major reason for feelings of emptiness.

It then dawned on me that I've never asked a girl out in my entire life. I've never dated. I never thought it was a big deal and I pretty enjoy my company alone. I assumed I'll get a girl when am ready for marriage. But hey... I don't even know if I'll be alive that long (tomorrow isn't guaranteed).

I've recently been feeling very lonely .. do you think it's a problem I've never experienced relationship with a girl at my age? I'll be 23 next year.

I don't care about intimacy cus you can easily get that without dating no .

Bro seriously u don't have any problem, we are in the same shoe the only difference is that I have many female friends I relate with. The worst thing is to look down on urself. Feel free to relate with anybody. Sometime when I feel lonely I will go to environment of informal people just to make myself happy for a while,i laugh and go back to my home. I don't worry about anything I just focus on my goal and pray to God. Just focus and don't get distracted when the time come u will surely have ur wife. 116... Believe. That's my motto.

Bro seriously u don't have any problem, we are in the same shoe the only difference is that I have many female friends I relate with. The worst thing is to look down on urself. Feel free to relate with anybody. Sometime when I feel lonely I will go to environment of informal people just to make myself happy for a while,i laugh and go back to my home. I don't worry about anything I just focus on my goal and pray to God. Just focus and don't get distracted when the time come u will surely have ur wife. 116... Believe. That's my motto

life of an introvert. I was once in your shoes.

Do u play bet9ja?

Ikmontana1:
am Godwin..cud u send ur watsapp number to me..??

No I couldn't Godwin dear

Vibesking:

Throughout my teenage years I never indulged in anything that is remotely considered as youthful exuberances. No parties.. No hangouts.. No rebellion.. No fun.. No girls.

I'm what you'll consider as a pretty decent kid. Been always studious and devote. I felt those stuff were distractions and a waste of time. so I was always buried in books and church activities.

I thought being uptight and serious would make me "successful" . Unfortunately.... It appears I might have been wrong. I see my friends who practically live in orgies and revelries enjoy life and still have things work fine for them. So I guess screw seriousness!

Recently I've been having a strange feeling of emptiness. I read up some books and most suggested that lack of love/companionship can be a major reason for feelings of emptiness.

It then dawned on me that I've never asked a girl out in my entire life. I've never dated. I never thought it was a big deal and I pretty enjoy my company alone. I assumed I'll get a girl when am ready for marriage. But hey... I don't even know if I'll be alive that long (tomorrow isn't guaranteed).

I've recently been feeling very lonely .. do you think it's a problem I've never experienced relationship with a girl at my age? I'll be 23 next year.

I don't care about intimacy cus you can easily get that without dating no body.

Constructive suggestions please

Op
merry xmas and happy new year

Vibesking:

Throughout my teenage years I never indulged in anything that is remotely considered as youthful exuberances. No parties.. No hangouts.. No rebellion.. No fun.. No girls.

I'm what you'll consider as a pretty decent kid. Been always studious and devote. I felt those stuff were distractions and a waste of time. so I was always buried in books and church activities.

I thought being uptight and serious would make me "successful" . Unfortunately.... It appears I might have been wrong. I see my friends who practically live in orgies and revelries enjoy life and still have things work fine for them. So I guess screw seriousness!

Recently I've been having a strange feeling of emptiness. I read up some books and most suggested that lack of love/companionship can be a major reason for feelings of emptiness.

It then dawned on me that I've never asked a girl out in my entire life. I've never dated. I never thought it was a big deal and I pretty enjoy my company alone. I assumed I'll get a girl when am ready for marriage. But hey... I don't even know if I'll be alive that long (tomorrow isn't guaranteed).

I've recently been feeling very lonely .. do you think it's a problem I've never experienced relationship with a girl at my age? I'll be 23 next year.

I don't care about intimacy cus you can easily get that without dating no body.

Constructive suggestions please

Op
dating a girl will not make u full..............thank you and loneliness?? baba roll with your friends na who knows, maybe one of their sister may cite you.

1samm:
bro I was once like you... there
is notn wrong wit being alone for now since that is not part of your priorities..
I got my first real girlfriend just dis yr and am 25 yrs old...I ve always felt dat real relationship should be more than wat is available this days so despite pressure from my friends I held my ground and today I am glad DAT I did...I ve d most beautiful girl in d world..not just facial beauty alone but beauty of d soul... just wait for d TANGIBLE and leave all dis SUPERFICIAL relationships DAT won't stand d test of time!!!

Story ,until she do you strong thing.

As for me it's always good to be a good bad boy.

I'm 29yrs old I don't have a GF let alone a serious relationship. Its no curse dude,its a decision.

Ezechinwa:


During my days in the University at FUTO, I was exactly like you, I always read programming books. Today, I work with one of the leading ISP providers, I am an Android and IOS engineer and also a member of the Facebook team. I am 26 yrs old too. so my brother, be successful at what you do, women would come later.

I don't regret my actions now.

I'm also like you bro, currently in 400L, I love coding, in fact am a web developer, and I aspire for more when I graduate.

Can I get your email?

makky555:


No I couldn't Godwin dear

ok den..cud u tell me ur Facebook acct name..?

My first bang i was a 14yrs old boi but am still cool n doing wel it depend on you life is all about capacity

Vibesking:

Throughout my teenage years I never indulged in anything that is remotely considered as youthful exuberances. No parties.. No hangouts.. No rebellion.. No fun.. No girls.

I'm what you'll consider as a pretty decent kid. Been always studious and devote. I felt those stuff were distractions and a waste of time. so I was always buried in books and church activities.

I thought being uptight and serious would make me "successful" . Unfortunately.... It appears I might have been wrong. I see my friends who practically live in orgies and revelries enjoy life and still have things work fine for them. So I guess screw seriousness!

Recently I've been having a strange feeling of emptiness. I read up some books and most suggested that lack of love/companionship can be a major reason for feelings of emptiness.

It then dawned on me that I've never asked a girl out in my entire life. I've never dated. I never thought it was a big deal and I pretty enjoy my company alone. I assumed I'll get a girl when am ready for marriage. But hey... I don't even know if I'll be alive that long (tomorrow isn't guaranteed).

I've recently been feeling very lonely .. do you think it's a problem I've never experienced relationship with a girl at my age? I'll be 23 next year.

I don't care about intimacy cus you can easily get that without dating no body.

Constructive suggestions please

With all advise given. If you still don't feel it is cool. Go get your own experience and your story. This is one thing you can collect/get/borrow from anyone.

22 years? even if U wait till u're 40 dat doesnt guaranty U gonna be succesful dan dose havin gf's even b4 ur age...
so what's d fuss all about? y'all been waiting till U're 28-30, 'Who E Epp?

haymekus:


I'm also like you bro, currently in 400L, I love coding, in fact, am a web developer, and I aspire for more when I graduate.

Can I get your email?

I decided to venture into programming during my 200 level, funny enough, I could spend my feeding money buying books, although my GPA dropped from a 2.1 to a 2.2, i was able to simultaneously learn Java, Php, IOS and Android Development and also finish with a 2.1. So, always stay positive and work hard, don't let anyone tell you, you cannot do something.

Having worked with various top IT companies, Here are some key areas you need to learn
Arrays, Computation Time, Functions and return types, JSON APIs, Database Nominalization, Designs (Web/Mobile). Cheers. if you need any advice. Let me know.

DanseMacabre:
What is problematic is you thinking whether having or not having a girlfriend at 22 is problematic.


My own problem is that I'm not a millionaire yet. Common millionaire fa.

Oshey ...... who girlfriend help ... I will trade any boyfriend
Or potential for early retirement nonsense

DanseMacabre:
What is problematic is you thinking whether having or not having a girlfriend at 22 is problematic.


My own problem is that I'm not a millionaire yet. Common millionaire fa.

Billions of dollar fall on us in 2018.

Vibesking:
Read my post mongrel.. Sex isn't my priority.!

Hope u're not ugly. Because girls don't go for ugly guys o..... Even very worwor girls dey pray 4 wizkid.....