Say na he will come finish everything after she give birth ....

CaptainJeffry:
I disagree with you. The girlfriend should've atleast sought his permission before doing any stupid thing since he didn't deny the pregnancy.

If I were him, I won't take it so easy from them.

Any reasonable girl would have done what this girl did. Mr. Projects has clearly set his priorities. His projects are more important than the girl's future. What if he decides not to marry her after delivery? Who im wan make babymama? Shift make person hear word!

Donjazzy12:

You are not a man, I swear!

real men take weed early in the morning.
Real men marry their woman legally.
Boys do hire purchase.
Even a man who legally married his wife can't arrest his in-laws not to talk of a nonsense boyfriend.
In my family we will treat his fuckups in every sense of the world.
He won't only lose the baby,he will lose his life.
Lizards forming crocodile

rawpadgin:
can't do the trad immediately

Too many projects for now

That shows you're an unserious fellow. The way you are screaming this project makes me feel you love the project more than the girl.

She was the one who took the decision to abort the pregnancy because she already sense that you aren't serious. What the hell is that project all about if I may ask?

You're the type of man that focus more on business rather than family.

JideAmuGiaka:


You have many projects at hand gulping a lot of money therefore you will only do the introduction for now and the trad will be after she give birth.

Mr project, the parents of the girl saw unseriousness and deception in you and I agree with them.

You have a point, but am not sure if is enough reason to kill the baby.

Donjazzy12:

Then men also have autonomy on whether to support her decision or not. Why do you then insist that men should take care of babies that they do not want?

Unfortunately, when the baby is born a living fully formed human being, It is no longer up to them to decide if they are going to take care of it or not. They have to. If the man says he doesn’t want anything to do with the child, it is up to him (as an opinion) but legally he has to take care of his child. so does the mom. None of them have any right then to leave the child to their fate.
Yes that may not be his wish. But he is not being made to use his body in a way that he doesn’t want to. Not the same thing at all.

However Before viability. When it’s not a fully formed human yet, the woman’s body is 100% responsible for keeping it going. She gets to make that decision. I’m sorry it’s not up to you to tell her what to do at that point.

People are signing contracts now if they agree to have kids together. that way you can influence her decision if she gets pregnant. Even then it’s not all black and white.

are you sure she is pregnant for you ?I don't think so

Do you have a proof that the pregnancy was actually aborted or they just wanted to play you?

CuriousMynd:


We know your type

Yes darling! the type that smells bullshit from 1 mile away...

rawpadgin:
Devastated is an understatement!

My girls got pregnant with my child & we decided to keep it
I went to see her parents & i told i would've loved to do the traditional marriage immediately but i have too many projects @ hand & these projects are gulping a lot of money as a result i can only afford to do the introduction now & do the trad. After she put to bed.

They assured me they would get back to me with a a good reply.
Few weeks later my girl called me that the pregnancy has been aborted. The most devastating thing is, she was pregnant with a set of twins.

As for my so-called girlfriend, it's over between us

Still thinking if i should arrest the mother

Arresting the mother for what exactly? We all know that the shed of blood (abortion) is very wrong and sin before God almighty. You did not pay her bride price, no introduction and you impregnated her, what if the parent arrest you for impregnating their daughter without their consent?. What is the girl is influenced to place charges of rape against you?? . In the first place, are you suppose to get her impregnate before marriage? Tell me the doctrine that gives such law?

Mr project sir, are you related to Governor Wike?

You can't even tell yourself the truth.
Well your actions shows you were not serious and that you would want her to terminate it, only that you didn't have the courage to tell her. They just helped you out. Go and look for someone else and when you do, be serious.
That's how people lost precious things simply because they can't set priorities.


Who agree with me on this?
This is how the girl and her family sees you now.

JideAmuGiaka:


The op is the one that will account for the blood because he stylishly ran away from his responsibility.

For people to like your comments shows there are fundamental with humans these days. Do you think the solution to his "running from responsibility"is the killing of those innocent babies?
Granted their is more to the story, but mind you ANYONE with a conscience to murder a soul is worst.

Wakandar:
Jide amu GI aka

so you left the issue at hand and this is what you are doing

JideAmuGiaka:


You have many projects at hand gulping a lot of money therefore you will only do the introduction for now and the trad will be after she give birth.

Mr project, the parents of the girl saw unseriousness and deception in you and I agree with them.

Hmm, unserious person will never agree to see your parents

Beautiful lie. Anything to cause traffic.

engrchykae:
real men take weed early in the morning.
Real men marry their woman legally.
Boys do hire purchase.
Even a man who legally married his wife can't arrest his in-laws not to talk of a nonsense boyfriend.
In my family we will treat his fuckups in every sense of the world.
He won't only lose the baby,he will lose his life.
Lizards forming crocodile

Another child. May your woman abort your child

bomasek:
Fake story alert,Mr Project is a broke dude

Good morning

cococandy:

Unfortunately, when the baby is born a living fully formed human being, It is no longer up to them to decide if they are going to take care of it or not. They have to. If the man says he doesn’t want anything to do with the child, it is up to him (as an opinion) but legally he has to take care of his child. so does the mom. None of them have any right then to leave the child to their fate.
Yes that may not be his wish. But he is not being made to use his body in a way that he doesn’t want to. Not the same thing at all.

However Before viability. When it’s not a fully formed human yet, the woman’s body is 100% responsible for keeping it going. She gets to make that decision. I’m sorry it’s not up to you to tell her what to do at that point.

People are signing contracts now if they agree to have kids together. that way you can influence her decision if she gets pregnant. Even then it’s not all black and white.

It is the same thing. You control your body, I agree, but I also have my choice. You want to keep the baby or remove the baby then it is entirely up to you to take care of the baby. A man has complete control of sperm because it is still inside his body, a woman also has complete control of her eggs but the moment their is fertilization, it belongs to both. Why then do women say men got them pregnant? Why do they hold men responsible for pregnancy since they own their bodies?

If you loved your gf and babies so much, i don't think you would use projects or whatever as an excuse and putting it before them.

Even if i do not agree with the abortion, they probably saw through you and assumed you were a time waster that would just put their daughter's life on hold not making her move forward or backwards.

You have money gulping project,yet you forget 'family' money gulping project and was sleeping with her till she got pregnant. Your hand is not clean from the murder because you failed to do what would have kept those lives. It's not all families that can withstand pregnancy without traditional and white wedding.

aDEOetREGE:
Op,

The best revenge is moving on

How do u move on?

1.Be better in your career and finances and other areas
2. Find a more beautiful girl to marry, Fix wedding and do IV...make sure u personally take the IV to that girl’s mum and dad. When u reach, drop down from ur Jeep and prostrate..tell them u have come to invite them. Give them money for tfare
3. As for d gal wey abort, don’t block her on any of ur social accounts so she’d use her eyes to see the new beauty u are ringing...

Thank me later

What if she becomes more successful in future and he becomes less successful never look down or gloat , he should just move on with life

rOsy247:
Although I don't support abortion but dude are you serious? Arrest who? For what exactly? Did you pay her bride price? Or is it because they didn't arrest u for impregnating their daughter outside marriage? Imagine!!!

who dey arrest for getting someone pregnant?

na wa o....na force them force the girl?
the girl na pikin?
abeg kill that mentality... don't get pregnant for a guy outside marriage and start thinking of arrest o..the only arrest you can get is financial support.
I don't know when grown up women became babies that won't know they will get pregnant having unprotected sex...

JideAmuGiaka:


You have many projects at hand gulping a lot of money therefore you will only do the introduction for now and the trad will be after she give birth.

Mr project, the parents of the girl saw unseriousness and deception in you and I agree with them.

dis is not a problem if they had understanding. If u investigate dis, u'll discover dat church n positn in d church is behind d parents' decision.

rawpadgin:
Devastated is an understatement!

My girls got pregnant with my child & we decided to keep it
I went to see her parents & i told i would've loved to do the traditional marriage immediately but i have too many projects @ hand & these projects are gulping a lot of money as a result i can only afford to do the introduction now & do the trad. After she put to bed.

They assured me they would get back to me with a a good reply.
Few weeks later my girl called me that the pregnancy has been aborted. The most devastating thing is, she was pregnant with a set of twins.

As for my so-called girlfriend, it's over between us

Still thinking if i should arrest the mother

If this happened then you are a self centered son of a bitch. To even think of arresting the mum shows how stupid you are. What sort of men are we breeding in this part of the world? Why don't you make marrying her one of your projects? Anuofia...

Donjazzy12:

Another child. May your woman abort your child

another overgrown baby.
How can he call his girlfriend his woman as if he paid her dowry?
Should use dss to arrest the girl's family because of his failed attempt to cut corners.
As for you the Don of I.diots,i don't have time for devil's advocates like you

Wow!!! Twins.....the parents must be idiots to allow the girl to make that call.

Some women dey find just a child and they killed twins because they felt he was not serious,honestly they must be mad!!!

rawpadgin:
Devastated is an understatement!

My girls got pregnant with my child & we decided to keep it
I went to see her parents & i told i would've loved to do the traditional marriage immediately but i have too many projects @ hand & these projects are gulping a lot of money as a result i can only afford to do the introduction now & do the trad. After she put to bed.

They assured me they would get back to me with a a good reply.
Few weeks later my girl called me that the pregnancy has been aborted. The most devastating thing is, she was pregnant with a set of twins.

As for my so-called girlfriend, it's over between us

Still thinking if i should arrest the mother

you really dumb.. arrest your shitty projects

JideAmuGiaka:


You have many projects at hand gulping a lot of money therefore you will only do the introduction for now and the trad will be after she give birth.

Mr project, the parents of the girl saw unseriousness and deception in you and I agree with them.

I don't agree with what the parents did, but Mr Project, just as advice, continue with your projects, nonsense

engrchykae:
another overgrown baby.
How can he call his girlfriend his woman as if he paid her dowry?
Should use dss to arrest the girl's family because of his failed attempt to cut corners.
As for you the Don of I.diots,i don't have time for devil's advocates like you

Weak

mukhcech:
Boss, you have no right to arrest the woman. Bear your losses and find a woman to marry.

abortion is illegal so yes he has a right to arrest that woman.

JideAmuGiaka:


You have many projects at hand gulping a lot of money therefore you will only do the introduction for now and the trad will be after she give birth.

Mr project, the parents of the girl saw unseriousness and deception in you and I agree with them.

Don't mind the player. What does it take to get legally married? He was intending to dump the lady after delivery, obviously.

Just the family y d mother just the mother include d uncles n aunties