₦airaland Forum

Hia ... leave my mentality for me na.... btw happy belated val... hope u didnt spoil it with your uptightness

MarieSucre:
Y'all really came into 2021 with this stinking mentality.

How càn she explain formation of abstract nouns madam english....

Whay does your mind tell you is the right thing to do...take mirror use ask yasef

Hmmmmm madman sorry madam correction fluid, i really don't understand how my nonsense interests u....

MarieSucre:
What type? This is 2021 for God's sake. How can you still be typing such nonsense?!

Doesnt he have a twitter handle....the insults here he wont directly get em.... fools in human flesh

Chaiii see my kind of person... i even go d extent of putting any girl o want to marry to some tests and no going back when they fail... if she has failed in the list of things u want in a woman,
No pity, just set up properly with some cash and tell her to continue life from there...

TheAviator2000:
I really need wise counsel and will try to make this post as short as possible

My girlfriend and I have been together since 2015. I left Naija in 2017 and since then, our relationship has been more of long distance except for the one time I came back. While I truly love her and wish to Marry her, there are some things that are giving me concerns and I would like to hear other people's perspective:


1- When I met my girl in 2015, I was an unemployed graduate wrapping up my NYSC. She was a fashion designer/Tailor and didn't have any formal higher education (University Level).

2- Fast forward to 2021, I am a consultant in a fortune 500 company and have grown so much in any measurable aspect of Life. My girlfriend is still a fashion designer and not too long ago, I helped her get a shop in Lagos and Have been sending her steady allowance (at least average of 40-50k a month).

Here are the things that have given me a lot of worries:
1- I know everyone will not get a formal education and I am fine with that but my girl has not been hustling/pulling her weight in her chosen career despite my extra support.... I sometimes get the feeling that all she wants is to get married and get comfortable but I want an industrious woman. Formal education or not, I want a woman that can hussle!

2- Recently, I pretended to be unemployed because of Coronavirus just to see if she would send me some money (even if its 10k) or really, anything she can afford. Looking at the fact that I had always supported her month after month, I wanted to see if she would do the same for me.
I pretended to be unemployed for almost a month and did not receive any form of financial support from her. Even when I directly asked her to loan me small money, she would play it off by saying something like "I go write you check for 1 million sef".....

I am thinking of breaking it off at this point by slowly letting her go but before I do that, I want the perspective of people here.
Please, no insult! I am genuinely seeking your insight. Be kind!

ps. My family are doing really well and I support anything they do. I have never neglected my family in anyway, shape or form.

One of my owerri people... nwanyi oma if u get to her and shes in owerri... hint me up lets ho give her a lil love and let her know there is more

Deborah98:
Guys we need to stop her,hello young lady where are you? like can anyone here visit you,I'm in owerri. If you are do let me know. Please I'm begging you don't kill yourself,I'm passing similar situation now but it's fine. Please and please don't

She looks like the type that would elope with another .... hope she comes bk

Hmmmm choose dress sense? Don't go and have him dressed like the limpopo guy

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]His D.

**rights eyes**

If he's generally good-looking, I don't mind about the other parts of him, but if I have to choose: hairstyle, beards, dress sense.[/color]

Omo na so one use her hand dial my number just to make sure i got her number .... i don call like twice and she still no pick ...straight to delete

debbydams:
Rip, I almost did when I was in school �, I tat of My mum nd I moved on, now if any guy breaks up with me I find it difficult to cry, all I do is beg for 3days or a week after a week your fada nio, I don't v space in my hrt to fall � in love again, if it works good nd if it doesn't we meuuvv nio

i tell u....love no b by force but na d eyes of man and the curiosity that comes within.... wanting a secret taste of what u already have...(lust) we confuse for love

Dem no go kii person

merieam16:
U no thank God say dey no call dis one actress cos very girl na actress 4 bloggers eye lolz

Too many ajee butters these days

Must she be identified as busty? Look for another description

No need ...i conclude... same same or even worse

xtocom:
[color=#990000][/color]Amin's eight years of reign in Uganda was characterised by autocracy, with negativism.
high-handedness,untold hardship, arbitrary arrest/illegal detention, brutal killings, insecurity, massive corruption, cronyism, dwindling economy and many more, his regime was highly associated

let me compare it with ours them I will be back!

A case of very little(pee pee wise) sorry low self esteem

Dont mind hanty chewbeka

ProfessorBerlin:
Happy chewing. aunty chew with pride

Man proposes God laughs

Am stuck with a perfect empty brained 10....so thanks for the offer but i guess d next person after me will be ....

Echoki ooooo

After all these...make i come carry bad belle dey live my life? Mehn no time ooo.... make i chop first

Na just god save man for this kind rubbish that year... thanks to those quack chinko tattoo artists

Hmmmm nude na nude na....i no even see reason anyone go wan use am to blackmail me ...make me popular baybay!! In king julians voice

Lol many things

backT:
You be chairman for that matter oooo

And its supposed to be news

See panla see lovey dovey....musa open that gate joor make i comot

Hmmm even u want to initiate doggy with ur babe after romancing still dey difficult sometimes talk more of no romance... how she take wet for there to ease penetration? Many questions tho am not saying rape is good ooo

Aww i love this

What if the so called after death judgement will be on the fact that you did not enjoy your sex life properly and because of that u will go to hell? This is the life we are guaranteed with at the moment ...why not live it to your fullest...?? Live make others live

Organsmuggler:
mad oh

and u r organsmuggler.....hilarious

See wetin chop your money like that.... fear no even catch u make u no kill person pikin when she come...allow make chop joor....make she fit add flesh small

My brodaaaa if only they understand the everyday war africans dey fight

ThreeEyedRaven:
Them go call us African monkeys because they have no clue of the hardship we face everyday

See only four years turn my guy to orangutan.

God punish hardship